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Dec 27, 2013

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I wanna try gay sex, but i am nervous of the consequences

At 19 you are young and it is obvious that you are emotionally confused even if you don't want to admit it, everyone is in this situation is in the beginning. First off you have the choice and control of yourself as what to do and how to proceed with this. Many of us out here have had the same decisions to make in our lives over the yrs. You need to evaluate what you desire the most and if you can handle it and live with it emotionally once you get it. You stated you could be gay emotionally and not mind it, well ok this sounds a bit like you have already leaned towards men anyway in you sexual desires. In the heading of your post, you used the word "consequences ", just think of consequences as experiences, the only thing in life that is a sure thing is that experiences that you have the opportunity to have and don't take will always be the ones that you will wonder about the most. You will always wonder, " what if and what did I miss out on". You stated that you have straight as well as gay friends, so well, you have the perfect opportunity to give this experience a try and see if it is something for you or not. Openly talk with these friends and decide for yourself, ask them if they would be willing to help you explore the possibilities, then decide for yourself. If it should turn out that you enjoy the gay side more than straight, then so be it and accept it and embrace it and move on. Once the indecision is settled, one way or the other by having some experiences, you will find that a big load will be lifted from your shoulders and mind and you will find your true direction and can move on.  (Dec 28, 2013 | post #124)