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Anna, IL

Turtle Tat Girl at Boswells

She hates men. If you are a man, dont waste your time  (Aug 22, 2011 | post #4)

Anna, IL

What does cheating say about you?

it seems we have a lot of "pros" in the area  (Aug 16, 2011 | post #6)

Anna, IL

What does cheating say about you?

sad. so very sad. when i was with the last guy, i loved him so much that i couldnt even fathom the idea of being with someone else. I was happy enough with him and didnt need the attention of anyone else. His was the only attention i needed. too bad he didnt feel the same  (Aug 16, 2011 | post #4)

Anna, IL

What does cheating say about you?

I'll tell you what cheating says about you and your character but first, you have to ask yourself, do you love the person you are with? If so, how do you know? Can you really define love in the emotional sense? How does being in love make you feel? I dont think people take the time to really ask themselves this and this is one reason people get married for the wrong reasons. Getting married for the wrong reason does not equal love and in a lot of instances, means they will cheat because they are not happy or are unfulfilled. When you cheat, you are not only hurting someones feelings or causing someone to mistrust you but you are cheating yourself. You are cheating yourself out of a meaningful relationship. Why waste your time sneaking around when you can just end things with the one you are with and seek out someone you know in your heart and soul that you will be with forever? Is it because you are weak and dependent on other people? I think so. I also think you are afraid to be alone. Maybe on the outside, you are a "big boy", masculine and such but on the inside you are screaming and a scared little girl. Maybe you are just a thrill seeker and want to get caught. IF that's the case then you are an asshole and cant be trusted by anyone. I bet you have friends or family members you've pushed away because you are too afraid to get close or because you are an asshole or maybe you just dont know what it is to love. Sorry but there are no classes for that. You just have to stop being selfish and get your head out of your ass. Of course, you will have to want to. I cant make you want to. When you tell someone you love them then turn around and cheat on them you are lying to yourself and to the one you are with and again, cant be trusted by anyone, You shouldnt trust yourself. Do you really think there is any excuse or any reason to be forgiven to cause mistrust with someone who loves you and maybe dedicated their lives to you? Do you think that if that person is stupid enough to give you a second chance, they will still look at you in the same light? I dont think so. It will take a lot of trust building and that can take years. Not saying it's not possible but poor you and poor person you are with. That is no life to live. Everyone deserves to be happy. The key is finding happiness and not settling for something or someone you think you have to be with. If that's the case, you are better off alone  (Aug 16, 2011 | post #1)

Ullin, IL

yard sale today in ullin

On grove street till 4pm  (Jul 16, 2011 | post #1)