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Tazewell, VA

How Does Same-Sex Marriages Affect You?

And what is "natural " truth hurts? Just because you think it's unnatural in your eyes doesn't mean its "unnatural " to everybody. And another thing, not everything offends me and SucksAlottaCox didn't offend me, her language and throwing out silly assumptions were junking up this thread. And Conservative Girl, the President stated his religious belief that marriage to him should be between a man and a woman, but being the President and thinking about the American people he feels that same-sex couples should have the same rights as everybody else. I could care less if the President was homosexual, bisexual, or heterosexual. Just because people are for gay marriage doesn't make them gay. And I don't pay close attention to the media, because the media loves to twist truths and turn their stories into stories their main targeted viewers want to hear. If you believe it's wrong to be gay, than good for you...keep your beliefs but not everybody is as ignorant and small minded as you are. You need to educate yourself in order to understand. And your alternate lifestyle is pretty messed up if you believe anybody chooses a "alternate " lifestyle. Have a great day, and don't let life kick you down.  (May 21, 2012 | post #26)

Tazewell, VA

Tommy Mcclain

@Wants u 2 know--- I don't know this Tommy or his wife, but leave the man and his wife, and their family they have together alone. You posted you hadn't seen him since high school, than a month later you're talking about your pretend and imaginary "hookup" with the guy. Why don't women like you find single men? If another woman even tried to get between my husband and I again, I'll do more than my husband who reports them as "stalkers up to no good"---I'll beat some sense into her and show her that my man is taken so hands off. I'm very protective of my husband the same way as he is with me. And these silly women out here who want to break families up are scum to society. Plus, these silly women who believe these married men will never cheat on them---HELLO, their married, and if they're cheating on their wives with you their most likely cheating on you with somebody else. Stop being homewreckers!!!  (May 20, 2012 | post #10)

Tazewell, VA

needin sum

@Local Guy, most ladies want something more than just a roll around in the hay. There's women who want more than just a no strings attached. And there's a lot of women who have self respect and self dignity to not fall for somebody they don't even know. Before I met my husband a lot of guys would say "clean guy", but that doesn't mean anything. The way STDs float around this community it's safe to say a lot of ladies around here doesn't want to be burdened with a disease---which it's always nice to have up-to-date information on your test results. Plus, no offense, you're "strategy " to get laid comes off as though you're desperate. Women are attracted to men who are confident and secure who will walk up to them, instead of begging for hookups online.  (May 20, 2012 | post #7)

Tazewell, VA

Attention Beautiful Women: $500 for 30 minutes

Prostitution is illegal, you know. And not very many "beautiful " women are going to lower themselves to selling themselves as a sex toy to someone who doesn't even respect them. And women (yes, us beautiful ladies on here)---don't allow someone to treat you with no respect that they have to pay you for their time and attention. Yes, money is a wonderful thing to have, but be proud and work hard for the money you earn---don't let some guy pay you to give up your self pride and confidence in a 30 minute session. Don't get the reputation of being easy and a local prostitute that will do anything for a man for his money.  (May 20, 2012 | post #2)

Tazewell, VA

backdoor

@Idiotiguess--- thank you for replying to my post. And no, I don't feel as though you're stalking me and thanks for agreeing with me. I know we both have different views, ideas, beliefs and opinions on other matters but that's what makes us so different from one another. Without difference there would be no spice in this wonderful life. I can agree, talking about intimacy on a public forum on personal matters such as this is and can be very uncomfortable and extremely personal to everybody. And you set a great example to those who believe that anal intercourse is a "gay" thing that it's really not. I know some heterosexual couples who do engage in anal intercourse just for the fact they don't practice safe sex, and the fact that anal is safer than vaginal when it comes to anal. I don't believe you're gay nor your husband. You do what you need to do to please your husband. If others have a problem with what you two do in the privacy of your home that's their problem, issue, and insecurities they need to deal with within themselves. Many people who find it to be disgusting are usually the ones who enjoy it---just observations I've made over the past 15 years of my life. People find it to be disgusting and dirty---it can be if you don't use good hygiene, just like vaginal intercourse is disgusting and can be dirty. If you don't use great hygiene in your personal areas than you're gonna have "accidents " and messy situations. Men need to realize that with vaginal us women discharge, we're on our periods, and women who don't thoroughly clean down there are gonna slip up. The same goes with men---men need to clean down there (penis and testicles).  (May 20, 2012 | post #21)

Tazewell, VA

How Does Same-Sex Marriages Affect You?

@SucksAlottaCox--- although I know you were just throwing in your 2 cents, I rather you keep the profanity down and the dirty talk to yourself. Not all homophobic people are gay---it's just their taught different from others, some are very religious on the topic and don't know any better, and some people just troll the forums to start arguments and fights. And in some way it seems as though you're trying to "provoke " an argument and fight and that is not the reason I start forum topics. I do agree with some things you said about how "some" guys are homophobic due to insecurities, and yes some homophobic people men and women are in the closet and they cover it up by attacking others who are in the LGBTQ community, but we shouldn't stereotype all homophobic people with people who are on the down-low. Just like we shouldn't stereotype all blonds to be stupid, or every Christian to be self-centered and holy than thou, or every gay men to be flamboyant and every lesbian to be masculine. We cannot label people for the way some people in their groups act. And please, don't say "homophobia is gay", because that's sorta of saying that everyone who is gay is homophobic. Homophobia is ignorant, childish, and hate. There are people who don't agree or accept gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgendered, and queer in questioning, but that doesn't make someone homophobic. I have friends who don't accept the fact I'm bisexual, but the respect and tolerate that about me because I'm more than just a bisexual woman. You seem to come off as a bully in some ways, and your screen name says a lot about you as a person. If you want to tell the world you suck a lot of penis that's your business, but it says a lot about your self-respect. You said you have high-expectations and it's hard to believe such a statement, because to be a "slut" means you have no high expectations. I'm not telling you who you should be as a person, I'm just saying you should set a good example to yourself and others. And please don't plaster your dirty mouth on my topics---there's other ways to say what you want to say without using profanity and dirty language. Have a good one.  (May 20, 2012 | post #22)

Tazewell, VA

How Does Same-Sex Marriages Affect You?

Excuse me? I've never spoken to you Local Guy. My name is Heather...hence, the photo. My husband's name is Jeremy.  (May 18, 2012 | post #15)

Tazewell, VA

What It Means To Be A Proud Wiccan Woman

Truth be told, my family raised me up around Pagan roots and I've been Pagan ever since I can remember. According to tradition, I'm Jewish. And according to the fact that both of my parents are Jewish, I am also. But here's the thing of it, when one calls themselves a Pagan sometimes you tend to tell others that you're Wiccan as well. And in my case this is exactly what's going on behind the scenes. It would be safe for me to say that I am someone people would refer to as a solitary practicioner. And please, before you start throwing out ignorant assumptions of what you "think" that means don't think of shows like "Charmed " or something along the lines of "Practical Magic", please! Wiccans (Pagans), witches, people who are just like me who practice the art of magick don't practice like that, because that type of magick doesn't exist! Yes, the Book of Shadows is a very real thing, spells and the intent behind them are very real as well. We do use wands in ceremonies and spell casting as well as herbs and potions which are used for healing. I know a lot of people are probably laughing, but think about it for a moment. All pharamaceuticals are basically potions with longer names. Doctors are practical shamans with lab coats and documented papers that allow them to "practice ". Being Wiccan for me, and I stress to you just how personal the following is, being Wiccan (or Pagan really) is not really a choice. I simply am this way just the same as many people are Christians. I simply am a Wiccan the same as many people are Muslim. I am Wiccan the same as many people are without religion. If what makes you happy and spiritual in your own way that's great! What makes you feel at peace in your heart, soul and spirit, I wish all of you the best! For me being a Pagan means being connected as one with nature. For me it's being in touch with your fellow human beings, and fellow creatures. I've often wondered why people don't consider Native Americans as Pagans just because they're connected with all of these things? Many people have often asked me what makes you Pagan? Well, are you a Pagan for not following a book? Are you a Pagan if you only follow oral traditions that have been handed down from elder to junior? Are you a Pagan for not following a written set of rules and guidelines from a scroll? Are you a Pagan for respecting nature and not disrespecting everything else, including yourself? If all these things make you Pagan, then I'm Pagan true in true! I'm so proud of the fact that I love all aspects of nature, and I'm proud that I respect ALL living things and appreciate all life and everyone's rights. I'm proud that I give everyone their own space and the freedom to be who they truly are without prejudice and preconceived notions of how we should treat each other. I'm happy that I'm the way I am, and I'm even happier that all of you are the way you are. Why? Because if we weren't all different, there would be no balance in this world. There would be no variety. There would be no diversity. There would be no spice to life. I would be greatly saddened to see a lack of...options. Most of people change their religious views later on in their lives---they marry, they convert, they have religious epiphanies, and for some special reason or another they see the beauty and value of another religion. But being Pagan, for me, is the best option I can take. I'm happy to be Jewish by birth. In fact, my husband is not Jewish nor is he Wiccan---he's Christian. I love all walks of life the way they were born to be! My husband also loves me as a practicing Wiccan and although we don't share the same beliefs we couldn't be happier! Even many in our friends and social circle believe we go great together! The point of writing this is that being Wiccan works for me, and I want you all to understand that not everybody shares the same views and beliefs on life. Do what works best for you. Blessed Be, Heather  (May 18, 2012 | post #1)

Tazewell, VA

How Does Same-Sex Marriages Affect You?

Crazy: And what exactly should be on Topix, considering people have this wild obsession over talking negative about people they know and/or don't know anything about. Marriage equality is a civil rights issue that a lot of people seem to be creating controversy over. I've done a lot of observations and found that most people who disagree with it are people who have a lack of understanding and tolerance for same-sex couples based off of ignorant assumptions. So, please inform me of what should and should not be on Topix?  (May 18, 2012 | post #13)

Tazewell, VA

backdoor

@In Game...sorry, I don't cheat on my husband. My name isn't baby either, it's Heather. Please have some respect, I'm not a hoe, I'm a lady who just has great taste in pleasure when it comes to sex with my husband.  (May 15, 2012 | post #8)

Tazewell, VA

make a change today---try thinking positive

I want to ask everybody to try and be positive minded for at least one day. It's not that hard and it's easier to be positive minded than filling your life with negativity around you. Instead of talking bad about someone, try to see the good in somebody. If they have issues try being supportive of them by being a friend, understanding, and talking to them about their issues. If you see somebody being bullied take a stand and step up for them. If you see someone being abusive to a child, a parent, a sibling, a friend...stand up for that person. If you see flaws in a person stop giving negative attention to those flaws and look at the good of those people. Instead of blaming everyone for your mistakes take responsibility in your own actions, and tell yourself that you deserve better and that you can do better. There's a lot of negativity coming from a lot of people here on Topix, and I have to think to myself, "WOW, there's a lot of sad, pitiful, negative minded people around here." Does anyone even know how to be a positive minded person? Do good to others and good will come to you. Blaming someone, or being jealous of someone, or hating someone is only hurting yourself. It's not hurting other people. When you're intention is to cause pain you're receiving pain---you're repressing pain. BE HAPPY!!! Find a new hobby, find a new group of friends, go out with your family, spend time with loved ones, do whatever you can to make you happy. And instead of hating on those who are different than you, try getting to know those people for who they are on the inside and you'll be surprised how much you'll surprise yourself.  (May 15, 2012 | post #1)

Tazewell, VA

How Does Same-Sex Marriages Affect You?

I'm sorry that you feel so uncomfortable around same-sex couples. One fact is that homosexuality is not a disorder, nor is it a sickness, nor is it a choice. I'll look over your ignorance, though. Have you ever heard of the "American Psychological Association"? Well, the American Psychological Association called all practicing psychologists in 1975 to take the lead of removing all the negative stigma of mental illnesses that was associated with lesbian, gay and bisexual orientations. Here's a link to educate yourself before you speak based on assumptions: http://www.apa.org /helpcenter/sexual -orientation.aspx I'm bisexual, but I'm devoted to my husband. I never said one thing about me cheating on my husband, or having sex with women within or outside of my marriage. And trying to convert someone's sexual orientation actually does more harm to your child. As a mother, I would think that you would be understanding of your child, educate yourself to be a better mother to your child if that child knew they were gay or had same-sex feelings, and to always support that child and not make your child feel less worthy of your love and support. And we do have homosexuality in all aspects of nature. And yes, there are homosexual monkeys. Chimpanzees have been studied and exhibit homosexual and heterosexual behavior. Did you know that there are over 1500 species that have homosexual and bisexual behavior? I guess not. Here's another link to educate yourself on homosexuality displayed in animal species: http://en.wikipedi a.org/wiki/List_of _animals_displayin g_homosexual_behav ior I would say, your intelligence is blinded by your lack of understanding and knowledge, so before you "think" you know what you're talking about, try "knowing " what you talk about. Good day  (May 15, 2012 | post #6)

Tazewell, VA

backdoor

Um, what's wrong with anal? I'm a girl and unlike some of you (whom I'm supposing are just children considering your maturity level isn't showing) most girls are into anal. And there's a little thing called "hygiene ". Douches and enemas help a lot for clean anal fun. Don't knock it until you've tried it. And guys get the most out of anal, and not just homosexuals. There's a lot of heterosexual men out there who enjoy anal (and it seems to be a big trend within heterosexual married couples). The prostate is equivalent to a woman's G-spot. If you touch a man's prostate just right massaging it the right way a man will have an instant orgasm. My husband though doesn't get down like that, but if he did he doesn't see it as making somebody gay. Anal sex isn't a homosexual sexual act. Now if you're wanting anal done to you by someone of the same-sex than that would declare that you have same-sex urges, but that still doesn't make somebody gay. There's a lot of straight guys and straight girls in Tazewell Co. who experiment, yet claim their "heterosexual ", and than there's a lot of guys and girls who claim their straight in Tazewell Co. but if truth be known, a lot of bisexuals and homosexuals would be coming out of the coward closet.  (May 15, 2012 | post #6)

Tazewell, VA

Omg what happened to jamie

I don't know this Jamie woman, but I just wanted to say "sorry" to her family and friends for their loss. I had a cousin pass away (I'll leave the details out of it, because it's nobody's business but the family's business) about 2 years ago. I know how much it truly hurts to lose those who are closest to you. And another thing, a simple "I'm sorry for her family and friends" is better than bringing up theories of how the person died. It's disgraceful and cruel to talk bad about the death of someone, even if it's true. People make mistakes and bad choices, we're human, but don't slander someone's name by telling everyone the reason she passed. How would anybody on here feel if people were talking negative about somebody you cared deeply about and whom you were close to on a public forum for everybody to read? I send lots of love and warmest wishes and blessings to this young woman's family and friends. Blessed Be  (May 15, 2012 | post #11)

Tazewell, VA

How Does Same-Sex Marriages Affect You?

No Way, I'll look over your ignorance for a moment. And actually, there are queer people in the world...there are gays, lesbians, bisexuals, transgendered, and queers. In some states it is legal for same-sex marriage such as the District of Columbia (D.C.), New York, Vermont, Massachusetts, Conneticut, Iowa, California, New Hampshire, New Jersey and Maine. But you didn't tell why you think two "queers" shouldn't be married. Is it your ignorance of understanding and accepting someone who is different than you? Are you repressing same-sex attractions and feelings and you're only defense is to keep yourself away from it? Do you feel that by allowing same-sex marriages legal will somehow affect your way of living life? Do you feel it'll destroy your life and/or marriage? What's going to happen when same-sex couples are granted their rite to marry in all the other 39 states? Are you afraid that homosexuals will somehow turn heterosexual people gay (I have had many people that have said that if it becomes legal then the world will be gay)? Give me a reason? If you think it's disgusting, well there's a lot of things that I find disgusting with people who find it's okay to cheat on their spouse, beat their spouse, neglect their spouse, and if it's about the anal sex---I enjoy anal sex, so does many heterosexual and bisexual women. If you think it's unnatural, then you need to explore your horizons of research, education, and opening your eyes and socializing with other walks of life.  (May 15, 2012 | post #4)

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