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To All Asian Women: Do you like Black Men?

I did say "Chocolate " for two reasons. 1. Their skin isn't really black. It's brownish, in color. Not sure about why they were coined as "black people", because it simply makes no sense, unless you're color-blind. Even then, you can tell black from not black, I'd imagine. 2. African-American is just as demeaning as "black". If anything, they should simply be referred to as Americans. I can approach any Caucasian and ask them where they're from. They will tell you, "oh, I'm a 3rd generation American from Germany" our "My father is from Ireland, and he came here as a child". Ask a Chocolate person, and they can most likely only reply that their family goes back to Virginia or Mississippi or something. As far as many of them know, their family began in America. The connections to Africa are non-existent. Perhaps this is why I feel they are the most American of all Americans. This is also why I feel they shouldn't require the African- qualifier, in order to be considered Americans. African-American is just as bad as calling someone black. Neither hold any truth, as Africans are completely different in culture, and black is an entirely different color.  (Jan 20, 2014 | post #10866)

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To All Asian Women: Do you like Black Men?

Not sure why it double-posted on me, but here's what I was saying: I don't quite understand why this thread transformed into somewhat of a racial war. To address the initial question, I'd have to agree with what I've seen, personally, which is Asian women being more attracted to Caucasian American males than the Chocolate American Males. Chocolates are, as with any other group of people, quite capable of having very intimate relationships that consist on trust, loyalty, compassion, honor, humor, and/or any other quality you desire to find in an ideal relationship, as it pertains to you. In fact, I'd be willing to argue that dating a good Chocolate American male could be just as, if not, much more fulfilling than dating a person of any other group. Why? Well because there's also an element of versatility that should not go unnoticed. Because of their recent history in America, such as building the entire infrastructure of the country, creating devices used globally, such as the traffic light system (which saves millions of lives, worldwide, each year), or being the first to perform open-heart surgery, among many more things, it is well-known that their inventive minds perceive the world, differently. They are quite capable of doing the impossible! Just 50 years ago, to say a Chocolate American man would be the head of the White House, was an absurd thought, that may even get you punished for speaking. Guess what? It's not so impossible, after all. In my opinion, if an Asian Female feels she needs to date a Caucasian American Male for status or to somehow save face, then she should seriously consider taking a look at herself in a mirror, because she lacks faith in who she is, for some reason. Honestly, I'd say that to anyone dating any person of any background for any reasons other than love. I don't believe Asian Females should completely write off Chocolate Males, simply because they are short-changing themselves, and closing the window to some potentially very prosperous and fulfilling relationships! Chocolate American Males are portrayed, by the media, in a certain light, and we buy into the lies we see on Tell-a-Vision. It is true. Someone is telling a vision with television, and the weak-minded will believe it, every time! There is no one race or ethnic background that is better than any other race or ethnic background. They are simply different.  (Jan 20, 2014 | post #10863)

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To All Asian Women: Do you like Black Men?

As for all the racists appearing in this thread, no matter the ethnicity, color, or whatever trait you deem worthy of justifying your ignorantly-childis h behavior, you seriously need to step back, and look at yourself. Look at the people you spend the most time with. Notice the faults with that situation, and elevate beyond it. It's 2014. Remove race as a variable, and honestly think about the people you really dislike, in your own personal life. I'd be willing to bet you'd choose someone that's personally done something to you. Maybe it's your mother-in-law (hopefully not). Maybe it's the rude guy at Wal-Mart, that works the cash register in Aisle 6. Perhaps it's the guy that works in your HR department at work, that always gives you a hard time. Maybe it's your boss. Perhaps that one teacher you had in high-school, that always found a way to give you a B+, and never an A. These are examples of people you really may not like, and perhaps for good reason. There is no good reason to dislike an entire group of people, no matter how you attempt to justify it, as they've not done anything personally to you. Save your anger for people you know. Then when you find yourself angry, figure out a way to forgive the person, and peacefully resolve it. Life is too short to be filled with so much hate. Stop it! AsianJennifer, I know you want a female's perspective, but I'd say you should try for yourself. Not everyone is going to be good in bed. Not everyone is going to be bad in bed. I'd simply request that you don't just settle. Choose someone you feel will be good for you. Build a friendship first with your Chocolate Male. Ensure it's one you're attracted to, in all ways. Physically. Mentally. Emotionally. And when the time is right, go for it. Don't be afraid to get a little agressive with him, in the bed. Play out your fantasies with him. Roleplay with him. Cosplay with him. Show him that he's worthy of your desire. Show him that you're worthy of his. There is no man like a Chocolate Man. Once you find a good one, he WILL treat you like a Queen if you do right by him. Everyone is not a stereotype. Period. I really hope this message reaches someone that would be willing to try something different.  (Jan 20, 2014 | post #10862)

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To All Asian Women: Do you like Black Men?

I don't quite understand why this thread transformed into somewhat of a racial war. To address the initial question, I'd have to agree with what I've seen, personally, which is Asian women being more attracted to Caucasian American males than the Chocolate American Males. Chocolates are, as with any other group of people, quite capable of having very intimate relationships that consist on trust, loyalty, compassion, honor, humor, and/or any other quality you desire to find in an ideal relationship, as it pertains to you. In fact, I'd be willing to argue that dating a good Chocolate American male could be just as, if not, much more fulfilling than dating a person of any other group. Why? Well because there's also an element of versatility that should not go unnoticed. Because of their recent history in America, such as building the entire infrastructure of the country, creating devices used globally, such as the traffic light system (which saves millions of lives, worldwide, each year), or being the first to perform open-heart surgery, among many more things, it is well-known that their inventive minds perceive the world, differently. They are quite capable of doing the impossible! Just 50 years ago, to say a Chocolate American man would be the head of the White House, was an absurd thought, that may even get you punished for speaking. Guess what? It's not so impossible, after all. In my opinion, if an Asian Female feels she needs to date a Caucasian American Male for status or to somehow save face, then she should seriously consider taking a look at herself in a mirror, because she lacks faith in who she is, for some reason. Honestly, I'd say that to anyone dating any person of any background for any reasons other than love. I don't believe Asian Females should completely write off Chocolate Males, simply because they are short-changing themselves, and closing the window to some potentially very prosperous and fulfilling relationships! Chocolate American Males are portrayed, by the media, in a certain light, and we buy into the lies we see on Tell-a-Vision. It is true. Someone is telling a vision with television, and the weak-minded will believe it, every time! There is no one race or ethnic background that is better than any other race or ethnic background. They are simply different.  (Jan 20, 2014 | post #10861)