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Kansas governor signs abortion clinics bill

I'm beginning to believe that you might have difficulty with your reading comprehension. I've dogs. Call me a dog lady if you like, just as you're a lady with developmentally disabled children who use them as emotional bate on forums. I don't drag my own children into other people's sympathy. Very Palin-esk of you though. You seem confused about what slut-shaming is. I suggest you google it. As for killing babies, if you ever see anyone killing a baby call the police. You support a group who kills women and doctors through outright terrorism. At least those who commit the actual legal definition of murder against women have the strength of their convictions. You, on the other hand, only care about children, not the people who have to be responsible for them. The plate that you would expect of others to step up to is different for everyone. I know you can at least read that far. I don't poop on your kids. I poop on you and fart in your general direction! Children are human beings and not sympathy cards to be played anytime you decide your opinion differs and everyone should suffer though what you have just because you have! Go be privileged in front of the "children " you "volunteer " with and teach them to hate women just as much as you hate women. Self hate is sad, and perhaps in your own vehemnt arguments I can detect just a whiff of ... what is it... oh yeah, jealousy in the women who have the strength and courage to stand up to elitists like yourself who would suggest they not make the right decisions for THEMSELVES. You make so many cute assumptions. The hands I've held have been attached to women who I cannot judge because I've never been in their shoes. I also don't believe it is my place to judge their decision. Just as I don't judge you for breeding in a world of overpopulation and mass starvation. I do, however, judge you for judging others from a perspective that could never understand the plight of others. Perhaps you're heart will be opened to the idea that women are human beings and should be helped so that abortion is REDUCED. That's what everyone wants, isn't it? Oh, and bow wow wow, breeder-lady.  (Jun 8, 2011 | post #151)

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Jilted ex-boyfriend puts up abortion billboard

I've been called many thins in my life. I've been called racial slurs and misogynistic slurs and you attacking me without anything given is just what you accuse me of. Love you though!  (Jun 8, 2011 | post #55)

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Jilted ex-boyfriend puts up abortion billboard

Okay, if you can't just say you can't. I won't hold that against you, but I like to believe that I am at least open minded enough to take on whatever little aspect of the debate where we differ. Can't poney up the evidence where you have specific problems with my debate then boo hoo. It's the internet and this is fun for me! Peace and love. Sorry if I hurt your little feelings are something though. I'm sure they're valid and all that.  (Jun 8, 2011 | post #53)

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Jilted ex-boyfriend puts up abortion billboard [1:50 p.m.]

First of all, she is an adult woman, not a girl. Second of all I don't post my race on forums. Thirdly, your name is how you're representing your people and yes, to force a woman to undergo pregnancy is to control her. How else would you expect a woman who didn't want a pregnancy to be encouraged to have one? I don't know you as an individual at all, but your dismissiveness on the hatefulness and control issues that are apparent here is what's ignorant. A man's dna leaves his body. That's where his choice ends. Better to be with a WOMAN who you communicate with who would be able willing. Otherwise it's force. Men do not have a choice over a woman's body. Plain simple. Go parading about as a representative of a noble people and spout ignorance, then don't expect to be called on this. This IS an overarching political issue where men all over this country are trying to legislate the bodies of women. One example of a man thinking he should have ownership over a woman is this article. To say you know what this girl is going though shows your own ignorance. You don't, you can't, and in any way assuming some dude should be able to tell her what to do with her body is the height of slavery. Women aren't incubators or breed animals. Don't assume as such. You would support a man who has no idea what the woman's state was all because you perceive that he should have some sort of ownership over something that's INSIDE of her. "Your" community, and that's in parenthesis because you assume so much more about me than what you've actually given me about yourself, is in peril on many levels. You have no idea where I go and volunteer so your assumptions are just as silly as the evidence based ones I've made. Peace and love, but don't let those women folk have choices over their bodies if it makes the men folk angry. Sure, you understand, not. I'm so totally sure you make efforts in your community to reduce rape and molestation, not. The fact that we have to move women between reservations alone shows that they lack protection within their own communities. As a member of those communities, I'm sure you're all over helping the dudes recover "their" babies and stuff or whatever. You seem very male oriented.  (Jun 8, 2011 | post #37)

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Kansas governor signs abortion clinics bill

Baby hater... BWAHAHAHAHA. I volunteer with more kids than you could squirt out to prove to others you've managed to spread your legs at least twice. To hate babies means I wouldn't volunteer with them. I do. Cats, I have dogs and two jobs and a volunteer committment, and yet manage to do this for fun in my spare time. You boo hoo because you can't make other people see your hateful perspective. Leg-spreading? Do as you say, but not as you've done. Slut-shame much? I bet you were a sweet little slut when you spread your legs. But others should follow your example and only have developmentally disabled children so they can feel high and mighty. Go girl! Be holier than thou over everyone! I'm sure that's very christian. Still love you honey.  (Jun 8, 2011 | post #136)

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Jilted ex-boyfriend puts up abortion billboard

Babies aren't property and neither are human beings, like women! If you can have a baby then have one. Otherwise, don't force others to make them for you.  (Jun 8, 2011 | post #50)

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Jilted ex-boyfriend puts up abortion billboard

Aww you decided to hurl insults at me. I still love you though. Please, point out my "ignorance. " See, when you live in reality you often see these upright walking around persons who aren't male, yet are still human! Revolutionary, I know, but don't let that get your panties in a wad honey! My spin is my fun. It's how I take the words of people and let them see how I see them talking to me as a pro-choice person. Don't care about women or children as a whole, is what I see from the whole of you guys. Can't even care about a woman being harassed by a potentially frightening person who assumes control over another person's body.  (Jun 8, 2011 | post #49)

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Jilted ex-boyfriend puts up abortion billboard

My response is to your initial statement. You've no compassion for the potential of a miscarriage and already call someone you don't even know a murderer? Sweet, and loving! Tell you what, when you find your self raped and pregnant, tell me if the idea wouldn't cross your mind. You can't seem to grasp that pregnancy is a big decision as is the raising of a child you can't afford. That's okay though. I understand that some people think they've all the answers and little ole pro-choicers like myself are all for killing. Because so many are for killing. But wait, we prefer to educate and help the women so that they can be supported in having wanted children... You can't see the woman for the fetus.  (Jun 7, 2011 | post #43)

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Jilted ex-boyfriend puts up abortion billboard [1:50 p.m.]

Where do you get off representing your nation so pathetically. You don't know my ethnicity or cultural identity either, and I wouldn't put it on display for ridicule as for one. I've been writing letters, and volunteer in my local community. That's what I'm doing besides bellyaching about how men should have rights over a woman's body because they deposited a single cell. It does take two, but it only takes one to give birth. It's so cute when men think they should have the say in what happens to a woman's body. Yes, this case will be interesting, but it's so obviously nothing more than misogyny. Men trying to control women. Oh, and the "get off it" thing, sorry honey, I enjoy debating on the internet with people who think women aren't human beings enough to deserve rights like, oh, idk, bodily autonomy for one thing. Get off human rights, nah. How about you get off representing a community you would seek to ignore the human rights of half.  (Jun 7, 2011 | post #29)

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Kansas governor signs abortion clinics bill

So parrot-like.  (Jun 7, 2011 | post #129)

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Kansas governor signs abortion clinics bill

Bwahaha, they do. It's one of the organizations I've worked with that go to places and teach... duh. However, depending on the school district, parental conscent, or even politics it's prohibited by many who don't want their kids to know any better. So, there you. <3  (Jun 7, 2011 | post #128)

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Kansas governor signs abortion clinics bill

Aww, gone where? You lay your emotional baggage out for others to view as you make choices for others... tit for tat honey.  (Jun 7, 2011 | post #127)

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Jilted ex-boyfriend puts up abortion billboard [1:50 p.m.]

As someone who claims to be native of some kind you obviously have some very patriarchal views on women. In original Cherokee culture, women were allowed to have control over their marriages, and child rearing. This guy has no say because it is not his body involved. Respect the women of your nation, then branch out to all women. You cannot FORCE a woman to carry an unwanted pregnancy to term. Tell you what, you do. You let your body get distended for nine whole months then pass something the size of a grapefruit and tell me it's nothing but your responsibility. Go back to the euro-centric ideology you've got. Go back to all the women on reservations being raped by people they know who then do nothing to protect the women of their tribes. Stop shaming the people.  (Jun 7, 2011 | post #15)

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Kansas governor signs abortion clinics bill

Oh, so the words of others are your opinions? I'll bet you just can't wait to be taken in by the next big cult leader. Keep drinking the cool-aid and being a yes-man. Don't think for yourself. Two of you? No, I've only seen one person honestly post their grounded opinions based on substance, and little 'ole you pipping in with agreement. I guess I should expect someone like you to hold the loathsome position that abortion could be something a person is addicted to. Addiction is a completely different issue that I'm sure you think is in the fault of those wrapped up in the disease of addiction. Abortion is a medical procedure that we seek to educate women regarding so that they can make an informed decision. Why don't you go educate yourself instead of being a bobble head doll on the internet for other people's opinions? I know you come from privilege more now than ever. You're so great and high and mighty, why don't you focus on your special needs sons and make sure they don't have sex with any icky womenses so they won't have to suffer having their seed aborted. You already make assumptions about the abilities of your sons. You make assumptions about everyone except your little privileged self.  (Jun 7, 2011 | post #123)

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Jilted ex-boyfriend puts up abortion billboard

And if it was a miscarriage then everyone should have a good laugh at her expense? You're so kind-hearted. I bet you've never known anyone who lost a child. If you did you'd probably follow them around pointing and laughing too.  (Jun 7, 2011 | post #14)