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Men under 5'7 have trouble getting laid

That is true. My ballet teacher said I just to tall to continue lesons when I started to shoot up. The same thing happened to me in gymnastics. Gymnasts are really petite. I was bad at volleyball even though the tallest girls were on the team. I was just not coordinated. The same with basketball. The only sports I was good at were swimming and roller skating.  (Apr 18, 2008 | post #61)

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Do Black Girls LOVE WHITE BOYS?

Thank you so much! My Dad was stationed in Puerto Rico briefly while he was in the Air Force and I visited the island as a child. I remember the beaches being very beautiful. I wish you all of the best.  (Apr 18, 2008 | post #633)

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Filmmaker/playwright Tyler Perry says someone is stalking...

Blackinjun, I usually disagree with anything you have to say. However, I have to agree with you about Tyler Perry. I find his movies to be very ghetto, stereotypical, and not funny at all. He is making a mint from Black people's stupidity.  (Apr 18, 2008 | post #22)

African-American

Do like your lady thick?

I am 5'11" and fairly slim. I would like to have a little more "junk in the trunk".  (Apr 18, 2008 | post #21)

African-American

White man arrested for having sex with a table lol

It is an inanimate object. It can't say NO. LOL!  (Apr 18, 2008 | post #204)

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OC Creole Lady

Gross! I hate mosquitoes. My fiance installed a bug zapper on our balcony last summer. We like to eat on the balcony but the no-see-ums (a type of pesky gnat)and mosquitoes made it almost impossible. You get eaten alive. I live most of the year in South Florida and we have a lot of bugs. We have swamps and canals that breed loads of mosquitoes. We also have a critter called a palmetto bug. It basically looks like a gigantic flying cockroach. Our cats have a field day chasing them and attempting to kill them. I will be in Ireland for three weeks in May and I WON'T miss the bugs. LOL!  (Apr 18, 2008 | post #102)

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Men under 5'7 have trouble getting laid

Sensitive aren't we? I wasn't trying to hurt your feelings. I am sorry if I offended you. I was just making a point that most people don't care about height that much. Yes, there are a lot of superficial people out there. Those are people you want to avoid. We can't help how tall are short we are. My late husband was only 5'8" but that didn't make him any less attractive to me. I fell in love with the person and not his height. You are so upset about being a short man. How would you like to be a tall female? Try wearing the shoe on the other foot for a change. I always towered over everyone when I was in school. That made dating very difficult for me. Most of the males I went to school with wanted to date the petite girls. I reached my full height of 5'11" in seventh grade. Tall women are often stereotyped as less than feminine. I was called all kinds of stupid names like beanpole and string bean. BTW I sucked at sports like basketball and volleyball. I loved ballet and gymnatics, but I had to give those activities up because I was too tall. I would have given anything to be a petite 5'2" with curves instead of 5'11" with no curves. The point I am trying to make is that if someone doesn't want to be with you because of your height, then they aren't the right person for you. Some men don't like tall women, but my fiance does. You don't want a superficial person. There are a lot of women out there who aren't hung up on height. You have to keep on looking for the right one. I wasn't trying to belittle you. This is obviously a sensitive subject for you.  (Apr 18, 2008 | post #54)

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Men under 5'7 have trouble getting laid

I was thinking of Tom Cruise too Sunflower. He is only 5'6" tall. Katie Holmes is 5'9" I think. Angelina Jolie is tall. My favorite actor is James McAvoy and he is only 5'7" tall. He is so sexy! His wife Anne-Marie Duff is about the same height. I have a cousin in Ohio who is 5'6" and currently dates a woman who is at least 5'8". There is a Black doctor at one of the satellite clinics where I sometimes work at who is 5'5" and is so handsome. The nurses and patients practically drool over him. IMO There are a lot of short men (celebrities or not)who are very good-looking. I was three inches taller than my late husband. I rarely if ever wear high heels because they make me over six feet tall. I am also a klutz and trip all over the place. I nearly fell down the stairs the last time I wore heels. I usually wear flats. LOL!  (Apr 18, 2008 | post #49)

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Men under 5'7 have trouble getting laid

I disagree with your statement. There are a lot of men 5'7" and under(celebrities and normal guys)who are handsome and sexy and have no trouble getting women. My late husband was 5'8" and so is my Dad. My fiance is the shortest male in his family at six feet. My brother is 6'2" and his wife is 5'1". Talk about a contrast! I am 5'11" and have dated men as short as 5'6". I have dated short men who were well quite well-endowed. I have also dated tall men who were rather small in the willy department if you know what I mean. It depends on the individual, but I have no problem with men who are short.  (Apr 18, 2008 | post #21)

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Do Black Girls LOVE WHITE BOYS?

Puerto Rico is beautiful! That would be a lovely and romantic place to have a wedding. I dated a Puerto Rican man before I met my fiance. We are actually having one ceremony instead of two after all. My Mom was cleared to fly by her Doctors yesterday. She is flying with us to Dublin on Sunday. My brother and sister-in-law are flying over next Thursday. My fiance's family are all coming too. I am so excited! We need more Black professional women as role models. Young Black girls need to see that there are worthwhile careers they can go into rather than just concentrating on their looks and getting a man. Their minds are much more valuable. Our young girls ned to improve their self-esteem. That is a serious problem I see with our young Black girls. I used to be a high school teacher and saw a lot of young girls having sex much too soon. They aren't ready for the consequences or the responsibilites that come with being sexuallly active. There a BIG difference between sex and love. After today, I won't be on Topix for a while but I will be back. Take care!  (Apr 18, 2008 | post #628)

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Larry Elder's: STUPID BLACK MEN. Its a great book.

I accept your apology young man. I didn't mean to be rude or insulting to you either. If I offended you, I am deeply sorry. I was raised to be polite and respectful as well. Again I apologize to you for my previous insulting posts. I wish you success in everything you do in life.  (Apr 18, 2008 | post #142)

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Would you date a blk woman after she dated white?

Excellent post as usual Fly City!  (Apr 18, 2008 | post #405)

African-American

Do Black Girls LOVE WHITE BOYS?

Thank you! How are your wedding plans going? I know. I was ten years old the first time I saw that scene and I still remember it. I actually dressed up as Lt. Uhura for Halloween when I was eight complete with a toy phaser! She actually wanted to leave Star Trek at one time, but MLK talked her out of it. She was my role model. Star Trek is why I got interested in science and space. A little Black girl from rural Ohio like me could only dream of going into space. Now there are BW pioneers like Mae Jeminson. We ARE intelligent, beautiful, and desireable. Eat your heart out haters!  (Apr 17, 2008 | post #590)

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Flavor Flav Sitcom?

Hi Mack! Yes he does. An immature thug/pimp/loser/ex-jailbird. He really needs to grow up. His antics just aren't funny.  (Apr 17, 2008 | post #67)

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Would you date a blk woman after she dated white?

Your insults and put downs directed at Black American women are getting really tiresome. How many times are you going to post the same crap. You are always posting how you are directing Black American men to go to Africa for wives. Also how much better wives and mothers African women make. Belive me, hearing about how much you hate Black American women is really becoming annoying. We get it already. You hate us Black American women. We are sluts, baby mommas, ad nauseum. Just one less sexist and chauvinist BM for us BW to put up with. I don't give a rat's arse what you think. I post what I want and when I want. If you don't like it, troll elsewhere. BTW, I DO have a man. You know nothing about me so stuff it Tod. You are really a bore.  (Apr 17, 2008 | post #381)

Q & A with Kimmycat

Headline:

Dream Big and Go Boldly

Hometown:

Miami Beach, Florida

Neighborhood:

North Beach

Local Favorites:

Miami-Dade Public Library, Books and Books, Borders, Barnes and Nobel, Waldenbooks, and Blockbuster Video.

I Belong To:

I am not a joiner. I am a female geek/nerd and proud of it.

When I'm Not on Topix:

working, playing with my cats, reading as many books as I can , watching foriegn films, listening to music, just daydreaming or writing poetry.

Read My Forum Posts Because:

I am well-read, educated, and funny

I'm Listening To:

The Fratellis

Read This Book:

On Chesil Beach by Ian McEwan

Favorite Things:

Sci-fi, fantasy, my cats, alternative music, foriegn films Star Trek, British TV, politics, C-Span, Japanese Anime, Ellen Page, and James McAvoy.

On My Mind:

The status of Women, The state of the Black Community, politics, and The 2008 presidential election

Blog / Website / Homepage:

I don't have one (yet)

I Believe In:

Non-conformity, responsibility, self-sufficiency, education, imagination, life-long learning, freedom of choice, and freedom from religious dogma