5 types of men women hate

[Jimbo]

Now lets talk about the 100 bitchy things women do that men DON'T write articles about because they dont piss and moan all day about useless crap.

:)

[Rita_S]

Why is cheap listed?

[nestgoat]

they hate men but love money. no money no honey.

[happyClosedheart]

Been with many women, and even being married before much trouble in the flesh as written.

Single is sublime happiness , for me and others to say the least, especially all the more in these haughty and hurting times.

Relationships are a dime a dozen and happy actually isnt often like people clapping.

[Purple Gurl]

Trent Smackems wrote:

There's a book called The Female Brain in which the scientific feminist author posits that women communicate better than men.
A better way to phrase that may be "women communicate more than men."
Informal studies show that good brief male communication is like "audio chocolate" that triggers the female brain's pleasure centers.
The Gettysburg Address at 256 words isn't too shabby. And slow rap songs take it to a whole 'nother level, nowatimsayn.

Well, a study was done which seems to indicate that part of the corpus callossum (the white matter in the middle of the brain which connects the two halves, think of an electrical junction box) is larger in women, allowing more traffic to flow between the emotional part of the brain and the language arts center. Basically a number of men and women were given CT scans while concentrating on a reading selection. Everyone had activity in the left hemisphere in the language arts areas. In some images I have seen, it appears to me that men had maybe slightly more activity on the left side. But what they didn't expect to find was that 90-95% of the women also had increased activity on the right side of the brain in the emotional areas.

So what does the above signify in simple terms? Consider the stereotypical spousal argument:

"I hear you fine."

"No, you just aren't listening."

"I am listening. Maybe if you didn't act so over sensitive, and didn't nag, and stopped reading stuff into what I say, maybe we wouldn't be arguing."

"Well maybe if you cared about me and actually tried to understand me, we wouldn't be arguing."

---
Okay, you get the picture. The female communicates more with her emotions and assumes guys do that too. The guy tends to be more "logical" and doesn't communicate with the emotions as much. So eliciting an emotional response and not getting one back, the woman may feel ignored, not cared for, or misunderstood. For the guy, those details are mostly irrelevant and isn't a normal part of his thinking process. And when emotional content enters the conversation, he may be bewildered when the woman makes conclusions based on information that is irrelevant to him. It appears to him that she is making stuff up out of thin air. So she accuses him of not listening or at least not understanding, and he accuses her of being petty or reading stuff into the conversation that is irrelevant or not there.

If you are emotionally "blind," then being berated for not "seeing" doesn't help. And if you have more emotional ability, then you feel deprived when others ignore what comes from your emotions. A lot of guys like to fix things, and just fixing the physical does not fix the emotional. And I guess in the emotional sense, women like to fix things too, even when they are not considered broken by the other party. And that can feel like an accusation or an intrusion to someone who does not value those things.

And yes, I generalized a bit above.

[hump]

Laura Beth wrote:

Gloria , you hit the nail on the head. I agree

is your aunt pamela

[hump]

good woman looking wrote:

you guys if you want a good woman,hook up with me,i can cook and have a brain,i can also wear you out all night long,so you better get some viagra.i do have cure for that when you get here,i will come and pick you up if you like?dont be scared,am for real,can show picture,i look like pamela anderson everybody tells me that,but my boobs area little bigger than hers and mine are real thing.so if theres a real man out there come on lets meet

be at dodge store sun. 9am by the phone i've got what you want about 9.5 be there you will luv it i no you will 100% good night.

[kareana]

GHT wrote:

I thought they hated all types. All woman are inherently lesbian. It's the penis and money that attracts them to men.(in general, sure there are exceptions to the rule, I don't need to hear from you)

hehe ,good post.greetings.

[Living in McKeesport]

nestgoat wrote:

they hate men but love money. no money no honey.

Not true, at least not in my case. When I met my boyfriend (we've been together for almost 5 years now) he had no job and was driving his Mother's car. I have my own money. I don't need a man to swoop in and rescue me and pay my bills and buy me nice things. I can do that for myself. I want someone I can share my life with, that I can trust, that has a sense of humor, that I can be myself with. Money doesn't matter, you can always get money. Love is hard to find.

[centereach ny]

i read this article and it seems to me after reading these 5 types of men women are supposed to "hate" suggest that it is the woman that want men to be subservient to them and do as they say.
kinda of like getting your cake and eating it too.
sounds a little hypocritical to me....

[Ferrerman]

Purple Gurl wrote:

<quoted text>
Well, a study was done which seems to indicate that part of the corpus callossum (the white matter in the middle of the brain which connects the two halves, think of an electrical junction box) is larger in women, allowing more traffic to flow between the emotional part of the brain and the language arts center. Basically a number of men and women were given CT scans while concentrating on a reading selection. Everyone had activity in the left hemisphere in the language arts areas. In some images I have seen, it appears to me that men had maybe slightly more activity on the left side. But what they didn't expect to find was that 90-95% of the women also had increased activity on the right side of the brain in the emotional areas.
So what does the above signify in simple terms? Consider the stereotypical spousal argument:
"I hear you fine."
"No, you just aren't listening."
"I am listening. Maybe if you didn't act so over sensitive, and didn't nag, and stopped reading stuff into what I say, maybe we wouldn't be arguing."
"Well maybe if you cared about me and actually tried to understand me, we wouldn't be arguing."
---
Okay, you get the picture. The female communicates more with her emotions and assumes guys do that too. The guy tends to be more "logical" and doesn't communicate with the emotions as much. So eliciting an emotional response and not getting one back, the woman may feel ignored, not cared for, or misunderstood. For the guy, those details are mostly irrelevant and isn't a normal part of his thinking process. And when emotional content enters the conversation, he may be bewildered when the woman makes conclusions based on information that is irrelevant to him. It appears to him that she is making stuff up out of thin air. So she accuses him of not listening or at least not understanding, and he accuses her of being petty or reading stuff into the conversation that is irrelevant or not there.
If you are emotionally "blind," then being berated for not "seeing" doesn't help. And if you have more emotional ability, then you feel deprived when others ignore what comes from your emotions. A lot of guys like to fix things, and just fixing the physical does not fix the emotional. And I guess in the emotional sense, women like to fix things too, even when they are not considered broken by the other party. And that can feel like an accusation or an intrusion to someone who does not value those things.
And yes, I generalized a bit above.

Purple Gurl, you make a lot of sense.
However, I was watching SportsCenter.
What's for breakfast?

[Commander Noodle]

This is an India Times article.
( India population = one and a quarter billion people ).
I don't think their problem is with the men they hate .

[clone benson]

most never love there parents,and would make bad marriages, go figure, thanks to woman's rights, hehehhahahehheheheee,there left to there own demises

[Mainline Florida]

weaselovercome wrote:

She loves me because:
I'm handy with house stuff.
I make an effort to hear what she's saying.
I'm the one that cooks for her. She likes the healthy meals I conjure up for her. Her strenght does'nt lie in the kitchen; it's anywhere
Mr. Grabasstic can worship his godess' body.
I love her because:
She is practical, thrifty, and does'nt care about my money.
Somewhere in there part of her brain is male. She loves college football, English Premier League soccer and track and field.
She lets me own the remote, but she's got veto power.
When my buds come over with their crazy wives, miss prim and proper can curse like a sailor. Does'nt take much: a shot of absinthe, Jaeger, or ALOT of wine. Booze makes her silly like me.
She holds her liquor incredibly. She never gets sloshed.
And her most important quality: How many women do you know that LOVE watching The Three Stooges with me and the guys? My friend's wives are starting to watch also. We're unveiling to them the esoteric mysteries of malehood...

My husband's friend told him I was a keeper when he found out I like the Stooges. nyuk nyuk nyuk

[BC in Chicago]

gloria wrote:

Lazy
Liars
Dominating
Bossy
Abusive-Verbally, Emotionally, Physically
Mean
Bad Hygiene
Jealous
Cheaters
Insecure
Childish
Selfish
Couch potato
Demanding
Picky
Grouchy

That leaves only a handful!

[BC in Chicago]

nestgoat wrote:

they hate men but love money. no money no honey.

Oh, I see you met harley homely!

[Hiawadda]

that27th one wrote:

Oh, sorry it was 'types' of men...so the types that I love are:
1.great lovers
2.wicked sense of humor
3.good cooks
4.very handy around the house
5.frequent lovers

Now you're talking! The very title is too stereotypical for me to seriously reply, but you came up with a good one here.
I love men! I am married to a good one, and have a father, brothers and a son; all who are 'good ones'. I have male friends who are 'good ones' too.

[Caffeinated]

I can only think of two:

Men with bad character.
Men that want moms instead of wives/girlfriends.

[Hiawadda]

Astaire and Rogers wrote:

<quoted text>
True Love is only in the movies. In my travels, I've never seen a truly happy married couple. They do have their moments however.
The surface show is for other people. Prestige, good image, impress girlfriends. There's a very strong pecking order among women. It's very important to look good to their girlfriends. They'd almost kill each other for that envied position among their peers. Sometimes they do.
A Happy married couple is sometimes like an alpha male and female.
Sex and power and popularity.
If they have their fill of those 3, they might be benevolent to their subordinates.
Just calling it like I see it, and believe it or not - heard on psych radio.
Psych radio also said women lie alot more than men, and are more
2 faced. Like I really needed a radio program to tell me that? LOL!
Still, there's no profit in getting angry and bitter about it.
That's what they are - get used to it. Guys would kill for them,
so there's a strong need for them.
I think the trick is not to get too wrapped up with your "true Love." You'll always be let down by the lack of perfection.
Have your personal space and time, but have mutual times you come together. It's easier to stomach the nags that way. Oops! Just kidding. haha

I have to respectfully disagree with you here. I have had the privilege of being witness to over a dozen good marriages in my own family ,(including my parents ), and many others in my communities. ALL of them 40 plus years. Of course there were rocky times for them all; and elation, and sometimes heartache. I've watched these folks stick to their commitments through thick and thin, raise their families and sometimes help raise their grandkids, and span careers. I see them more in love and cherishing their spouses than they ever have been, and their all in their 60s, 70s and 80s now.
From that perspective your observations seem petty, shallow and humanistic to me. Not that they don't exist, and perhaps that is what you have been exposed to and therefore report.
What makes a good mate for ANY person is one who shares your PRIORITIES. If the priorities are what you state in your post, you are right that the marriage will be a shitty garden, full of want and deprivation.
Shared values and a propensity for honesty, will make a prince out of any man.

(Because EVERY single person on this earth has the trait and ability of beauty.)
Hope you've had a good weekend.

[Caffeinated]

The perfect man...
Has good character.
Is the calm in the storm.
Knows how to be a gentleman.
Is a loving father.
Can make my knees weak, just by looking at me.
Is playful.
Can kick someone's butt, but chooses not to.
Is my best friend.