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Dec 19, 2012

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Erectile Dysfunction

Prostate Cancer Counseling Found to Improve Sex

I don't recommend anything, because nothing works!  (Dec 21, 2012 | post #5)

Erectile Dysfunction

Erectile Dysfunction After Prostate Cancer Surgery

I had a radical prostatectomy in 2002, when I was 49 years old, and since then have not been able to achieve an erection. My 26-year marriage ended in 2004, and now I am interested in having a relationship with a woman, because I still have a desire for companionship, as well as sex, but nothing will allow me to get an erection. My urologist has attempted Tri-mix injections, in conjunction with Levitra, up to the maximum dosage, without success. Even when I get sexually stimulated with pornography, I cannot get an erection, although I can experience the sensation of ejaculation, with a flaccid penis. I want to have a relationship with a woman, and to be able to have sex again- it's been almost 11 years now, since I have been able to engage in sex with a woman. I wonder whether I will ever be able to function sexually again, and whether any woman would want me, because of my inability to perform sexually. This is causing me a lot of distress, because I am lonely, and in need of a companion in my life. I never realized when I had the surgery, that this would become such a quality of life issue. I am just wondering if anybody can identify with this problem, and share what they have done to deal with it. I would appreciate any feedback or advice that I could get.  (Dec 21, 2012 | post #1)

Honolulu, HI

Hawaii Sucks

I have lived in Hawaii for almost 8 years now- 5 1/2 years on the Big Island, where I experienced the "local" culture, which is prevalent there, and 2 1/2 years in Honolulu. I have found the attitudes different in the city, on Oahu, than they are on the other islands, at least in the more rural areas. I do love the city of Honolulu, and it's cultural diversity, having grown up in the rural Midwest. I wouldn't go back there for anything- I don't think that I could return to the racially segregated mentality that I grew up with. I am very thankful for the opportunity to live here, and to experience the "crossroads of the world", which is Hawaii.  (Dec 20, 2012 | post #1076)