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Kingsport, TN

Non Traditional Lenders

I do some freelance work for Associated Content, and I am currenly doing an article on non-traditional lending sources. If you have an experience with Title Max, a payday lender, pawn shop, or some other "non-traditio nal" source, please send me a PM, I would like to ask you some questions for my article. If you aren't comfortable sending a PM, please feel free to post your experience here. Thanks.  (Aug 28, 2011 | post #1)

Salem, VA

Non Traditional Lenders

I do some freelance work for Associated Content, and I am currenly doing an article on non-traditional lending sources. If you have an experience with Title Max, a payday lender, pawn shop, or some other "non-traditio nal" source, please send me a PM, I would like to ask you some questions for my article. If you are not comfortable sending a PM, please feel free to post details of your experience here. Thanks.  (Aug 28, 2011 | post #1)

Big Stone Gap, VA

Anyones experence with Title Max

I do some freelance work for Associated Content, and I am currenly doing an article on non-traditional lending sources. If you have an experience with Title Max, a payday lender, pawn shop, or some other "non-traditio nal" source, please send me a PM, I would like to ask you some questions for my article. Thanks.  (Aug 27, 2011 | post #7)

Big Stone Gap, VA

Biggest Man Whor

Honest One, my answer to that would depend on my child's alledged situation, whether or not my child had children, could they afford to support their child without the other person, and why exactly do they think they are unhappy? If they are just "bored" I would tell them to grow up a little because they will just get "bored" with the next one, and the next one, etc and I personally don't want to have to go through the emotional time and drama geting use to new spouses, signifigant others, etc for family holidays just becuase they want to "trade up" or "trade down" because they are "bored" or "unhappy ". If they are unhappy because the spouse is abusive, I would help them move out that day, and probably go kick that person's butt; I mean, after all, I am old and have lived my life, have nothing to lose and I figure if I have to go to jail to stop someone from abusing my child at least I wouldn't be homeless :) So my answer to your question would depend on the situation. In general, if there is no real physical or mental abuse going on, I would encourage my child to stay and try to work it out if they have children. Now, if they are unhappy because the other spouse is cheating, if it is the first incident, I would encourage them both to go to counseling and try to work it out, especially if they have children; if their spouse has cheated more than once, or has a habit about lying about other things, or has a drug, gambling or other addiction problem, I would say call your cousin, the one that's an attorney and I would do everything in my power to help them leave. Sorry to be so negative about those with addiction issues, but you cannot save or change an addict, you have to get out of their way until they crash and burn so bad and hit rock bottom so often that they either wake up and get help for themselves or they die. Unfortunately, too often than not, they die. I've watched the slow motion death and buried too many family and friends from those issues to not know that is the bitter truth.  (Aug 24, 2011 | post #197)

Big Stone Gap, VA

Biggest Man Whor

http://theweek.com /article/index/995 12/the-last-word-h e-said-he-was-leav ing-she-ignored-hi m  (Aug 23, 2011 | post #192)

Big Stone Gap, VA

Biggest Man Whor

Love is friendship that has caught fire. It is quiet understanding, mutual confidence, sharing and forgiving. It is loyalty through good and bad times. It settles for less than perfection and makes allowances for human weaknesses. -Ann Landers Loyalty and devotion lead to bravery. Bravery leads to the spirit of self-sacrifice. The spirit of self-sacrifice creates trust in the power of love. -Morihei Ueshiba If having a soul means being able to feel love and loyalty and gratitude, then animals are better off than a lot of humans. -James Herriot Do not let loyalty and faithfulness forsake you; bind them around your neck, write them on the tablet of your heart -Proverbs 3:3 Family means no one gets left behind or forgotten. -David Ogden Stiers I have a family to support. And I'm not always going to be doing exactly what I want to do. -Patrick Warburton The only rock I know that stays steady, the only institution I know that works, is the family. -Lee Iacocca Spend some time this weekend on home improvement; improve your attitude toward your family. -Bo Bennett  (Aug 23, 2011 | post #189)

Q & A with Thats Just Lovely

Hometown:

The Forest

Neighborhood:

The AT

Local Favorites:

TheGreenbelt,ChadwellGap Trail,HensleySettlement,Benge's Trail,LittleStoneyFalls,BearRock, VaCreeperTrail,CumberlandFalls,Guest RiverGorge,TheBreaks.

I Belong To:

my own self, my children, the outdoors, God, my hopes and dreams.

I'm Listening To:

the birds and bugs outside

Read This Book:

"Traveling Light" by Max Lucado

Favorite Things:

my children,hiking,reading,painting, writing,video&board games,praying, motorcycles, butterflies,flying kites,horses&any beach.

On My Mind:

For I am the LORD, your God, who takes hold of your right hand and says to you, Do not fear; I will help you. Isaiah 41:13 NIV

I Believe In:

Miracles, Kindness, Hope, Patience, Perseverance and Love.