Apr 29, 2007
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It has been a while since my last posted comment, since my last comment Ms Aguilar has pleaded guilty to her charges, However she is only serving 18 months straight in state facility. Yea 18 months I know that don't seem like much for waht she did. We are serving a life sentence for her actions. The holidays have been the worst I couldn't find myself in the mood but my girls had a great one Santa did make a visit. It will be Lisa's birthday here soon and then her anniversary 1 year. It still feels like yesterday How I wish so much I could turn back time and go back to that day but I kno it is the impossible. But I know that Lisa is definetly in a better place. I miss her much very much but I know she still with me in my heart. I want to thank all of those that had nice kind words for me & my family please keep us in your prayers. (Jan 15, 2008 | post #35)
I stayed away for a long time it has really been hard for myself and my family. The holidays are the worst I had such a hard time I couldn't even get in the mood, not even for my daughters, although Santa did make a visit. Lisa's Birthday is coming around the corner she would have been 35 years old I miss her very much we all do. Her anniversary is nearing too it is so hard to believe it going to be a year since she was taken and it seems like yesterday. I feel sometime that this is just a dream and Lisa will ring my phone soon, or that i will be scooping her up from her job just don't seem real. Thanks to all who have Blessed my family with your kind words. Sonia (Jan 14, 2008 | post #46)
Well it finally came guys. We had our day in court its ot what we wanted. She pleaded to 18 months in state jail facility. I hope they send this freakin bitch away from Houston. I wish there was more to give her as you well know where I stood on this. I obeyed the law and we only got 18 mo but i think if we would have went to trial she might have got off we would never know. but I am ok for now. I am glad that she is getting some jail time. She will never know what she took from me and my family. I wish i could have expressed more to her in the court room but I would have probably been escorted out and I couldn't do that to my mom or my dad. we have lossed so much to this and the aguilar family sat there and cried, for what you still have your daughter she is alive and in 18 months you can hug her physically see her smile. Please dont express your apologies our way. Monica didn't have the deciencey to say I AM SORRY to us she would'nt even look at us until i told her to look at me. I bet you are sorry now!!!!!! I have to go to much anger right now!!! (Sep 26, 2007 | post #44)
No Ms Aguilar , she is still free as a bird walking around smiling it just seems like she has not done anything wrong, You can hear her from the behind the door when we are in the court house shes laughing anf joking with her family while we are sitting there to see if & when justice is going to work for Lisa. Thats how it is right now (Sep 17, 2007 | post #34)
Thanks for your kind words, It has been really hard I only hope my sister is resting and not worrying about us down here, I know that would be hard for her not to do because all she did when she was here was worry about all of us as we did her. But I know she is being cared for by the best where there are no worries only happiness for that is the only thing I ever wished for her "happiness ". (Aug 27, 2007 | post #32)
WELL AS I STATED IN MY OTHER COMMENT, IF YOU HAVE ANY INFORMATION CONCERNING THIS TRAGIC EVENT PLEASE FORWARD ALL OF YOUR INFORMATION TO THE DISTRCT ATTORNEY. IF HE LIED AS YOU SAY THE WE NEED TO KNOW THE TRUTH, HELL GIVE ME HIS NAME AND AS WELL AS THE NAMES OF THE OTHERS THAT MIGHT HAVE BEEN WITH HIM WE DO DESERVE THE RIGHT TO KNOW JUST WHO HAD A HAND IN LISAS' DEATH. ALSO.............. .. THANK YOU FOR YOUR CONDOLENCES I MISS LISA VERY MUCH NO WORDS COULD DESCRIBE THE FEELINGS THAT I HAVE OR SHOULD I SAY THE FEELINGS THAT I HAVE LOST BECAUSE OF THIS. I COULD SAY THAT I AM NUMB BUT THAT WOULD MEAN I DO NOT HURT BUT I HURT EVERYDAY EVERY HOUR THERE IS NO DESCRIBING THIS FEELING. I JUST MISS HER AND I WISH I COULD JUST HUG HER AND TELL HER I WILL NEVER LET YOU GO... (Aug 8, 2007 | post #30)
Well I can see there is alot going on, Sorry I have not replyd I have not had a chance. First of all to "u know me" I do appreciate your condolences if they are sincere, but if they are just words to get back @ your husband & Monica I would appreciate it if we might talk about that on a private level. If there is some truth to what you are saying I only ask that you take your information to the DISTRICT ATTORNEY the phone number is in the phone book. If he indeed lied while he was on the stand then I would greatly appreciate your information to be forwarded to the DA. Also if you know who the rest of the people were that might have been with them that night then I also would appreciate you giving those names. If you really want to help me & my family that would be a great assistance to us. it would bring JUSTICE for LISA. To all thank you for your nice & kind words me & my family are trying to cope it does not get easier everyday as many say. Maybe in time but for me it is not happening. We are set to attend court again on Friday 8-10-07 we will see what transpires. Once again If YOU HAVE ANY INFORMATION PLEASE COME FORTH WITH YOUR IDENTITY & YOUR KNOWLEDGE & GIVE IT TO THE DA! (Aug 8, 2007 | post #40)
Let me re phrase my statement from above, My weekly trips to the cemetery will remind me how not so "good" of a family they were. I guess anybody could be nice, And I am sure to many believe they are very nice, but to me I just don't care. Being nice has nothing to do with what happen that night. (Jul 15, 2007 | post #28)
You know lori you can say what you want to me and to whoever else who will listen, A parents love is unconditional and I would do what ever i had to to help my kids, just like I always done for my brothers & sisters. I do blame the family not for the accident, but for the fact they had the opportunity to turn Monica in but they chose not to and I do not know why but I really do not care. I guess they did what they thought was right for them. You know it is very hard for me everyday to not hear my sister's voice on the other end of the phone I look at her picture and ask why, this I do everyday. So I do not want to hear what good people the aguilar family is because I do not care. Hell I am a good person, My sister was a great person that was taken before her time you're right about htat. I wish I could change the start of 2-16-07, I would have just picked her up from work like I did the day before I miss her terribly and nothing nothing that you tell me about the other family will ever change my mind, because I make the weekly trips to the cemetery that reminds me of what not so nice people they were. Tomorrow willbe 5 months that Lisa has been gone and yes I will be at the cemetery rain or shine and I will again be reminded. (Jul 15, 2007 | post #27)
Lori, well since you decided to make a comment, like I have always stated, your family memnber caused this and maybe you do understand the anger, but honestly if it was the other way around how would you feel then? Can you answer that. You are right I do not know the family, but what I do know is on the night of FEBRUARY 16, 2007 where was that nice sweet family, hiding the nice sweet girl? Remember my sister is laying 6ft under, yes I am angry and my comments well what would you like me to say, I forgive because right now it aint going to happen. Once again maybe if she would have stayed with Lisa instead of leaving her there, held her broken hands just so she could feel warmth while all her warmth was leaving, instead she left he there to die. Lisa didn't deserve that. That is the hardest thing to think about she died with out feeling someone by her side your family member could have just held her hand and told her I am sorry I did this too you. Maybe I would feel diffrent. (Jun 27, 2007 | post #24)
to you pacman well I am sorry about your family member. So your killer is still out there, how do you feel? They have family too and they most likely know that they have a killer among them, but I don't think there gonna turn them in. So you see I was in the same situation, The person that killed my sister was hiding and her family knew it. They came foward 1 week later. So I am thinking you know the anger I feel. and yes I am gonna direct it toward any one helping the other person. And for my comments being biased, HMM let me see what would you do and say if the person who gunned downed your cousin and after all this time try to say I am sorry , it was an accident, is that going to be good enough for you? You see the justice system has chance to work for Lisa, and all of the hit and run victims out there because your right they often unsolved but this one we have a chance to make right for the victim, MY SISTER. (Jun 27, 2007 | post #21)
To you the cousin of who ever the hellyou are, That may be tru to you, However you are not visiting a cemetary every week are you? I am, And for 1 comments I make at this time may not be what you want to hear, but that is exactly how I feel. Your family member caused all this. What if she would have just waited, why didnt she? Who knows maybe I would feel diffrent if she did. BUT SHE DIDNT. And now she has to answer for what she did, and that is where I hope the justice system works for the right reasons. As for her family, well from what i understand is that they all knew where Monica was the very same night, but they didn't turn her in, they didn't say we are sorry, theyre lawyer did, a week later after Lisa was in the ground. So you can say anything you want to me about your family I don't give a crap about how they are, or how nice they are, All I know is that on the night of FEBRUARY 16, 2007 they were not nice good people, because they had the opportunity to answer to the police, but they didn't, did they?! And that is ok. Because I know my sister died a great, honest person who didn't deserve to lay there and die the way she did. Your family member left her there always remember that. (Jun 27, 2007 | post #20)
Well as stated above Monica Aguilar was indicted on both counts. I again only hope that the justice system works for Lisa and not for the other person. I can no longer express what I feel towards the other person, because she might think that I am making a threat at her. You see she told her lawyer that I did and now I have a complaint against me. So I am no longer say her name or any bad things because I want to see her face in court when they start showing pictures of Lisa, and when they talk about all her trauma that her body took at the result of Monica's actions. So I will jot again soon just to let you know how we are doing. (Jun 25, 2007 | post #16)
You know Peter you are right, but I can say because Lisa was my sister and right now I do not choose to forgive the person who did this. She will have her day in court because she was just indicted on both charges, of criminally negligent homicide, and failure to stop and render aid. I only hope that when they see and hear what Lisa endured those few last minutes of her life that the justice system will work for her and not against her. I mean this person could go on for years and not do a day in jail. She is enjoying herself, I see her laughing,on her cell phone, What about my sister Lisa, She is 6ft under the dirt, she will never again know what it feels like to be smiled at, to enjoy a good laugh to talk to her loved one on her cell phone. You see MOnica took that away from her. And I don't let it dictate where my life goes, I am enjoying my daughters, and the rest of my family of course we do feel lost sometime without Lisa, we miss her we all miss her but I know no matter what happens from now on it will never bring Lisa back. But let me ask you this have you lost someone like a sister, brother or a parent, or just a real close friend to an act like this? If you have have you forgave the person yet? Did it not make you angry to know that the person responsible may never pay for their crime.? (Jun 25, 2007 | post #15)
Well we went to court on Friday 6-22-07. Monica Aguilar has been indicted on both charges criminally neglegent homicide as well as failure to stop and render aid. How do I feel we I do feel a little bit better than I did. It still is not going to bring Lisa back. Now we go to trial, now wether this justice system of our is going to work for us, we who knows. I only hope. I also want to point out that I can longer make any kind of " issue " directed at you know who because it would be like I am making a threat to her. She told her lawyer that I was so now I have a complaint against me so basically I have to shut my mouth. If I am remembering right MY SISTER WAS KILLED BY MONICA AGUILAR SO DON"T THAT MAKE ME THE VICTIM? Anyway I am not going to say much these next few blogs, but I don't want anyone to forget LISA was the innocent one here, she is nl longer breathing, laughing, talking on her cell phone to the one she loves, and yet "she" MA is enjoying life. If I wanted to get to her I would have already but that is not the answer for me. I said all along that I would let the justice system work for Lisa and I am going to abide by the rules of the court and shut up., because I know in the end everyone pays when they do wrong. And when you take a life the ways my Sister was taken from us we are not the ones she will answer too in the end. (Jun 25, 2007 | post #22)
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