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Grants Pass, OR

joshua parker

(** yes I know, that was off-topic, start throwing the lemons!!!)  (Jun 24, 2014 | post #4199)

Grants Pass, OR

joshua parker

Because of Kate, I have been triple-wary of contributing to any fundraisers, but I ALMOST ALMOST contributed to "Victoria's Victories" GoFundMe thing. That story about the little girl being torn up by her grandaddy's dogs just tore at my heart, and a few times, I ALMOST contributed. So, now the KFC part of THAT story has been shown to be a hoax. I don't want to be a cynical person and never believe anyone anymore, much less help out, but dang.....this is rotten!  (Jun 24, 2014 | post #4198)

Grants Pass, OR

joshua parker

Grrrrr, looking at that video again and seeing Bethany totally ignored just gets me mad all over again! Re-reading the accompanying post, with Kate only mentioning Bethany being on her back in an Ergo, then mentioning her at the end of the post, "…then reloaded Bethany onto my back…", there was NO effort whatsoever to give HER a fun time on their outing! She was an after-thought! Why didn't I notice this when she first posted it??? I know all this has been discussed previously but I'm just disgusted all over again and want to smack that woman so hard! Josh was DEFINITELY healthy in that video. He's not skinny and starving, and his color is NOT GRAY, as she kept saying in other posts. P.S. I just typed out a "one-upped " account of my cat Tigger, but it wasn't nearly as funny as YMBJ's Fluffy story, so I deleted it. That just cracked me up!!!  (Apr 19, 2014 | post #3941)

Grants Pass, OR

joshua parker

Here in South Carolina, there is huge problem with inmates getting cellphones from friends/family tossing them over the fence, and corrupt CO's getting them to inmates also. So the thugs love to take pics of themselves posing in their cells, sometimes even smoking a doobie! They get caught, the phone gets confiscated, but so many times, a couple months later, they pop back up with another phone. So yeah, they can get internet access at least thru phones if they have "connections ". Big, big problem.  (Apr 11, 2014 | post #3783)

Grants Pass, OR

joshua parker

Good point Allison. Wonder if HE knew they didn't have a good marriage, if they were initially just "friends with benefits", and all that…. for all HE knew, their marriage was just fine and all was well when he came home from work every day. On the other hand, where are Kate's posts about him breaking down when he realized Josh was dying, being hospitalized, about to "lose" his little boy…….. I'd be posting about putting my husband in a mental hospital when realizing he was about to "lose" a kid…… OMG the possible scenarios! Kate posted plenty about herself, and sometimes the other kids, when they were all upset about Josh dying, but how did her HUSBAND feel? Did I miss a post or two where she said HE was devastated and having a very hard time adjusting??? Did he not know Josh was dying? Or did he not know Kate was POSTING about him dying? Either way is awful! I would think you can divorce someone if they (or you) are jailed, can't imagine why not...  (Apr 9, 2014 | post #3685)

Grants Pass, OR

joshua parker

Nothing like people yelling and getting their panties in a wod, just posting personal attacks and adding NOTHING to the topic of this blog!!! Must be a bunch of IRL buddies, texting back and forth, "Did you see what I just said to that Madi girl?" "Yeah! And I just posted (so-and-so), did you see how I stirred 'em up?!" "Oh yeah, I saw that! You really put them in their place, didn't ya!!!" "Yeah, did you see all the Judge Its I got?" "Yeah, I only got a Clueless!" It's gotta be a group of teens.  (Apr 9, 2014 | post #3681)

Grants Pass, OR

joshua parker

Oops, FAVES, not faces. Dang typos  (Apr 8, 2014 | post #3536)

Grants Pass, OR

joshua parker

B-Lynn, LOL!!! Thanks for the chuckle, looked it up and it may become one of my faces too! hahaha!!!!  (Apr 8, 2014 | post #3535)

Grants Pass, OR

joshua parker

LOL, you are sooo right! I realized that right after I hit the Post Comment button! I fell for it, argghhhh!!!!! Weak moment.  (Apr 7, 2014 | post #3451)

Grants Pass, OR

joshua parker

OBSERVER, oh please!!!!! >sigh< I'm semi-educated, so I really do know what "racy" means. I can't imagine anything that anyone says on this particular blog would actually need to use the word, but my use of it was sarcastic, as was the use of "nuts" and "clueless ", commonly used Judge Its on this site. As for you to judge any of us, saying "It's more self gratifying somehow to reside in hate and judgment…", aww come on. I don't know Kate in person to "hate" her, and it certainly isn't my place to judge her. I do "hate" things that have happened, but I don't "hate" anyone. (I don't exactly "love" my enemies, but I don't "hate" them.) I am here to throw ideas around in response to things that I've read on her blogs these past few years, and try to figure out what in the world happened and compare notes with others. And your posts are ALMOST ok to read because you are thinking about the other side of things as a lot of us do. But your attacking, judging tone is a big turnoff! If you'd stop with the snide remarks, we could have better dialogue! In "real life", I am the one who drives my family and friends crazy because I ALWAYS try to see things from the other side and feel there's a reason why people do things they do. Mental health is a HUGE issue in this country at this time. Resources are scarce, and too many people fall through the cracks because there is no insurance coverage or money to keep them on much-needed medications or in intense therapy. Oh gosh, I am stepping up on my soapbox about that kind of stuff, so I'll stop here as to not bore anyone. Bottom line: DO keep throwing out your thoughts on Kate's mental health and her mistakes. I love to discuss stuff like that but it's hard to focus and WANT to, when you include digs in your posts, ok? :) Oh, as for my blood pressure? I do Crossfit 3-5 days a week, plus run a few miles every couple of days, so my blood pressure is perfect, thank you! :)  (Apr 7, 2014 | post #3449)

Grants Pass, OR

joshua parker

I had started reading the comments sections of the blogs because they sometimes shed more light on Kate than the posts themselves. I don't recall ever seeing "attacks " on her, just people occasionally questioning her, wanting to know why she said or did certain things. Of course, anyone questioning her would be seen as attacking her, in her eyes! I never saw anything "vile" at all, but that's not to say it didn't happen. I could easily have missed those "vile" ones. But I just think it's likely that she got called out on b.s. one too many times and had had enough. Maybe she shut it down because she ran out of steam on Bethany and her "issues" , and could only focus on one kid (Josh) since she was blogging on multiple sites. That would get confusing to me, trying to keep two different kids' stories straight. And, of course, there's the possibility that she just didn't consider Bethany worth her time, as Josh was so obviously the favorite.  (Apr 7, 2014 | post #3438)

Grants Pass, OR

joshua parker

Hmmm…. You think only ONE person on this whole board has an ounce of human compassion???? NUTS! RACY! CLUELESS! Trust me, OBSERVER, I have gallons and gallons of HUMAN COMPASSION. Right now, my compassion is all over those CHILDREN, and it's hard to find much left for anyone who would harm them, abandon them, lie to doctors, deceive people who followed her on blogs, etc., no matter the reason. Yes, obviously something DID go terribly wrong with Kate. It will all come out in the trial. I do hope she has a MAJOR mental issue that will explain it all, and that she really is not the cold, calculating, deceptive sociopath that she has come across as. I hope and pray there is a good reason for all of this and that we are totally wrong about her. But for now, my HUMAN COMPASSION is for the minor children who depended on her for their LIVES and got let down.  (Apr 7, 2014 | post #3435)

Grants Pass, OR

joshua parker

I am Joan. When I first came to this blog, I was afraid of Kate, even tho I live across the country!!!!! That's why I didn't sign up with my name. Nice to meet y'all! :)  (Apr 7, 2014 | post #3425)

Grants Pass, OR

joshua parker

oh PS on my last post… Kate seems to "think" this is weird too!!! "If it turns out we adopted a child with a hidden neural tube defect, I will be floored. I mean, really, what are the odds of a family with 4 kids who have neural tube defects adopting a child who they THINK only has Down syndrome & a repaired heart defect, but actually has those two things plus Atlantoaxial Instability, Autism, systemic Juvenile Idiopathic Arthritis AND a neural tube defect of some sort? I'm wondering if it's about as high as a family having both of their adopted daughters who have Down syndrome getting diagnosed with autism (the dual diagnosis that occurs in about 8% of children with Ds). Yep, Hannah was diagnosed with autism today, too. Both girls are on the severe end of the spectrum. For those keeping count, that means I now have 6 children with some form of autism (and 3 who do not): 2 with Asperger's, 1 with PDD-NOS, 1 with moderate autism & 2 with severe autism. What do I think of that? Suffice to say I've been shaking my head in disbelief for several hours now. It is crazy. I would be inclined to think my life was fiction if I weren't the one living it!&#8232; "  (Apr 6, 2014 | post #3287)

Grants Pass, OR

joshua parker

Allison, I agree, that was crazy stuff! And I was just skimming back thru Bethany's CB and came across this: "Bethany was diagnosed with severe autism (classical ~ meaning they believe she has been this way since she was an infant) & strong suspicion of either tethered cord or a closed spina bifida (like lipomyelomeningoce le ~ what Joshua has)." Ok, really, what ARE the chances that Bethany could have the tethered cord thing or closed spina bifida LIKE JOSHUA HAS???? She was ADOPTED from across the world!!! How really WEIRD she would have the same stuff and they're not even blood-related! hmmmm……….  (Apr 6, 2014 | post #3286)