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Teenagers 'Cutting' Themselves...not School

Altough in the long run people wh o cut will have to deal with the problem of cutting sometimes cutting is an excape from far greater problems. In my personal journy i no that cutting was not my only chose out there to cope but what i was feeling when i begain was far worse than any cut or bruse i could place on my skin. By cutting i was able to distract myself but not to the point where i totally ignored the problems i already had. i strongly believe that if i hadn't started cutting i would have never kept trying to fix my life. cutting was my drive to keep moving and my "drug" to destract myself from my past long enough to move on to my future. You do have a point that the last generation did drugs but in a way we all do. everytime we have a head ache or sometimes even more extream. the doctors now seem like all they want to do is sit us and give us a bottle of pills.  (May 14, 2009 | post #2477)

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Teens cutting. A cry for help

In the moment you don't always think of what happens next and sometimes you find yourself praying that there wont be anything next. I'm sure that somedays i may regret putting these scares on my body but unlike your mention of a tatto scares will faid and someday they will become just a bunch of pail white lines. I've also found that for some people the cut themselves the scares are like a bage that reminds us of what we've been through and who we are. The scares are a symbole of the chose we made and for some of us like me a reminder of why i'm still alive.  (May 13, 2009 | post #276)

Depression

Teens cutting. A cry for help

actually yes i have thought about that. but then i relized that it didn't matter. i can were any swim sute i want it dosen't stop me sure people will see the scares but if they hve a problem with them then they can just chose not to look at me. Also with the matter of a husband, if i do get marryed it will be because we love eachother and if he truely loves me her wont care that i have scares because he will love me for who i am.  (May 3, 2009 | post #270)

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Teens cutting. A cry for help

I cut as well. Not as long as you but i've seen the point you are at. You can do it but you have to set all focuse on stopping. If you want to do it without all the doctors and people putting you under a microscope. You need to be sure that it is what you 100% want cuz if not you have a high chance of relapes.  (May 1, 2009 | post #267)

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Teens cutting. A cry for help

do you cut to die?  (Dec 10, 2008 | post #253)

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Teens cutting. A cry for help

i no it is a problem most of the time but if i can use it to help me live throw my other problems then cutting is a problem im willing to add to my life.  (Nov 4, 2008 | post #243)

Depression

Teens cutting. A cry for help

when nothing is good then how can it get worse. i never said you should cut b/c people say its cool, cut to servive and to deal with life as it comes. i dont think it helps i know it helps.  (Nov 3, 2008 | post #241)

Depression

Teens cutting. A cry for help

I sort of have a similar story. I have been cutting for so long I canít even remember why I started in the first place. People always tell me how happy and lucky I am but they never see the whole picture. My hips and legs have become weirdly numb as well. What we donít have in common is that I know I need help and should look for it...but I donít want it. I am addicted but if it helps me get by so that I can make plans a week in advance instead of wondering if I will still be around then its good. It may not solve anything in the long run but for that moment it is all-ok. The world looks at people who cut as crazy or suicidal but the truth is we are better. They take their anger out on others and hold in all their "bad" feelings, but people that cut have found a way to let that out without hurting anyone but himself or herself. Itís our chose how we deal and no one should have the right to be able to take it away from us.  (Oct 1, 2008 | post #238)

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Teens cutting. A cry for help

k i dont no who u r or what u want but if scare says that she/he (not sure srry) doesn't want to seek help from god or what ever anyone wants to call it! so drop it! or give some pretty dame good evedence that jesus still loves us. u call demonds hideous and say that they live inside ppl who cut themselfs corect? y does it have to be the devil driving me to cut my legs and arms? what if i wanted it to be like this? u dont no our pain and u dont no if we just cut or if where suicidal as well...so next time b4 u go telling ppl to change how they live and to let someone/someting that we can't c, hear, or maybe not even believe in to take one thing that helps us to live each day even if in the end it might kill us, think about this...cutting is a way of life and if some one says they dont want to give it upin the way that u tell them to then there not going to exsept ur way of thinking now then its not going to happen!  (Jul 19, 2008 | post #230)

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Teens cutting. A cry for help

yea...i mean u could always turn to something like burning but i think that we will always have the craving and the need to cut. i mean someday i might be able to stop and i tryed once but it didn't work bc every time something bad happenes i found relese in blood and razors and i couldn't live without something to help me servive  (Jul 17, 2008 | post #217)

Depression

Teens cutting. A cry for help

i completly understand ur pain and what your going throw. Unfortunitly i also no that cutting is addictive and after doing it for so long to relese the pain u feel on the inside u begin to crave it. to crave the blood and bite of the razor on your skin.myself as well as some of my friend cut and everyday is an other day pushing myself to stay alive. i agree with what u said about finding something to liv for and in my experients sometimes if u find something that helps enough it or they can take away your urge to cut. its not easy and im not saying that its a sure fix but its an idea.  (Jul 16, 2008 | post #213)

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Teens cutting. A cry for help

idk i've been utting as well for a while now and i tryed stopping once 2 but it didn't work. i fine that it some times helps to tell someone like a trusted friend and if u do want help they can help u get it.  (Jul 4, 2008 | post #209)

Depression

Teenagers 'Cutting' Themselves...not School

idk it might be hard on the parents to no but in my experents its half the parents falt that they are doing this to them self...  (May 23, 2008 | post #2328)

Depression

Teenagers 'Cutting' Themselves...not School

look miss smart alick soccer mom or who ever u think u r, did u ever stop to think that teens aren't stupid...if we dont want u to no something we will find a way to hide it and we will do a dam good job of it...and if u think that hugs will stop us then y is the suicide rate for teens so high. so get ur head out of ur ass and figure it out...me dont need stuck up ppl like u saying that we cant do it cuz ur perfict...we will want to do it more  (May 13, 2008 | post #2320)