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Gay/Lesbian

My experience with the gay community.

Well, I've taken the time to read all the posts. First off, everything "My experience" is saying directly relates to sex. He never mentions the emotional attachment to the same-sex gays feel. He never mentions the fact that you can never have experienced sex, you can be incapable of sexual performance and still be gay. Since he only equates being gay with sex, would it be any wonder that when he searched for friendship it would always come down to sex? For that's all he thinks being gay amounts to. You do reap what you sow. Personally, since the time I came out, I have experienced some great sex. Better than I ever had with an opposite sex partner. However, I've always experienced a great deal of platonic love, compassion, friendship, laughter, sharing of tears and every other human experience and emotion you could imagine. When I was down, it was my gay family that comforted me. When I was happy, it was my gay family that celebrated with me. But, obviously, "my experience" wasn't looking for a gay family - he was looking for a gay sex experience. So, I don't doubt his experience as real. He was obviously searching for the wrong thing, in the wrong place, with the wrong heart.  (Jan 7, 2010 | post #90)

Gay/Lesbian

Ten-year-old Won't Recite Pledge Until Gays Can Marry

But, your talking about religious ceremony. And even then there is nothing to make you prove it. There has NEVER been a requirement of love for a civil ceremony. Nowhere on a marriage license do they require you to pronounce your love. Never EVER has love been a requirement to be civilly wed. And you're a liar if you state it has.  (Dec 17, 2009 | post #4707)

Gay/Lesbian

Ten-year-old Won't Recite Pledge Until Gays Can Marry

And, sadly, nothing about marriage has ever required love. So, what's the point?  (Dec 17, 2009 | post #4699)

Gay/Lesbian

Maine's referendum on gay marriage law is too close to call

Ok, even though I totally disagree with you, I do have to admit this was pretty witty.  (Nov 10, 2009 | post #444)

Gay/Lesbian

The Slut Shaming of Carrie Prejean

Well, at least you admit that she made pornography.  (Nov 10, 2009 | post #115)

Gay/Lesbian

The Slut Shaming of Carrie Prejean

Tell that to the young man who was attacked with a knife last month in Tulsa because he was gay. Or the man who was kidnapped in Oklahoma City because he was gay, was beaten and then had a wire hanger wrapped around his neck. His dead body was found by his burned out car. These types of crimes are committed because the criminal feels empowered by all the rhetoric about how evil gays are. The same as crimes against blacks are committed by KKK rhetoric. And these types of crimes happen in every state. So, tell me, why aren't railing against these types of crimes the same way you are railing against gay marriage or sticking up for Prejean?  (Nov 10, 2009 | post #104)

Gay/Lesbian

U.S. fights benefits for gay couples

Well, perhaps you're not trying as a parent hard enough then. My brother was widowed at a VERY young age and raised his son and daughter on his own. They both got everything they needed and turned out to be fabulous parents to their own children. Perhaps you're too focused on hating others to give your children the love they need.  (Nov 10, 2009 | post #291)

Gay/Lesbian

Paterson calls for action on deficit, gay marriage

Uh, here's a clue for you... two negative gay men who are monogomous will NOT get HIV from sex. However, if a straight man has HIV, then his female partner whether monogomous or not is at great risk. See how that works? It's not gay or straight - it's whether one is HIV, whether they are monogomous, and whether they practice safe sex. Get educated.  (Nov 9, 2009 | post #75)

Gay/Lesbian

People: Sex tape forced Carrie Prejean to settle pageant ...

actually my mistake in my last post. I MEANT to say demonize, not demon. Totally different thing.  (Nov 9, 2009 | post #205)

Gay/Lesbian

People: Sex tape forced Carrie Prejean to settle pageant ...

She lied to the pageant committee before the pageant. She lied when she violated her contract. Whe she was stripped of her title, she lied by giving public speeches and saying she held the title (one of the things she was sued for). She lied when she was speaking on behalf of NOM. She lied when she presented herself as a more moral person than others, yet had done nude pictures and sex tapes. Is that enough lies? And, FYI, I didn't say "demon", I said "demonize ". Totally different things.  (Nov 9, 2009 | post #204)

Gay/Lesbian

People: Sex tape forced Carrie Prejean to settle pageant ...

I don't know what church she belongs to, nor does it make a difference to me. Perhaps that's something for you to find out since you are so keen to defend her. I see you try to refute my "demon" statement, yet you have no answer to her lying in direct conflict to the Bible.  (Nov 9, 2009 | post #200)

Gay/Lesbian

Paterson calls for action on deficit, gay marriage

Well, the non-original, non-thinking posters are here, I see. What about marriage between Jonathan and David? Or Ruth and Naomi. God seemed okay with those relationships.  (Nov 9, 2009 | post #41)

Q & A with Craig in OKC

Headline:

A Proud Gay Parent

Hometown:

Oklahoma City

When I'm Not on Topix:

I'm working or trying to keep up with all the household chores.

Read My Forum Posts Because:

I don't want to write them for nothing!

I'm Listening To:

Depends. Like all kinds

Read This Book:

Wicked

Favorite Things:

Theatre, Music, TV, my family