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The Gambia

How Would The UK Cope With An Ebola Outbreak?

looney knows how to contact someone elses ex man? That is sad and pathetic - you have way too much time on your hands to be saying the same thing over and over again. You might as well copy and paste everything and get the same result - someone who is in a sad and bitter place after many years.  (Sep 13, 2014 | post #12)

The Gambia

The Lunatics Have Taken Over The Asylum!

I see someone rattled looney cage again. What I find funny is that no one seems to have the problem with the person you always rant about looney except you, but everyone seems to have a problem with you.  (Sep 13, 2014 | post #15)

The Gambia

Relationship Advice

I love these double standards he is a muslim because he does not drink or eat pork. BUT he has sex before marriage. He needs you more than you need him and even better that you are pregnant. You need to do your homework because if you are not together you will be expected to hand over the child to him to raise and not you, so you may end up ringing the border agency to get rid of him. He will think if he marries you and you are pregnant it will be more than likely secure a better chance of getting a visa. But the agency have dealt with this so many times and if they are like the UK they will expect him to go home and having a baby will not strengthen your application as people are finding. Do your homework to see if he is applying for special circumstances cuz one thing gambians are good at is keeping a secret and continuing the lies they have told you. You already know his faults and some of those will only get worse now that you are pregnant. DO YOUR HOMEWORK cuz I bet he already knows what he has to do now.  (Jul 26, 2014 | post #39)

The Gambia

Relationship Advice

My post went missing for some reason, so I'll keep it short. RUN, RUN LIKE HELL. I love my husband but as me and my friends say 'I love me more'. He is getting a green card for life, a wife he wants to control and to be master of his temple. WHAT ARE YOU GETTING? A possessive man who wants you to obey him, not have friends, not go out and party, not have any male friends, check your phone, wants to know where you are at all times and eventually will control your finances as well so that he has complete control, especially when you are married. This is not love but a form of domestic abuse as this is how it starts and can only get worse. This is not a man that loves you or even wants a wife that he will love and respect but wants to use the fact that he is a man and a muslim to control his woman. Again RUN, RUN LIKE HELL. This will not be a healthy relationship that will be good for you. Good luck  (Jul 20, 2014 | post #16)

The Gambia

Visa

Bloody hell what a horrible lot you are. Barbara if you are still around, find your forums on facebook they will be more helpful. And also check out the UK Border Agency website which will give you some great advice. Damn ladies this was way over the top for someone who has come to forum for advise not criticism on a relationship you know nothing about. I thought Loopy Loo Lisa was nasty but these comments I would not have expected from some of you. If you can't point someone in the right direction, then silence is golden.  (Jun 19, 2014 | post #19)

The Gambia

name and shame gambian love cheats

The law will help but doesn't go far enough imo. Agencies should work alot closely together. If cases are high in certain countries Pakistan being 43% wow, then when these children disappear out of school's etc the police should be notified. They can track where the kids have gone because they all have their own passports. BUT educating the children younger would also help with this. I feel the reason why the visa process has gotten stricter (yes, I do agree with what they have put in place e.g. earnings, proven marriage etc) is because when you are with your husband you won't know if a) he is already married even the civil way b) that he hasn't already applied for other visa's because he is married c) their true history. I was talking to a woman who found out her husband was married to an American, her (UK) and Denmark. He had applied for visa's for all 3. Do you think he got it? No. Because the visa process identifies the serial appliers. Its not perfect but it helps. The UK lady found out and marriage over. But imagine if he had gotten into the UK, he would have been gone. So yes, the visa process does need to be strict and yes we as a couple need to prove we are just that. I think the law for sham marriages will eventually come in, because it is fraud so their will be a law that can be used if someone wants to take it further.  (Jun 19, 2014 | post #3509)

The Gambia

Marriage at the Justice in Banjul

For some the new rules have been a blessing as they have found out what their men are like once they have been turned down. They are strict but at least you have an idea where you stand which is better than it used to be. Plus one man had been turned down in nearly every different European country as well as the UK due to trying to leave using different women. And no the women didn't know. So it is amazing how they can hold a secret.  (Jun 6, 2014 | post #106)

The Gambia

name and shame gambian love cheats

what's going on with all the fake names, i can't keep up. When it comes to UKBA the system is so wrong on so many levels. Just get them on a plane and send them somewhere rather than here, its not as if it couldn't be done. If they don't accept them the other end, its becomes there problem.  (Jun 6, 2014 | post #3367)

The Gambia

All off topic chit chat thread (NO LEMONS LOL)

DAMN who rattled Lisa's cage again. I can see the convo has shifted to the norm ;-)  (Jun 6, 2014 | post #2746)

The Gambia

Lisa's "I hate Tutti and all her aliases" Daily Blog

Lol this made me laugh. Fantastic! Lisa can now punch it out on a daily basis and let the threads be what they should be. My money is still on Tutti Frutti though ;-)  (Apr 14, 2014 | post #5)

The Gambia

My Gambian husband

I am also looking to apply for my husband's visa this year before they change the rules again as the Europe courts have given the okay for the rules that were put in place which is not a problem. It is a mind field, so do your homework and make sure all bases are covered. Luckily hubby has started early on saying no and when I am there I have a tendency to go visiting without my purse. I don't look after hubby so I am not likely to put my hand in my pocket for the family. Some are fine and others will survive like they did before I came on the scene. He is going through some difficulty at the moment after doing something very stupid and he has to realise there are consequences to his stupidity. But I can't wait for him to come.  (Mar 4, 2014 | post #26)

The Gambia

Married to a Gambian

i agree with all that is said. unless there is someone out there that is jealous then you won't really know especially if he has married his wives in the mosque. but if you are in doubt I would personally go with your instincts, because they are normally spot on and you would be kicking yourself 2 years down the line when you did eventually find out the truth.  (Jan 16, 2014 | post #4)

The Gambia

desperate old british women flock to gambia for young men

your are forgetting not everyone wants to come to the UK. Some will quite happily stay in the Gambia and have a better life. Some do understand that life is hard in the UK, cold, wet, damp, grey and they would be working all hours. so sometimes staying in the gambia and having a better life is also something they consider too.  (Jan 16, 2014 | post #355)

The Gambia

name and shame gambian love cheats

lol that was funny. atleast your purse is saved. So what did you do buy the compound so you could be with the worthless SOB or did he kill himself.  (Jan 16, 2014 | post #2653)