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Elizabethtown, KY

Male doctor and your wife

Sure you didn't leave anything out...LOL!!! Well done. :)  (Mar 16, 2013 | post #3562)

Elizabethtown, KY

Male doctor and your wife

Use your common sense - none of it is appropriate All intimate exams of a female by a male medic is questionable - got it now?  (Mar 13, 2013 | post #3549)

Elizabethtown, KY

Male doctor and your wife

Brilliant...LOL... that ass whooping made my day This Sarah freak has real issues....perving around these topix threads trying to fire fight all by himself because he's scared sh.tless of having the male gyno circus exposed and shut down Well Sarah there are 2 ways it WILL happen 1) by exposing the propaganda scams and malpractice 2) by testifying as females and opening the door for other women who have never questioned their acceptance - but never felt comfortable with it either You're welcome to stick around watching the empire crumble - but I warn you, it womt feel comfortable and you will continue to loose sleep.  (Mar 10, 2013 | post #3499)

Obstetrics and Gynecology

How Husbands Feel About Male Gynecologists

No man has a right to access a womans body. This is quite different to the right to vote. This is not a matter of being sexist - equality rights should not conflict with human rights and as a woman my human right is to choose whether a man can access my body....that's all we are doing here The problem with the medical profession and OBGYN is that the prevailing assumption is that this right disappears in the medical environment. In the Uk when I used to look for my GP I couldn't even distinguish who was a male or a female from the Dr listings - I had to have that uncomfortable discussion with the receptionist who would look at you like a freak if you expressed a preference - we are simply trying to turn the tide on this and question the assumption that there is nothing wrong with a woman being treated by a male Dr for intimate care As for your comments on nudity/sexuality - I think you deliberately ignore the fact that a gynecological exam focuses on a womans sexual organs, its not just nudity, it is sexual contact. A woman is therefore experiencing sexual contact from a stranger. Many women object to that and again should have the human right to refuse it. "Sexism claims" go too far when it forces this environment on women and young girls Men need to get over the fact that they are born male and practice reasonable boundaries around accessing the female body. By all means study and contribute to the reproductive system - but don't expect unlimited and unquestioned access to all females in any setting. We are now beginning to "call it out" after all - its the 21st century and the rights of women have progressed - don't use sexist claims to hi-jack our valid human rights  (Mar 10, 2013 | post #1630)

Elizabethtown, KY

Male doctor and your wife

I hope you aren't referring to me here - because I have always defended men when women posts accusations of men being controlling My comment was in defence of the average women being portrayed as one who seeks sexual attention from her gyno I would argue that this is a minority group of women who can probably never be helped - because of deep and complex psychological issues such as those described by LOBBY Fight battles that can be won. If you concentrate on the majority of women who respect their bodies and appropriate boundaries - you have a stronger case for gender choice If you go off on a tangent on persuading the minority of "die hard male gyno lovers" you'll muddy the waters and weaken your cause I'd suggest that your best strategy as men would be like "Not with my Lady" who just doesn't tolerate the type of women that will passionately seek out male gyno care and relentlessly defend them. It will be a lose lose situation of much heart ache and tears. You only have to observe the odd one who comes on this type of forum with nonsense and persists tirelessly in abusive accusations about controlling men - denying every newspaper article, law suit and testimony that they come accross.  (Mar 8, 2013 | post #3479)

Obstetrics and Gynecology

Male Gynecologist

Welcome back - and Happy 2013  (Mar 8, 2013 | post #3254)

Elizabethtown, KY

Male doctor and your wife

Having read all responses above - thanks Lobby, Chris "EEHHH" etc. I still have to say that I think its unwise to portray the idea that the average woman gets a kick out of this exposure and an extra buzz from an attractive male The reason I am uncomfortable with this is because I am weary of including women with psychological issues or fettishes in the quest for patient choice. There will always be a minority who will feel like its a loss if they can't find a man to poke them about - tough luck An advantage of this type of a forum is that it gives women the liscence and confidence to question the pressured medical environment and the assumption that they should be ok with a male doctor. The women who are comfortable with a man or even prefer a man may never be helped - focusing on them though, somewhat weakens the case for all other women who feel that it is an abusive and humilating ordeal. As for the romances that may develop - of course this is true of any setting where males and females interact - it is true of my profession, in education. Imagine though if a teacher was to site the fact that girls are attracted to/seduce older men within debates about peodephiles within the teaching profession - it somewhat weakens and deflects responsibilities and appropriate behaviour. Now I know I shouldn't act like as a woman I'm the final authority - but I feel that you should understand that "the attractive gyno" is not a common female fantasy - and for u doctors out there, sorry to be the one to break this news to you Most women do not look forward to these visits - no matter how fine the Dr is. That's why the tide is turning and we are seeking female care, now its available  (Mar 7, 2013 | post #3462)

Elizabethtown, KY

Male doctor and your wife

Mark - every time I see this posted it bothers me - I don't see the point in claiming that women somehow get enjoyment out of exposing themselves like this to a male doctor - I think, more commonly we brace ourselves....its an awful experience, humiliating, degrading and invasive True a minority have a fettish - but I doubt this characterizes most women - even of those who still visit men. I think most the ones who still visit men haven't really questioned it - and haven't yet been abused or felt violated by bogus procedures The thing is - I think its more representative of women to say they really just need to stop accepting this as their lot in life For the most part - its not in our nature to want to parade that way and be prodded about - especially by one we find attractive If hypethetically - I had to choose what type of male to do thisi procedure, one I found attractive would be at the bottom of the list. Just the same way you are super self conciois in front of one you fancy in any other setting - it would be 100x worse To me its not dignified or sexy  (Mar 6, 2013 | post #3449)

Obstetrics and Gynecology

Male Gynecologist

I agree with most of this - but not with the part about women I doubt a woman would like a Dr she fancies to do a PAP or VE on her - its all too undignified and un-romantic. If you fancy a guy, you are even more self concious and shy, it would be the opposite to the way you'd want to present yourself in the cold light of day....eww! I mean - that's how I feel, don't know if other women could comment differently  (Mar 5, 2013 | post #3246)

Elizabethtown, KY

Male doctor and your wife

Thank you CHRIS - indeed it does :)  (Mar 3, 2013 | post #3374)

Elizabethtown, KY

Male doctor and your wife

Haunted little ancke biter - you come across as a little angry man with a red face weilding a pick axe - why do you care so much? What's stiring up your passion? Why get so upset because in some corner of this earth a group of people are speaking the truth? What's it to you? What do you have to loose - other than sleep. Calm your ass down  (Mar 2, 2013 | post #3368)

Men Against Male Gynecologists

For some reason - I am only now seeing this post Mark....this is all so disturbing and definately rings alarm bells. I hope you and your wife are moving forward and able to get past this despite the cover up and lack of remorse from the Hospital + those involved  (Mar 2, 2013 | post #170)

Obstetrics and Gynecology

Report: Most women need Paps every 3 or 5 years

Have you not understood anything posted here? Female gynecologist are available for female medical care....its nothing to do with being "Grown up" As a woman, I deserve the choice, and the right, to voice my concerns with male gynecologists.  (Feb 28, 2013 | post #19)

Obstetrics and Gynecology

Male Gynecologist

True that!  (Feb 27, 2013 | post #3227)

Obstetrics and Gynecology

Male Gynecologist

Yes it was 1 of those bogus types that I saw back in the day in the UK for a fake "pregnancy test"  (Feb 27, 2013 | post #3226)