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Lao girls and white guys

I have to agree with your comments that Lao girls date white men for money and for what they think a better life than with another Asian man. And cuz of that I see what I see in SD and pretty much other cities as well I would guess. So maybe the girls not ladies deserve what happens later on. Well, it's their future, their journey not mine but didn't like what I saw. You Lao women really need to think n use your brain. Work for what you want and then maybe you will enjoy life. Don't like stupid and as a wanna be maid just feed what white people already think of Asian women okay. No one will respect you if you cannot respect yourself.  (Jul 14, 2009 | post #29)

Lao girls and white guys

can be a liar or maybe not, that's her issue but why defend those type of people and trash Asian men. If you had a unhappy relationship so what. I've had many and you don't see me going after a white chick and trash Asian ladies do you. Grow up and grow up fast. Be and date who you want be don't and I mean don't come back to Asian men after you get trashed by what I call white trash. Why talk and put us Asian men down and than come running back???? I'm not going to teach you why Asian couples work out most if not all the time meaning 95% of the time. Your old enough to know all this unless your a teen. This tread was about why Lao girls degrade themselves and date white people when you know all they want is sex and will never marry you. Your a lease to them and once they are done with you they will just return you back to the world as a stupid used tramp and maybe with a kid as well. I know all this 1st hand so don't say I don't. Four of the ladies I personally know here in SD dated white guys. Some rushed in and got married but ended in divorce after 3 to 4 years. Others dated and acted stupid did everything only to be trashed. I might not know you nor care what you do but I don't like to see what I've been seeing and hearing. Sorry to care for another Asian. I don't allow anyone to trash Asian's unless your one as well. Other race will never understand and know but will go around telling you that they do know and care and you girls fall right into that.  (Jul 10, 2009 | post #27)

Lao girls and white guys

did you even take the time to read from the beginning? If so what is your point here? Yes you and everyone else have the right n freedom to do what you and when you want. No one here is trying to control you so your comment is pointless. If anything we being Asian men are defending you. Also where was it stated that you should only date your own kind. Are Lao the only Asians on earth? No there are other race as well correct?? Why don't you read every post then reply back. Again I personally don't give a rats ass who you date but do care that you date other race for the wrong reasons. Yes I do care that most if not all white heads have this thing about dating Asian girls and to get in their pants and thats all they want. When its time to be serious and settle down you will be trashed cuz they will not settle with you. Sure there is that 20% chance so again if you want to play that game go right ahead. No one is stopping you. You seem to give non Asian guys so much more respect but when it all goes wrong you run back. And even after reading that one comment from a white person you still defend them. Just make sure you never come back to Asian guys again and continue to date them over n over n over again.  (Jul 9, 2009 | post #24)

Lao girls and white guys

well than be happy that your in the other 20% but what is your point? Are you blind or just don't want to amit what I've said to be true. Do the math and it will show what I've been saying. btw: congrats if you are truly happy with who you are with.  (Jul 9, 2009 | post #23)

Lao girls and white guys

look white man, ugly man and whatever you are. you can't get a white chick with cuz your ugly right. so now you go after the Lao/Asian girls by telling all your BS. You can say what you want but I bet 10 to 1 everything that your said is all BS just like you and most if not all you red neckers. Now to all the Asian girls that read this tread. You now see what I've been seeing for the longest. Don't think you can change them or believe that they are going to cuz they said so. Anyone can say anything but actions proves what words cannot. I guess its right to blame the girls as well. Why do you put down or think the Asian men are nothing? In the end you come back running to us but don't bother if this is how you think. I oersonally have never and will never date a aisan girl that dated a white man. Why you ask? well read all my comments and you will get your answer. hate it or not, disagree or not, it is what it is and has been proven too many times for any one to argue. white guys like asian girls but never will they marry you and give you the love/respect you wanted. some I know did get married only to divorce in a matter of an yr or so. She walked away with nothing cuz she was stupid. If you want to play around go for it but don't think for one sec. that we asian men want to be with you in the end. Take the risk live with the result and deal with it.  (Jul 7, 2009 | post #14)

Lao girls and white guys

is that why your here saying all this [email protected]&t? If you want to get personal come to SD and say it to my face. Your all that behind a PC and thanks for proving my point. you white or red necks need to be with your own kind. My sister, can you read if so read ^^ than post your comments. If Lao girls are slutty not sluty learn to spell if your going to talk s%@t. 10 to 1 your a ugly loser going around hitting anything that has a hole. don't your mom have one so go hit that haha!!!! Okay so back to the topic. If that is how Lao girls are than so be it. This is all new to me and feel sorry for the way they think and act. Be how you are if that makes you happy. I will make sure to pass around what white people think of Asian's in general and quote the red neck here.  (Jul 6, 2009 | post #9)

Lao girls and white guys

I agree to most of what you said except for the part of Lao girls/people in North Cal. I’m from San Francisco and there are not too any Lao or Thai people really. Not like So Cal where there are all over the place. Must be the weather as I am sure they prefer warmer clement. As I said, it was a shock to see what I’ve seen so far and what I’ve been hearing as well. As you said, education and being independent is not what they were taught by their family given their background I guess. Still that’s no excuse as my life was not any better. Education is free in the US right so can’t use I got no $$ BS. The sad part is that you are feeding them what they already think they know of Asian’s and which is also why they are how & who they are. It’s a shame too cuz a yr or two from now you will be older and most likely with a kid or two. Who would want you with what will you have to offer? So to all you Lao ladies out there reading but not replying back. Have some and I mean some dignity for urself. Stop going around thinking white people are better than Asian’s cuz they’re not at all and you will be like the rest shortly with nothing to show for it except for a kid that you need to care for alone. Sure there are about 10% of interracial couples that works out but that’s one game I would want to play. If all you care for is money than go for it and get what you can if that is the type of person you are. If money isn’t everything to you and you’re looking for love than stop and think before you do anything. Go work for what you want and stop looking for someone to buy it for you. Besides, when it’s over you take nothing with you. It’s like a lease right, you will end up giving it back in the end short or long term it doesn’t matter. Only if you all act the way you look. I think most of the Lao ladies I see are attractive so Please act the part and have some respect for yourself. It’s hard to respect a person that acts like a maid if not a slave. Get it?? Organized Chaos, thanks for your post and info. You got it right on the noise about fascination and being exotic. Asian women are just that and after they get you and have their fun. You’re left outside with nothing and they will just go on to the next one as they always do. As I said and I’ll say it again in case you miss it. Think before you do anything and why are you all rush into it anyways. Take your time, be friends first and see where that goes what’s the rush. I hope everyone of you in this board can take something I said and use it for a better life.  (Jul 4, 2009 | post #6)

Lao girls and white guys

Being Asian but not Lao I just don't get it. Also given that I am from up North and been in San Diego for about 2yr. Don't get me wrong here as I really have nothing against white people in general but just look at how/who they are. Most if not all of them don't what to date their own kind cuz they want that control over the women. Also I've seem the disrespect that they are towards Asian in general. Why eat and date Asian then right but to them its all about the control and thinking and looking down at Asian. I do see and know now that Lao girls don't care to work or have the education for a better job. Not their fault as from what I've been told, they spend their better part of life caring for the parents/family. Still stop degrading yourself and have some respect. I'm just so surprise to see so so many single's walking the streets.  (Jul 2, 2009 | post #4)

Lao girls and white guys

just wondering why most if not all Lao girls in San Diego seems to date only white guys. my guess is that these girls only do thinking that they are going to be well taken care of and not have to work. Sad very sad that Lao girls think like this really. I see so many single mom's here in SD it's just too sad. Truth is it will never work and these girls seem to run back thinking that any Asian guy will accept them with a kid now. studies have shown only 20% of these type of relationship works out. Sorry but stop rushing in and trying to trap these guys by having a kid. Go work like everyone else and maybe than you will have a better life and not be single at 30++ walking around with a kid.  (Jul 1, 2009 | post #1)