I remember being kind.
Someone declared:
1. Have the right to have children, no marriage.
2. Have the education, dont care if the person is a problem child.
3. The person asked for help, then clearly said 'so what about your college, you have a job under the age of 20, a big achievement'.

years later without the college degree.
the problem child has the degree instead.
i keep losing my job, the degree person in other field wants it.
the other person declared 'i have bills to pay, car and children, fire the other person'. that other person is me years ago giving way to problem child.
I say, yes give to samaritan house. because i lost my job by not declaring 'i am a remedial student and problem child'.