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Why are Moroccans so gay?

I've learned that if a person wants to know and understand about something there are resources out there that are more "reliable " than an online forum such as this. First of, no one polices these forums except for explicit language. So for anyone who would regard comments here as truth or close to the truth is naive. It's good to have an exchange but one should really air on the side of caution and take things with a grain of salt. However, I'm not saying that I undermine or portray the bad experiences that a lot of people have shared on here as less or untrue or unimportant. The point I'm saying is that there are good and bad in anything and it's up to us as individuals to see how the comments we read, how the advice of others, what stories we can learn from but more importantly learn to basically get along and live in harmony no matter what part of the world we come from.  (Sep 27, 2012 | post #152)

American girl/Moroccan her with tourist visa

I am glad that you were able to avoid all the troubles of marriage with this man. I also hope that you didn't lose a lot in this relationship -- money, sleep, dignity or yourself. I went through some tough times with the Moroccan man I met but he was living in Germany and still is. He, too, actually just contacted me recently and told me that he still loves me but I told him no. Whatever courage you had to resist this man, more power to you!  (Sep 27, 2012 | post #14)

Why are Moroccans so gay?

You said it - this person is ignorant in his ways and ideas so to engage him in discussion is not worth your time because he doesn't understand or have no knowledge of what he was talking about to begin with. And yes, we might question when he visited Morocco if he got an opportunity to meet the educated, respectable, decent, classy Moroccans. It's a lost cause with some of the people on here -- making blanket statements about a people and a nation or even a religion. I try to stay neutral or not go off too left or right but maybe I'm feeling a little feisty and bolder today. I'm sure I might get some unwanted rants and raves but I welcome it. As for you, all the best always.  (Sep 27, 2012 | post #149)

How moroccan men handles relationship

Hope this finds you well. I think that the first thing you need to do is to really get to know who this man is. If there is a way to meet him in person. Skype and talking for hours on end, helps but it does not reveal the true person on the other side of cyberspace. This is most especially true for you since you have had two bad experiences in the recent past. You want to make sure that you don't fall for another disastrous and hurtful affair. Also, you might want to go back on past posts where men or women have been fooled for visas. If this man wants to be with you, he would not even bring up the issue of a visa and getting married right away. This is obviously a warning sign for you to be very careful in getting involved with this man. Additionally, if he is acting abusive this is not acceptable. However, most muslim men are possessive to begin with but not necessarily abusive. Hence, be mindful of everything from this point forward and if you have family or friends you can talk to about your dilemma, please do so. They, of course, would have your best interest and would keep you safe. All the best always.  (Sep 27, 2012 | post #704)

Be careful of Moroccan girls - big scammers -> just got r...

How refreshing to see a warm, friendly and kind words about Moroccans. They are far few and in between in this forum. All the best always!  (Sep 27, 2012 | post #108)

Be careful of Moroccan girls - big scammers -> just got r...

I agree. Well said. More power to you!  (Sep 27, 2012 | post #107)

Be careful of Moroccan girls - big scammers -> just got r...

As in any relationship, romantic or platonic only time will tell and also watch for signs or indicators to see where things are going. You are the best judge but don't be afraid to reach out to others who might have insight into an e-dating or inter-cultural relationship. Remember there are always resources available to you before you make a decision and if your gut tells you something listen carefully. All the best!  (Sep 27, 2012 | post #106)

Be careful of Moroccan girls - big scammers -> just got r...

Hello there - you certainly make a lot of sense. Would you be willing to private chat with me? I have some questions to ask of you. Feel free to send me an email /message. I look forward to talking to you. Shukran  (Sep 27, 2012 | post #105)

Why are western women dating Muslims?

I have all sympathy for the pain and suffering you experienced and truly hard for us to truly understand how this could two people who were once so in love would end up this way but I have to believe there were and signs. You said you had family and friends, why did you not reach out to them? I guess the point that I want to make for anyone reading this -- when your situation is pulling away from "love" start to ask yourself questions? What is happening? What am I doing wrong? Don't be afraid to tell someone, anyone, they might have something that could give you ideas even enough strength to pull everything together before it's too late. If you need a third party mediator (could be anybody), use one. You're probably thinking - easier said than done but if you think about it, this is your life only YOU have the ability to take control of it. I pray for health, happiness and success!  (Sep 14, 2012 | post #52)

marrying a moroccan

Currently, it is no easy feat for any Moroccan to get visas to the States even if they have money, work authorizations and all kinds of documentation. It would wiser for you at this time, to really get to know each other better. It is in these trying times that a person's true character is revealed. Additionally, a true Maroc is a gentleman and would never ask for money. They take special pride and joy in that the man provides for his wife. There are ways to find work in Morocco even though the fact is, jobs are very scarce even for those with diplomas. I wish you all the best.  (Sep 14, 2012 | post #1358)

How moroccan men handles relationship

Hey Adam, I have sent you a message a while back and wanted to see how you feel about talking in private. You have given some insights and wanted to get a man's perspective on some things. I shall wait for your reply. Thank you very much.  (Sep 14, 2012 | post #694)

How moroccan men handles relationship

You brought some good insights here and there are some things I still need some clarification or more knowledge. With your invitation, please reach out to me via email please. If you want to move forward, please let me know. I'm not sure if you can message me here if not I will give you my personal email. Thank you and I look forward to talking to you.  (Sep 7, 2012 | post #691)

Any positive marriage stories to Moroccan men?

I really appreciate your comment and would love to get more insight. Would you be open to a private exchange? Thank you.  (Aug 16, 2012 | post #3563)

Any positive marriage stories to Moroccan men?

Thank you, Ali.  (Aug 16, 2012 | post #3562)

Any positive marriage stories to Moroccan men?

Are you saying a Moroccan man must marry a Muslim woman otherwise he would be jealous and would cheat on her? Thanks.  (Aug 13, 2012 | post #3557)