Want To Get Kinky? How About Cuckoldry?
I've gotta say, that little article presents a very limited, inaccurate view of cuckoldry. There are a lot of ways to look at the fetish. In my experience, men who are into it very rarely use a chastity belt and don't even always watch. It can run the gamut from submissive men who watch and are humiliated or are forced to participate to men who simply know their wives take other lovers and take pleasure in that. That being said, it's a VERY popular fetish. I talk to lots of men that want to discuss their experiences and fantasies about their wives being with other men in all kinds of scenarios from mild to extreme. Those calls can be so incredibly hot for me! I haven't had a lot of time to post on here lately but this particular subject fascinates me. I'll try to keep up on this one but I invite any guys that have this fantasy to explore it by reading erotica about it or talking to someone like me that is knowledgeable and into it. Kisses, Tricia http://www.quality phoneservices.com/ tricia xoxTricia69@aol.co m (Oct 7, 2009 | post #4)
Girl wanting to chat with other girls
if you're talking to me, I just do phone... you can order from my site if you want (Jun 21, 2009 | post #8)
Females.. Do you like the idea of randomly hooking up and having sex?
I LOVE the idea. I just wish I believed it could be safe enough. Even condoms aren't complete protection so I limit my hooking up severely. I HATE my practical side :-( (Thank GOD for phone sex!) (Jun 21, 2009 | post #4)
Girl wanting to chat with other girls
I love doing calls with girls... http://www.quality phoneservices.com/ tricia (Jun 21, 2009 | post #4)
I suspect there is a lot of truth to the idea of how men train themselves - whether it is a physical or mental thing or, most likely, a combination of both. I fully believe that if a man bothers to take it slow and be in control when he masturbates, it will make it easier to take it slow and be in control when he's with a woman. It seems to me that there are men who believe they are in control of their orgasm and men who believe it "happens to" them. I don't think there are two kinds of orgasms, I think there are two kinds of men/attitudes. I only know how it sounds on my side of the phone. I have a LARGE sample group for THAT study ;-). But, I don't have the equipment so all I can do is guess/infer. I'd like to hear from the guys if that sounds accurate. (Apr 7, 2009 | post #346)
Do men love promiscuous girls?
Not all guys. It depends on how realistic the guy is about it all and, in my opinion, has to do with his self-confidence. (Apr 7, 2009 | post #63)
That being said, Pamela and Flyboy, what do we say to the guys whose wives won't talk openly about these things? I used to be sort of black and white on the issue but now I see it as more complex. Women are FAR too often unreasonably closed-minded about men's sexuality and sexual needs. Saying that these men should 'fess up when it might very well be the end of their marriage or marital happiness and stability is kind of like suggesting they throw the baby out with the bath water, yes? This issue is very frustrating and baffling to me. I wish men were better equipped to educate their wives/lovers on the reality of their sexuality so real common ground could be found but their shame and our culture makes it nearly impossible sometimes. (Apr 7, 2009 | post #74)
I think it's between the spouses. For most people anything sexual, emotional, and/or intimate outside of the relationship that is purposefully and willfully kept secret from your spouse is a problem whether you call it cheating or not. If you're doing something that you would have to lie about if your spouse became suspicious, does it matter if you call it cheating or not? How does it help anyone if a bunch of people in an online forum tell you, "no, it's not cheating" if your spouse isn't going to see if that way? And if s/he isn't going to think it's cheating, why not just talk about it? I've heard of some relationships with a "don't ask, don't tell" arrangement about such things but I can't understand how that can work - don't you have to have an understanding about what's allowed in the first place? Not the kind of opinion you might expect from someone in my profession. But, I do draw lines - I never solicit someone who is married/involved to have phone sex if it's not something they're already doing. (Apr 5, 2009 | post #71)
Do men love promiscuous girls?
I think it depends on how you define promiscuous. Of course a guy doesn't want to do anything but sleep with a girl if "promiscuous " means she sleeps around - because that's all she's there for, too. (Unless it's a cuckold arrangement) But if promiscuous means she HAS slept around but is in a relationship or wants a relationship with a particular guy, if she has self-respect and he respect her and has confidence in himself, it's entirely possible for a guy to like a girl like that and enjoy her for her experience and love of sex. If a guy is secure and self-confident enough, he can really have something wonderful with a girl who has a great love for sex. As long as promiscuous does not equate with dishonest (which I don't think it does), a man who is in a relationship with a girl with a lot of sexual experience is going to have a REALLY good time. (Apr 5, 2009 | post #29)
has anyone masturbated over high heels
That's my husband's thing - I have a closet overflowing with high heel shoes- many of which have never made it out of the bedroom ;-) He sends me pics he takes with his cell phone of women he sees in sexy shoes when he's out. Professional women who wear super high heels make his day. People think I'm one of those women who buys too many shoes but really, I never was until I started buying them with him - and none of them are practical! (Mar 29, 2009 | post #3)
from the author, a "sexologist ": "guess what?A woman can have an orgasm and not be at all aroused." Not at all aroused? Hmmm... that seems like a leap. I can see having an orgasm and being less aroused than other times or having an orgasm and still not having a fulfilling sexual experience but - not at ALL aroused? Still, it's a worthwhile point to be made. Men think that if a woman has an orgasm, he's done a good job. I'm sure it sux to be a guy and find out that even if you're getting her there you might not be doing it well enough! (Mar 28, 2009 | post #2)
Housing Location - Please Help
haha, isn't that the County with all the school problems? if so, there should be plenty of news articles - google should be able to provide you with a lot of the information you are looking for. (Mar 24, 2009 | post #12)
Housing Location - Please Help
I don't know that area AT ALL but the closer you are to the airport, the more I would be concerned. I don't know of anything near the airport being a really good area. (Mar 24, 2009 | post #10)
Why do some guys feel the need to crossdress?
haha, should have had my coffee before getting all verbose, huh? The subject kind of revs me up, I guess... (Mar 24, 2009 | post #6)
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