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How moroccan men handles relationship

I guess he has her stoned already and she won't listen to anyone because she loves him. She is blinded by stupidity. I won't be a part in helping her get him here. I wish I could see her and knock some since into her, but she has to learn the hard way. If it were me I would lock the borders and keep those men out of here. His parents only speak to you because they know you are going to get there son to America. Thats all. I didn't have a bad relationship with one at all as a matter of fact I have a friend whom is from morocco who will tell you the exact same thing as I just did. At least he did it the right way and won the lottery and made his own life here without help and without lieing to other women to get here. That's how it should be done for anyone to get here. EARN your way. I'm sure he has his own money to pay his way but without you he can't enter freely. I hope they give you a hard time and I hope he isn't accepted. I'm not angry at all but it just gets to me when I see people falling for scams like this. I have a caring heart for all people who are not stupid. You are a grown women and you should know better. You say that in 5 to 10 years when he does leave you that having him in your life would be enough. No hun that means you just threw away the opportunity to have found someone else you could have spent the rest of your life with. One day you will regret it because you will be hurt, pissed off, and sad and lonely. Not only am I right but so is samira the girl who posted above me. And this is why no one else is responding because they too know this is wrong.. Please respect yourself and make the right choices and I hope you will find happiness elsewhere and not with that man. But this is your choice. Wish you lots of luck.  (Jan 13, 2014 | post #1252)

How moroccan men handles relationship

Keep him there you will regret it. Find yourself a man here and stop wasting your time with this dude. I'm going to be blunt with you and you won't like what I have to say. First off you are 23 years older than this person and that is a huge difference for him. He will not ever marry you for a long time point blank. In five years he will get his residence here and leave you hanging. Trust me on this matter. He isn't stupid and he know's what he has to do in order to win your trust. He will do whatever he can to please you so you can get him out of there. You will be the person who will do for him when he gets here you will be the one who teaches him everything he needs to know and in the end you will be the one with stupid written in big black letters on your forehead. They talk all the time about people like you who fall for people like them. I hear it all the time and it's not good. Think about it, again you are 23 years older than he and that means he is young and you are old. He will one day want to start a family and you will not ever be able to give him that. You are American and if you read anything about those men you will know that they will do anything to get here and if that means lieing to innocent and vulnerable women as yourself to get here they will and not care. You are not Muslim nor are you good enough for his family and that's the truth and you are not Moroccan. All you are to him is a free ride. Those men are good actors and very seductive. It makes you feel good to know that someone makes you feel the way he makes you feel doesn't it? He tells you everything you need to hear and when your together he makes you feel special as if you are the only one for him. In the end you will be the one who is going to be hurt and left alone while he goes back home one day and marries a suitable women HIS family offers him. ITS a Fact and it will happen. He might be the love of your life and I truly believe that but you are not his and believe that. Sorry  (Jan 11, 2014 | post #1245)

How moroccan men handles relationship

I do agree with you 100%. I also hear it from my friends as well about americans. In the 10 years I've know them none of them married an American women or any other race but their own. Yes they had relations with these women but that is it. I've met a few whom also married to get their green card and divorce a few years later. I was stupid once and thought that I would be good enough but in the end I was not. No matter how good you are you will not be good enough for them. It took me 4 years of trying to prove myself to the wrong person. I would not ever get involved with another man from that part of the globe again. But I can also say that they are not all bad people,when you are just there friend and nothing more. I just wish I could say something positive about them as far as a good marriage or relationship but I'm sorry that I can't. These people are nothing like American people they stick with their own UNLESS, they were born and raised here then they fit. If anything PLEASE stay with your own and find some man here who can marry you and love you, someone whom you have a lot in common with. It will save you a lot of heartache. Trust me. Doesn't matter his race but make sure he's American.  (May 10, 2013 | post #948)

How moroccan men handles relationship

It's very easy since you guys had no real relationship and no physical or emotional attachments. It's just as easy as a click of a button. I can't stress this enough but please find yourself someone in America who doesn't have all of this. I swear too God your life will be a lot better if you did and I would stake my life on that for real. Please Please Please stay with your own and date whomever you like black white purple or green doesn't matter just as long as he's legal here in America.  (Apr 4, 2013 | post #901)

How moroccan men handles relationship

Let me see if I can help a little. 1.) He's too young 2.) His Family, culture and traditions are more important than you. 3. He doesn't know anything about love yet and truthfully he is looking for a way out. IF you ever go to him, he will ask for you to bring papers just in case you guys decide to get married in morocco. Once there you will be living there with him for a while until its time for you to leave and then he will want to follow. Once he is in, you may be doing much of the supporting until he gets work, then everything at that point will start going down hill. It will take him 5 years to become legal in America or where ever. Once they get that card then say good bye because he will leave. I wish I could say something positive but considering the age difference and where he's from I can't think of one good thing beings that I know more than enough men from that country whom I knew personally that married older women to either stay in America because they came here on a temp visa or scammed them on the computer just to get here. My experience is a bit different I didn't find him on the internet and he was already here by lottery and the help of his family but I spent 4 plus years with this person and his friends from all over America to hear and see what they are like. These men are so different then we are used to and not really in a bad way they are honestly good people but you just have to understand them. Yes its bad the way some of them use women but if you find one make sure you don't get him from the internet and make sure he is around your age. There culture and traditions are very strong and it would be very hard to break that tradition, meaning marriage, religion, family and a few others. The people I knew where very cool to be around and shared a lot of there stories there food and happy times and I love them all. But not one of them married a women outside there race and religion and culture and most of their wives where chosen by family. And some others that I do know only married to stay here because there visa was running out or they got a girl pregnant or came here with a wife they had met on internet but soon divorced. And some won't stay in a relationship very long because of guilt meaning its harem to have a sexual relationship unless married and they won't marry just for sex. They have needs so every now and then they will get laid but nothing more than just sex. I am not saying that they are bad men because a lot of them are not. I really love my friends but even they themselves will tell you to stay away from the ones you find on internet. I don't want to hurt anyones feelings and I want to believe that age doesn't matter to some and age shouldn't matter honestly but when it comes to some things it does. This is one of them.  (Mar 28, 2013 | post #893)

How moroccan men handles relationship

Quote" Saeed Mesfiwi wrote: COME ON PLS!!!!!!!! an answer to all those ladies crying here and making of themselves the victims and the innocents : u accuse moroccans of being lazy and abusive and controlling....and all this blah blah and bullshits like you are coming from wonderland????ok! then y don't u b just fair enough to confess to youself and tell us why you choose to marry some1 with another different culture?why did this moroccan change all of a sudden?? i m married toan american ! i m moroccan..let me tell u about the good life of women in the states! they like to b drunk n sleeping around with any1 away from home n dress half naked n flirt at work and may cheat easily on their husband without feeling any guilty conscience..sorry! I think you better not date moroccans..they r not ur cup of tea..befriend n marry americans who get drunk everyday n smoke weed n beat women n rape a 1 year old child..yuck!it would b a good match..incest society..sorry..mo re to tell..i hope that single fat poor moms stop using young moroccan men while no1 gives a D care about em there!!!! sorry!but this is the truth! By the way 7chouma almgharba 7ta ntouma tgoulou b7al had lhadra 3la khoutkoum ..don't you know that there are good and bad people everywhere ..!! This is my point. He's married to an American women but yet speaks of American women as they are trash. But when I said that Women from their country are just as bad, I get bombed. WOW, I think this person concludes what I have said all along about most men from that country. So when I said that most Moroccan men are users and assholes and think less of all women except their own. I do conquer. Ibn himar  (Jan 24, 2013 | post #822)

How moroccan men handles relationship

I think this dude is copying and pasting what he said everywhere on here. Don't pay him any mind.  (Jan 24, 2013 | post #821)

How moroccan men handles relationship

Don't hate, and what you said doesn't faze me a bit. I will keep stating my opinions and my facts whether you like it or not. And if you think my facts are just opinions then prove me wrong. Other wise you stay off. "Obviously " you only read what I said to her and nothing else. So until you do don't quote me. And honestly I don't care what you think of me. This topic is "How Moroccan men handles relationship" I gave my thoughts, do you have any? If not then go to the thread that's called " I hate ignorant people" BYE BYE  (Jan 23, 2013 | post #818)

How moroccan men handles relationship

I said that I wouldn't change my religion to please my partner. I generalize just as you generalized that Moroccan men make great fathers. I never said that I had a bad relationship in any of my posts. I am just stating facts and reality. It is a higher percentage to get involved with a Moroccan man and get used and dumped then with ones who will actually stay and love you despite their cultural life styles. I'm not going to sit here and give false hope to anyone of these women on here and tell false stories so they can end up back here again a few years from now. You may have a great man and that is good for you but if that is the case how in the world did you end up on this forum if you didn't think something? After doing a lot of research I didn't come across many forums that said that Moroccan men in general are the greatest men to be with and many women from all backgrounds would be happy to be with these men. NOT ONE. Being from Morocco and living their half my life I must say I have more knowledge about this than you do. I don't involve myself in something if I don't know. These women are right and so am I. So again you are an exception which still leaves a small percentage for those women who did fall in love and ended up giving everything they have to these men to only to be shot down in the end by their fake charm to get what they want. It's fact my friend. Good Luck with your husband and I hope all will be good. God Bless.  (Jan 13, 2013 | post #810)

How moroccan men handles relationship

Had to reread what you said your 12 years younger than he is maybe that's a whole different situation. I thought you said you were 12 years older. Sorry. But my views haven't changed about those men. And your converting.  (Jan 13, 2013 | post #808)

How moroccan men handles relationship

Ok, so your 12 years older than he and that means he's still young. So the possibility of him leaving you for another is high, 90/100. If you guys were about the same in age then I wouldn't say much. But they want someone who is going to be able to live long enough to take care of them and the family and being that it is a big age difference I don't see that happening. Sorry. As far as you affording to get your nails done. Good for you because I'm sure your paying for it all. Converting to Islam, I'm sure you did it for him and to me that is pretty sad to convert to another religion because you are in love with another person other than God. Did you do it because you believe in the Qur'an and for the love of Allah? or for the acceptance of the man your with and his family? Because the truth is when a person converts to another religion its because they have gained knowledge and acceptance on their own, who in return becomes a true follower of God and not to gain acceptance from others. It takes a strong believer to change from one religion to another especially if you have grown up all your life believing in just one. And Islam is something I know for a fact you didn't grow up on. Those people have lived their whole life with the Islamic faith, do you think for a minute he would change is faith for you? Lets say Christian or Jew? OH BOY. I don't think so. I'm a believer in God and my faith. Therefore no man will ever get me to change my faith nor my values nor will I do it to please him or his family not even to fit in a world that I don't belong in. Good Luck  (Jan 13, 2013 | post #807)

How moroccan men handles relationship

Well he probably got here by marrying an U.S girl or lottery in the first place. Then he decided to take a vaction to Russia and found you maybe. Then you found out he has permanent residence in the U.S and decided to fill his head with bull. Now your going to his hometown where you will try and live as his wife and soon he will leave you to marry his cousin. I'm being a bitch.  (Jan 12, 2013 | post #805)

How moroccan men handles relationship

Say NO, tell him to marry one of his women and play the lottery like every other Moroccan and save his money. Dam free loaders.  (Jan 12, 2013 | post #804)

How moroccan men handles relationship

Thats the point I was trying to make. These men are in denial and won't admit that women from there country are just as bad as the women anywhere else. For some reason they won't admit that and I can't understand why except to think they are brainwashed. It's a shocker to me. One day I had a talk with some of my Moroccan friends and a few of them considered those women bitches which means Whores. Then one day I saw a friend of mine speaking to an Moroccan women on line and she was telling him that she is a virgin and she is honest and a true muslim, but if she was all that then why in the world would she be on a singles dating sight looking for a man? and this friend of mine believed every word she said to him and said see how pure and honest she looks and is. My mouth dropped and when trying to tell him that she isn't as pure as she looks he too got offended. I swear on everything I have I don't get it and I don't think I will ever understand how there minds work. It's a puzzle of denial to me on there part. I think they are raised to think that women in there world are innocent and can do no wrong even if it were sitting in front of there faces. BLIND I SAY BLIND. ha  (Jan 12, 2013 | post #803)

How moroccan men handles relationship

Trust me ladies they too will have there day. These men are just as dumb as any other man and trust me they too will know how it feels to be used by not just their wife but families as well. It's not just the man who does all the bad its the women too over there. They want a man to give them money and take care of them and her family and the only way to do that is to find a suitable dumb ass that would be willing to do it for them. The mothers know how to find a suitable dumb ass and that's because she found hers from her mother and so on. Now the fathers on the other hand tell the men that they need to find a suitable slave to take care of them and there children but what they both don't know is that they are both playing each other. But no real love comes out of this marriage because the partnership came from their parents findings and not there own. Sometimes the parents are good and sometimes they make mistakes. Who knows.  (Dec 27, 2012 | post #795)