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Lenoir, NC

nick coffey

I make no excuses for my son. Never have, that's what his dad did which is why he continues to get in more and more trouble. Nor have I ever let him walk out of a store with anything he didn't buy, whether it was on the floor broken or not, that's what his dad did. So in doing so he has inadvertently taught him that its ok to take stuff that he did not earn or pay for. I have fought this seemingly insignificant fact for years with his father and those he has taken stuff from when he was younger but it never seemed to bother anyone but me that it was happening. He has been let off the hook by his father, way too many school officials,and once even stole some stuff while doing community service at a church and the pastor never filed charges, he just wanted his stuff back. So believe me when I say this, it IS the systems failure for not punishing him for wrong doing to begin with. Had he received consequences for his actions it would have never reached this point. So go ahead, tell parents they shouldn't discipline or spank their kids and time out is their only option and watch society continue to go downhill. No discipline, no changes. As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord...and my other 4 children will receive spankings when they do wrong.  (Jul 17, 2013 | post #15)

Lenoir, NC

nick coffey

I am his mother. we left his father, yes he was with me, but his father hired a lawyer for which I couldn't afford and took custody away from me. I blame our justice system for this one. You can't take a child away from his mother, especially one who breastfed for 13.5 mths and was never apart from me, and give custody to a man who has never been around children and who drinks all the time. This is what happens when money talks rather than common sense. So yes to both, I am his mother and he did grow up in a motherless home, but that choice was taken from me.  (Jul 17, 2013 | post #13)

Lenoir, NC

nick coffey

No, he is not related.  (Jul 17, 2013 | post #12)

Lenoir, NC

Caldwell County authorities investigating suspicious death

an approximate age would even help. Maybe someone has a missing family member that they don't realize is actually missing yet. Something...anything?  (Jun 21, 2013 | post #2)

Lenoir, NC

nick coffey

This "low-life " is my son and I am his mother who loves him very much. I am very sad that he is turning 17 today in jail because the juvenile system failed to see that he needs psychiatric help long ago. He was so close to being helped at New Hope in SC but medicaid says because he behaves while locked up then he doesn't need to be there. Yes, Nick has lots of issues that he needs help for but he will never get that help locked up in prison. He is not mentally or physically capable of changing his actions without serious counseling and meds which is what we hope gets done this time. You should pray for him instead of beat him down because you don't know what a kid is dealing with until you walk a mile in their shoes or at 15 months old become forced to begin growing up in a motherless home.  (Jun 21, 2013 | post #2)

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Know anyone locally that can help me record a professiona...

I sing for the Lord in many places around our community and have recently had an offer to sponsor the funds it would take for me to have a professional CD made. Can anyone give me some contacts in Lenoir/Hickory area that do this for a living and could help me get this project started? Thanks and God Bless  (Mar 18, 2013 | post #1)