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African-American

I hate short men b/c...

Hey Steve, You shouldn't talk about yourself like that. You just might hurt yourself LOL!. You know what Steve, I don't know who you are, what you do, nor do I care. Stuff like you posted makes me laugh. Why? People like you don't quite often lack the balls or toughness to step into my personal space without getting a good butt kicking. As for the women, I'm just thankful that not ALL women in this world see height first. I know most American women place height at the top of their pre-requisite dating list. Yeah, most tall chicks don't like short guys and a lot of short women are sick and tired of us wasting their precious "tall guy flirting time" when we muster up the courage to approach them. That's OK too. I don't approach girls a lot shorter than me anymore because they've been very harsh and particular about wanting a guy to tower over them. At the same time, women 4 or 5 inches or more were just as brutal in their rejections even if they were being honest. So, it doesn't get me down anymore and neither do people like you. Thanks for trying though. Enjoy!  (Jan 19, 2012 | post #46)

Cape Girardeau, MO

OK, girls. Lets talk size. Who is big, and who is little ...

In my experiences, penis size always matters to insecure women who are more concerned with a man's shoe size, hand size and how tall he stands. Penis size matters that much more to fatter women and not-so-pretty women, by virtue of Hollywood's standard of female beauty. Penis size never matters to confident, self-sufficient, educated, attractive women, unless she's a true size queen with a really wide vagina and a long canal. Porn stars or dating websites that feature men packing extra large members is the usual solution for a size queen. Me? I'm happy with what God gave me below the belt. I also love the reaction from the ladies who are totally surprised to see what I'm packing as a 5'5 guy.  (Feb 9, 2011 | post #16)

Utica, NY

It must suck to be a short guy

A little late to the party here but I have to respond to this thread being a 5'5 guy. Tallgirl, when your cover or lack of cover(no pun intended) was blown, how did you feel about it? Ask yourself how you would feel to see your man drunk and naked at your best friends place. I doubt you'd be smiling about it and she likely wouldn't be your best friend again unless you're OK with sloppy seconds.  (Feb 9, 2011 | post #15)

African-American

why don't blck men date tall 6+ big boned women?

Height does matter to most, if not all women. Some just lie about it to appear less shallow or in order to let a guy down easy. There are few ladies who place no importance on a man's height but the majority of women short and tall do prefer tall men. It's a dominant fixture of North Amercian society. Does this mean I'm SOL as a short guy? Absolutely not. It's just way easier for taller guys to get ahead with taller women, especially in a world filled with superficialities and isecurities. The reason why I don't date 6 feet+ tall women? First of all there aren't many women I've met over 6 feet. Second, the few that I have met had serious issues just being in the company of short people so they'd never date me. Thirdly, tall chicks more often use the "mommy" excuse not to date a shorter guy. Tall chicks value their femininity very highly just like short women so being with a shorter guy defeminizes them. I don't know many tall women who are confident in themselves to not be so trivial about a man's height.  (Nov 19, 2010 | post #9)

African-American

fair_guy and other short men

Curlylocks, I make decisions everyday in life. We are all forced to do so. I'm at the point in my life where I don't have to hope the choices I make are the best for me because I THINK before I act. The same thing applies to relationships and dating. I've never played the stupid head games in dating which probably affected the connections I tried to make with women in previous relationships. The simple answer is to say I give up easy, but I don't. I'm just past the foolish tests that some women think are the essence in weeding out the best potential mate. Sorry, I don't do that. If you like what you see, don't play games with me.  (Mar 17, 2010 | post #131)

African-American

Women can like short guys?!!!!

Agree with you about the confidence issue. Confidence is the biggest load of BS when it comes to height preference. Women don't measure it equally between short and tall men. Tall guys with confidence are the norm. It's practically expected from them by women. Tall guys are usually seen as brave, bold and sexy when pursuing what they want. Short guys with confidence are seen as Napoleanic, too aggressive or having SMS short-man-syndrome if they pursue what they want. A tall guy with no confidence is often considered shy and cute but still acceptable in the eyes of women for a relationship. A short guy with no confidence is usually considered weak and pathetic. It's a no win situation for short guys, but it hasn't stopped me from being confident in myself with respect to approaching women. I discriminate based on the first initial impression and it has to be positive if anything. If a woman tall or short likes what she sees in me, I don't need a blunt forced hint to make a move. She will wait for me if she's worth it or thinks I'm worth it. Everything starts with positive and inviting eye contact. If a woman goes out of her way to avoid making eye contact, rolls her eyes in annoyance or does her absolute best to make conversation with someone else so you can't talk to her, that's enough of a sign for me that I shouldn't even bother approaching her. Even to let me down easy by telling me straight up that they're not interested in me, I still find taller ladies more approachable than shorter ladies.  (Feb 11, 2010 | post #62)

African-American

Do any short men(under 5'5, including"dwarfs") on here li...

QUOTE who="MrsEazy- E"]<quoted text> i would look your way...i love short MEN :)[/QUOTE] Thanx MrsEasy-E. I still believe women like you are very rare if you say you're interested in short men. How tall are you? Not that your height matters to me, even though I will honestly say that I prefer ladies taller than my 5'5 frame. Taller women have treated me much better and shorter women usually give me more attitude. I guess when desiring men 6'0 or more, shorter ladies seem more annoyed, frustrated or generally disinterested when a short guy like me approaches them.  (Feb 11, 2010 | post #16)

African-American

Do any short men(under 5'5, including"dwarfs") on here li...

I like women of all shapes, sizes and races. If you're talking preference, I'd tend to favour the taller ladies with curves. I've got nothing against women my height, 5'5, or shorter, but I've been treated better by taller ladies. Short women don't look my way in the first place because I'm not tall enough.  (Feb 10, 2010 | post #14)

African-American

Women who love short men...!!

As a short guy myself, it's very hard to believe that "short" guys will be "in," as you say because genetics says boys and girls are growing up bigger, faster and definitely taller over all. Not much room for the short guy when the standardization of these growing children becomes the norm, which it already has.  (Jan 8, 2010 | post #9)

African-American

dating tips for short, fat, ugly men........

Not a sour puss at all Georgina. Just stating truths based on experience and discussions I've had with women of varying heights. Not surprisingly, almost all the women I've spoken to shorter than myself being 5'5, set the minimum male height requirement at 6'0. Even though they are very few, more women taller than myself had less hang ups about height, but still, most women taller than 5'5 say they would never date a man shorter than their own height.  (Jan 8, 2010 | post #16)

African-American

fair_guy and other short men

I don't "reprimand " or perpetuate my lack of height in this world by NOT noticing women like you, who say they actually "notice" me, IF, you say you do. If you believe in positive eye contact Curlylocks, I would definitely notice you, but I doubt that you would notice me. In fact most, if not all women who are heightists DON'T orchestrate positive eye contact with the shorter guy because their heads are usually in their a$$es trying their damndest to make eye contact with the tall guy that's more "universally " appealing. In fact, I've learned to be smart in taking direct hints if and when approaching women because nothing says rejection like a frown, regardless of its size, a turn of the head the other way or a roll of the eyes in making eye contact. I've long stopped giving these women the opportunity to reject and diss me away because I don't approach them. Why don't you ladies approach guys like me for a change, especially considering the famale species has been clamoring and fighting for equality throughout the history of humankind? Why can't any of you women step up to the plate and be first? Ain't nothing wrong with Sadie Hawkins, is there? Or do you get your ego fed by the number of guys who approach you to reject, filtering out what your heart's physical desire is?  (Jan 5, 2010 | post #128)

African-American

Is 5'4 short or extremely short for men???

Sorry pal, but this advice is amongst the poorest of the poor. It's borderline asinine. Aren't you supposed to enroll in a community college to learn and better yourself as a person? Why try to pick up chicks who are trying to accomplish the same thing? Unless there's a legitimate social meeting place, such as a pub that belongs to the community college, or extra-curricular programs aside from class, trying to pick up a chick while a professor or teaching assistant is instructing the class is dumb. Besides, why waste away the money you've spent on that course or courses to try and meet some women. Not smart at all, in fact, it's just wrong and misleading.  (Jan 4, 2010 | post #874)

African-American

fair_guy and other short men

Fair Guy, Do your best to keep your head up and try to be as positive as you can. I know sometimes it's hard to be positive in this wicked, nasty, ignorant, everything "ist" world. I hear you Brother. I've bitten off more flesh from my upper and lower lips in frustration over many years and I don't have much left. Still, I do try to think of people less fortunate in this world and give thanks. Everyone will get THEIRS from God, especially if one has dished out crap to people, trying to make themselves better in their own negativity. We're all victims and abusers of this. I do find myself more inclined to ignore those women who can't see the beautiful man that I am, keep the faith and forgive them for their treatment of me. Goodness does come around.  (Jan 4, 2010 | post #117)

African-American

fair_guy and other short men

Fair Guy, I still have strong beliefs in the living God and the sacrifice he made for us, whether you believe he came down from Heaven to Earth to save us from ourselves in the form of Jesus or you believe Christ was separate from God. I find it disturbing that you would experience the same type of discrimination at Church, which is supposed to be a safe haven for ALL of God's creatures. My faith in God will strengthen me, daily, to have better relationships when meeting women. Yes, Jesus did treat women as equals, but I'm not the Christ, only a believer, and I can't treat women equally as good as he did, especially when I'm constantly disrespected by women, short and tall, about my lack of height. I still don't pay attention to women in Church, except the honest, caring, respectful ladies who do Gods work by reading scripture and giving prayers for the people. I've even heard the shear stupidity about Church being the best place to meet women. Church is for people who love and respect the peace of faithful worship. It's not a pickup joint. I have no time or patience for absent minded chicks who go to Church seeking dates. Pathetic, it is.  (Jan 4, 2010 | post #116)

African-American

Men under 5'7 have trouble getting laid

Curlylocks, I don't have problems getting laid but I don't just drop my pants for any chick that has six lips, two mouths and a heartbeat. In the company of taller men, they're the ones who usually get all the female attention and yeah, it's a social institution. Women like taller men period, and there really isn't anything a short guy can do to change that. At the same time, I don't sell myself cheap with the drunk, loose whores at the end of the night that couldn't land the tall guy yet think I'm easy pickings because I'm short. I have more respect for myself than that.  (Jan 4, 2010 | post #328)