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Why do so many black females have fake hair, eyelashes?

Hmmmm... Well can't complain but isn't our problem is giving to much money we could use for better use than wasting it on weave, perm, and nails... In fact can't you do your own nails? Thats our problem we waste so much money we could use to invest in ourselves. Not every black woman is intelligent considering that a lot of them are ignorant or average. Then BW rely on section 8, welfare, and food stamps to much it is handy capping us and thats bad.  (Sep 21, 2013 | post #72)

African-American

Why do so many black females have fake hair, eyelashes?

Are we sure about all that? Some guys just prefer their women a certain way doesn't mean they are insecure. I don't attack women on their styles, but I have a preference which is natural and brown to dark skin. I just have a preference like any other man. Every man has a preference. Doesn't mean he has insecurities, and I don't know where you've been. The women Around here want their men to change themselves just for them. It's nerve wreaking to me, like why are you going to tell me to change myself when you don't want to change. So really this argument with insecurities is invalid considering the fact that if that was the case you might as well say white, asian, and Hispanic men are insecure.  (Sep 21, 2013 | post #69)

African-American

Why do so many black females have fake hair, eyelashes?

Hmmmm... I'm not sure if waves go that deep. I know plenty of guys who have waves but we just see as a different style that we wear for possibly a couple of months and go back to our original style. I know that's what I did I just kept it for a month or 2 and went back to my original hair. Now people urged me to get my waves back, cause they like my look with it, but I really didn't care it was like what ever for me. I'm just simple get a Fade, and edge up and be over with it. They majority of the time I don't even really brush now day unless I have to go to a special event, and I don't even brush half the time for that. The majority of boys I know are like that, and some just brush their hair cause sometimes the naps hurt. So I don't really think hair goes that deep with us as far as culture wise. If you asked me about something like how a lot of guys talk about dating a light skin girl then we got something I can agree with, but this is not the place for that topic.  (Sep 21, 2013 | post #61)

African-American

Why do so many black females have fake hair, eyelashes?

Most guys I know don't have waves, and if they do they use grease which is not chemically made. So all the dudes I know are basically natural. Waves is just a style, the grease doesn't change your texture really it just holds your hair down, and as you brush it the waves are being formed but if you are not constant the hair will not be held and just go back to not wavy, but it's still the same texture. No pomade is a chemical... Well I know one dude who has used a sort of perm to make his hair curly, but hes the only one I know of.  (Sep 20, 2013 | post #44)

African-American

Bill Cosby Tells Don Lemon Black Men Need To Raise Their ...

Even though we don't see eye to eye I can say that we have respectful debate, and thank you, and I wish you the best too.  (Sep 20, 2013 | post #176)

African-American

Why do so many black females have fake hair, eyelashes?

Hmmmm... Never really looked at the wave deal, but also its not looked at largely as women do. We just view as a style and nothing more. For a lot of women perm goes deeper than that, not for every woman but most.  (Sep 20, 2013 | post #42)

African-American

Why do black women love to suffer?

I honestly agree with 2/3 of your speech, but seems to me this forum is filled with people who have one sided views. smh  (Sep 20, 2013 | post #240)

African-American

Why do so many black females have fake hair, eyelashes?

No why would I? The topic is obviously just for women. smh  (Sep 20, 2013 | post #40)

African-American

Bill Cosby Tells Don Lemon Black Men Need To Raise Their ...

Now this is where I must completely disagree. You are not hearing the fact that I've seen mentoring change peoples lives first hand, and really you say everybody wants love not all sex is love, and it can be lust. There is a reason why it was suggested that you get married before having sex look and if you can't wait use a condom (which you omitted) the whole mess we are in is do to sex. Sex is the biggest oxymoron known to man. It is the most satisfying and most dangerous thing you can engage in. It can hurt you emotionally, physically, or mentally. Sex can shift your world. The problems we are in right now deal with sex. Babies with no father sex is involved! Women who are emotionally hurt sex is involved! People who have HIV or STD's SEX is involved! People engaging in sex before marriage has proved to hurt women and sometimes even men in a big way! Your biggest safe card with sex is marriage. Plus on top of that while you are up here giving up on our race we got people like my church who are really up here making a difference, but there is just so much ground we can cover. If no other person is up here helping their people you are just sitting up here letting the very problem you complain about rampage even more when you can do something yourself. "This is the voice of the old negroe sit ins, mysterious bombings of black owned business, am I the only witness who still feels the persistance, of the strong arm of a slave owning Christian." -Sho Baraka In other words he was asking if he's the only one still fighting. So if no one is fighting then you are just letting the race go to the dogs, but I'd die rather than sit around do nothing for my race. We have to mold fathers. I plan on helping and I will succeed in my cause as God is my witness.  (Sep 20, 2013 | post #174)

African-American

Why do so many black females have fake hair, eyelashes?

Well I did a count on how many I know that are natural and relaxed. it's almost half and half. 13 natural and 15 relaxed.  (Sep 20, 2013 | post #29)

African-American

Bill Cosby Tells Don Lemon Black Men Need To Raise Their ...

As I said, these women need to close their legs, if people closed or used a condom we wouldn't be in this mess. As far as a father like figure I know it doesn't change the absence but it can make a difference! Enough to change our future. I know many men who had no father in their life and just a father like figure who was there for them, and now they are being productive, and great fathers. So that is not impossible. It is the best alternative we have, in order to change a generation. Thing you learn is this if plan doesn't work look for a plan B our plan B is find the last of good men and have them be father like figures. Every other race does it if the father is not present. You can not say it doesn't work.  (Sep 20, 2013 | post #172)

African-American

Why do so many black females have fake hair, eyelashes?

Ugh... Cant say that ur wrong...  (Sep 20, 2013 | post #23)

African-American

Bill Cosby Tells Don Lemon Black Men Need To Raise Their ...

well your not lying but if thats the case we dont women look for mentors a father like figure for their child. I dont know if you are of Christian faith but we do have good men who could mentor at church. Thats what the women at my church do and A lot of boys at our church being responsible young men.  (Sep 20, 2013 | post #170)

African-American

Why do black women love to suffer?

As a 16 year old black man. I say this is not completely our fault half the blame goes to women as well, because they keep making babies out of wedlock which is obviously hurting them, because 1. A man is not going to stay because you gave birth to his child thats a lie now! 2. good sex doesn't mean he's in love 3. Having sex without a condom is not stupid in the first place! 4. you giving them sex leads to more irresponsibility from a man not making grow up and realize he has to marry first. So women bring it upon themselves sometimes. I also blame men to for being stupid, but women have a voice in it as well.  (Sep 20, 2013 | post #236)

African-American

Why do so many black females have fake hair, eyelashes?

I must agree the further I go on more black women who are well educated are going natural, which I really like.  (Sep 20, 2013 | post #20)