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Why so many black Baby Momma’s? 70% black kids are born ...

These men want to take take take, while you give give give! They dont love you or most likely don't ven like you! They are USING you! Thats why they stay with you but on the side they are sticking their penises in other women and sometimes men, and involved in Lord knows what else!!! Be strong. Love yourself. Stand your ground, and learn to stand alone! Untl, that is, you find a GOOD man, the almost non existent, GOOD man. Take time to know him, and his true colors will come out. They all start out good at first! Pray! Seek God's guidance and His will!  (Mar 26, 2009 | post #759)

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Why so many black Baby Momma’s? 70% black kids are born ...

Females need to stop enablng Males to get away with any and everything. Foolish, foolish women! Having a man does nt add to worth. However when you date filth from the gutter men, this DOES TAKE from your worth. You think you are ncreasing your worth just because you have a man, but you are allowing yourself to be used, abused, mistreated, and neglected. You are taking years away from your life by the stress, grief and havoc a no good man brings!!  (Mar 26, 2009 | post #758)

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Why do people eat their boogers???

Oh my!Do you tell you rbf this or your husband, so they know they will partake of a few extra ingredients with each kiss?  (Feb 26, 2009 | post #222)

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East African Beauty look like an Alien???

Hehehe girl, you tell'em!  (Feb 10, 2009 | post #184)

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If Chris Cheated for the 2nd Time RIHANNA Had a right ......

If a man cheats, leave his trifling behind. It should not come to getting violent.  (Feb 10, 2009 | post #58)

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If Chris Cheated for the 2nd Time RIHANNA Had a right ......

AMEN! these people are warped based on the people judging this comment you made. Please. A buzzard better NEVER put his hands on ME!  (Feb 10, 2009 | post #56)

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Chris Brown arrested for beating RIHANNA

You sound like you have issues with your own security and adequacy...Cant feel elevated unless you put a woman down??? You are twsited, and apparently your Bible is differnt from mine. Obviously men and women are different, but it does not mean one is better than the other, and it does not mean that one deserves less respect and consideration than the other. End of story. I know my role, and as a woman, I am a help meet to my husband, support him, love respect him, let him lead,etc.. He is to take care of me, provide for me, lead me as God leads him, love me ,protect me, be willing to die for me as Christ died for the Church...He has the bigger responsibility before God, for making decisions, but his decisions are to be made based on what God's will is,and based on NOT himself, but what God would have him do, and what is the best for his wife/family. Obviously a husband has a VERY SelfLESS, not selFISH position.OKAAAY!!I will never settle for less.I KNOW my role as a woman, and I am loving it. Thank you and have a nice day!  (Feb 10, 2009 | post #544)

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Chris Brown arrested for beating RIHANNA

The way you talk, You need a good slap! He has no excuse for hitting a woman!!! A real man knows that!  (Feb 10, 2009 | post #538)

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Oral sex is dangerous,Jessica Alba has herpes

Sorry, i thought u were saying practicng washing would prevent stds. But yes, u should wash before and after just for sanitary measures. Also, yes obviously, if u get an hiv test, or chlamydia or gonoreah test, other specific diseases that u were not tested for wont show up! It cracks me up when people go get tested for one particular disease and come away saying they are disease free! There are obviously all different tests for different diseases, hehe. Hello! :)  (Feb 10, 2009 | post #102)

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Why White Women Are More Desired-The Truth

But some black women as well as women of other races DO nag,and complain all the time, no matter what, and yes, that will drive a man away, and rightfully so.  (Feb 10, 2009 | post #332)

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Why White Women Are More Desired-The Truth

And real women will not let a man get away with wrongdoings, if this is what you are referring to as nagging. Real women have higher expectations and standards and are not willing to settle for any old guy just to have a man. Men that don't want to do right tend to refer to it as nagging when a woman calls for him to man up. Many women such as myself like easygoing, romantic affectionate men as well. Not cold, unromantic, rough men with "swag".  (Feb 10, 2009 | post #331)

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Oral sex is dangerous,Jessica Alba has herpes

ABSOLUTELY HIV and herpes are blood diseaes! Are you kidding me? You need to do lots of research. I don't know where on earth you are coming up with this stuff. Also, you cannot escape catching stds by washing right after sex,lol. Some diseases such as hpv and herpes are skin contact as well as exchanged by fluids.You cannot suck on herpes infested genitals and brush your teeth after,or gargle with mouthwash and hope to remain healthy!!!You cant take a shower after having sex with std infested person and hope to stay helathy. I think a lot of especially males think that they can wash their penis after sex and avoid stds!Ludicrous. Are you living dangerously? Are you preaching on here what you have been practicing? I hope not, for your sake!!!  (Feb 4, 2009 | post #88)

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Oral sex is dangerous,Jessica Alba has herpes

True, me too for some reason. Rarely have I seen a black person period with mouth herpes.Although I know it is out there. Anyways, u mentioned doctors making std testing for viruses mandatory. They shouldnt have to. Any person with a quarter of a brain that knows he or she is having unprotected or even protected, vaginal, oral, or anal sex knows damn well they should be getting tested. People just don't do it, because they don't want to know what they may have! And there is help for peoplee who do not have insurance, who want to get tested. Sometimesm they base it on income, and people cna get tested for all kinds of stds for very little or no money. There is no excuse to not be getting tested regularly.  (Feb 4, 2009 | post #87)

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Oral sex is dangerous,Jessica Alba has herpes

Nothing to calm down about. Herpes is NOT a minor inconvenience. People treat many stds lightly, that is why everyone is catching them. Who wants strange warts all overe their crotch, and in their mouth/ Who wants aids? syphllis? or any of the other weird stuff out there? WHat is this world coming to.People take stds far too lightly and don't seem to mind catching them, so they doubly would not mind passing them on to the next person. That is just why I am abstinate.plus the Bible tells us to be unless we are married.  (Feb 2, 2009 | post #77)

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I shall not be moved!!!

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Place where few are sober

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Church, Restaurants and the mall; not much else around

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God, and that's it!

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Trying to improve my my soul, mind body and spirit,hanging with family and friends

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I tell the TRUTH

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Gospel, R&B

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The Bible

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Family ,friends,food, dolphins, cats

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Too much

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God