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What do you think of women who put men on child support j...

Thanks, it has been tough. I still find ways to see them. But it's a shame, I've been to the courts for help and can't get it. All the courts do is give her a slap on the hand but that of course don't solve this issue. Try this on for size; Its has been seven years since the divorce and the mother still doesn't realize that it's not about her. Funny thing is I don't hate her for it I just pray for her. Thanks again for the support.  (Oct 12, 2011 | post #102)

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What do you think of women who put men on child support j...

I posted this question last year and I'm amazed that there are still comments coming in. However, Thank you for understanding the question. I always have payed child support and spent time with my children even before the courts were forced into the equation. Now this is where I get confused: The woman in this situation left me and took my children away. It crushed my heart that my children were taken but I still took care of them and would go see them every day. The young lady and I got a divorce and thing still did not change, I got to see my children and still provide for them. But when she found out that I had moved on and became involved with another woman things changed except I was put on child support. I still provide for my children through the state but she will not let me see them unless it benefits her. Thanks again for understanding and clearing this up for some who misunderstood.  (Oct 11, 2011 | post #97)

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What do you think of women who put men on child support j...

No matter how long you are with a person, you will never know how they will react to every situation.  (Dec 16, 2010 | post #79)

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What do you think of women who put men on child support j...

Damn, you must have met my childrens mother!!!!!!!!!!!!!  (Dec 16, 2010 | post #78)

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What do you think of women who put men on child support j...

You just don't seem to get the point. It is not about paying child support, its about right and wrong. Its wrong to keep the child from his father, knowing he is a good father to the child but still on the other hand, continue to run to the courts and demand an increase and spend half or all the child support money on yourself. Now tell me, what about a woman getting her hair, nails and feet done with the child support money helps the child.  (Dec 16, 2010 | post #77)

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What do you think of women who put men on child support j...

I admire you, but this is the type of man that gets away with not paying child support and sounds as if he does not or did not want anything to do with them. Why is that, the dead beat gets away and the good ones hand is held to the fire.............  (Dec 16, 2010 | post #76)

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What do you think of women who put men on child support j...

True to a degree, a good father that is not with the mother of his child, for what ever reason, should not be put on child support if he is taking care of them and still have his kids kept away from him because the mother is angry he has moved on.  (Dec 16, 2010 | post #75)

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What do you think of women who put men on child support j...

Already have, nothing was done!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  (Dec 11, 2010 | post #48)

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What do you think of women who put men on child support j...

Key words CHILD SUPPORT; Any money spend on anything other than the childrens shelter, food, clothing, and school is not child support. But there needs to be something done about the spending of child support money on hair, nails, casino, and boyfriends Christmas gifts. Anyway, all we can do about it right now is just pray. Now tell me what are the children going to do when they figure out that the custodial parent is spending child support money on selfish wants?  (Dec 11, 2010 | post #46)

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You need Jesus and a flogging  (Dec 10, 2010 | post #17)

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What do you think of women who put men on child support j...

There needs to be something put in place for those who abuse the child support system. There are plenty of men out there that are dead beat and the system is perfect for them. I have no respect for any man that don't take care of their child(ren) and leave the mother to raise the child(ren) on their own. Family is what's missing in America today, most fathers are not in the home for whatever the reason: Death, prison, irresponsible, or just don't give a damn. But for the men out there that have children and are being fathers, my hats off to you. And to the men out there that have children and can't be in their lifes for reason beyond you control, I feel you pain and I pray for us and the mothers that use these children as pawns. Nothing good will come of this, the children will only grow up to hate the mother and may develope unhealthy habits to fill the void in their lifes that was left when they were kept from their fathers. It takes both a Man and a Woman to raise children. But until some of us grow up and stop being selfish and realize that it's not about just us, it will never get any better. To my children, until things get better, I will continue to call, check on you in school, show up at every event, and give you all my heart and soul that I can.  (Dec 10, 2010 | post #25)

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What do you think of women who put men on child support j...

I see most of you missed my point in asking this question. Lets try this, I love my children and they were taken away from me when there mother decided that she did not want to be with me anymore. I have no problem taking care of them and never will. I have never missed a child support payment, but the thing is I also have visitation rights set forth by the courts, but the mother will not honor this. I've taken her back to court on several occations concerning this matter but the courts only gives her a slap on the rist. Now the thing is that I was taking care of my kids without being put on child support as long as I was single, but now that I have moved on with my life and found someone else she puts me on child support. Now I understand maybe she figures that I would stop PAYING my childrens way, so she secured herself with the order. But why start keeping them away from me because I no longer want her and she knows the only way to get any reaction out of me is through the children. Now back to the original question: What do you thing of women who put men on child support just to be vendictive?  (Dec 9, 2010 | post #12)

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What do you think of women who put men on child support j...

The child support system was put in place for a very good reason. But what happens when you have a father that is no longer with the mother of his child(ren), but he was still doing everything for his child(ren) and the mother puts him on child support anyway to be vendictive? Now this mother will not let this father see his child(ren) but every three years she runs to the child support office requesting an increase in support. What do you think should be done?  (Dec 9, 2010 | post #1)

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Why do White guys call Black girls ugly

Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, whether the beholder is black or white. Now obviously there are people here posting certain comments for the purpose of offending and getting under the skin of the ones here that they can. But the truth is; Every thing that God made is good and beautiful. I am a black male and there are, to me, beautiful women of all races. A good women, period, makes us men better people in life. Now to you all that can't resist the chance to post something racist or ignorant in nature, I encourage you to take the time to look at your self and see what you can do to make your self a better person for you, your loved ones and the world. God bless  (Nov 29, 2010 | post #694)

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What attracts white women to black men?

You can't have color without black. Black was the first and black will be the last, black is the most attractive color.  (Nov 27, 2010 | post #13781)