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Feb 4, 2012

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Altamonte Springs, FL

How do you tell a woman that her boyfriend is going to du...

Tell the man or woman that is getting dumped, STRAIGHT with no chaser. Prolonging it only causes all sorts of begging by the person that is getting dumped. Relationships are seldom completely matched and even and as relationships grow or continue, they ebb and flow. If one of the parties is completely unsatisfied, it will never balance out anyway. The only thing you're avoiding is "when" the dumping will happen not that it will happen - that's already been decided. Often, the person being dumped then goes out on the limb by begging and offering even more lopsidedness in order to keep the relationship going. It puts the person being dumped in an even worse situation because once that attempted dumping has occurred, whether the couple stays together or not, the person doing the dumping loses all respect for the person being dumped. Heartbreaking to watch but like pulling a bandaid - straight, fast and quick is the best solution.  (Mar 2, 2012 | post #2)

Altamonte Springs, FL

Altamonte Springs woman decides she wants to become a com...

Comedy begins very early in life. That kid that's always in trouble for talking or making classmates laugh while the teacher is teaching, will spend half his or her time in the principal's office. If successful, the kid may grow up to be a comedian. If the kid fails, spending the rest of his or her life trying to get attention and laughs will prove very unsatisfactory. We recently met an Altamonte Springs, Florida woman who at the late age of 58, has decided she wants to learn how to be a comedian. Our suggestions to that comic we recently watched perform is... If you haven't made it as a comedian by the time you're pushing sixty, it's time to start looking at other career paths. Comedy is very hard and particularly cruel. If you're not strikingly attractive and outrageously funny with actual material (absent of vulgarity), your audience could easily turn on you. Quite publicly, you may become the butt of some extremely cruel jokes.  (Feb 26, 2012 | post #1)

Altamonte Springs, FL

6 women arrested in Lee County prostitution sting

Instead of trying to find out "who" wanted to get laid online, they might have invested some of that investigative work on local fire fighters that have been trying to kill one another by poisoning coffee thermoses. Did the fire department really think the public was going to be confident about calling a firefighter to homes when occupants are suffering a tragedy? Not likely!  (Feb 26, 2012 | post #1)

Altamonte Springs, FL

She made it clear she doesn't want you to sleep with her ...

She's made it clear that she doesn't want you sleeping with him and you're going to do it anyway? Have you lost all sense of reason? If it were anyone else, I would say let the best woman win but in your case, you're barely earning enough to pay your bills and you're working 3 jobs. You don't have the financial means necessary to protect your reputation from the public onslaught you're inviting into your life by sleeping with that man and when it's all said and done - he will not step up and protect you, your reputation or spare your feelings. In fact, he's already publicly declared that he doesn't care about you because if he did, he would not put you in this position. When you started having unprotected sex with him, you displayed a total disregard for yourself. She however took it as a great insult from one woman to another. You knew full well that he has a woman, yet you chose to sleep with him anyway. Of course he wants you both and when he tires of you, he'll replace you with another one as he has for the last 25 years. Only a very depressed person with low self esteem, that feels he or she has nothing to live for, would take such a risk especially with AIDS being so prevalent. Did you think that if you contracted something from him that he would feel obliged to stay with you? He won't, but I know you won't take advice from me. You'll need to suffer through every step of a public humiliation on your own because you are viewing this as a simple competition between gals. This is real life - not "Bravo's Housewives". I've seen him work his way through many middle-aged, overweight women like you. He feels you're the most vulnerable and desperate so you'll put up with anything. The problem is that this time, you stepped into his life when he's with her. She's good with business, friends and relatives but she takes affronts very seriously. Talk this over with your sisters, your family and anyone you respect.  (Feb 17, 2012 | post #1)