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Ruston, LA

Hot guy wearing Panties????

For those of you who still do not have an open mind on this subject read my post titled: The Comfort of Men Wearing Panties and Why?  (Nov 23, 2011 | post #320)

Altamonte Springs, FL

The Comfort of Men Wearing Panties and Why..

If you research the internet on the topic of “Men Who Wear Woman’s Panties/Underwear” you’ll most likely come across several sites that investigate the topic. One in particular that focus on the reason why and gives some validation to the topic is the site of Dr. Jeanette. At the site you’ll be given some insight as to why some men wear woman’s underwear/panties. With that in mind I would like to clear the air on a couple of things. Men who wear woman’s panties are not gay first off. It is possible that there are a few who may be gay but in majority most are not. Most gay men shun the idea of wearing women’s anything, but would rather relate to the same sex as close as possible. Men wear woman’s panties for a variety of reasons but most of the time it’s not a sexual stimulation aspect as much as it is comfort and enjoyment. There tends to be a misconception that men who crossdress are for some reason unstable mentally or have issues that need to be dealt with. This again is a false understanding of why men wear panties. It is a false way of thinking because in fact most men who wear panties are more in touch with reality and themselves then men who, well choose to judge those men who wear panties. Like everything else in life there are exceptions as not everyone follows the same pattern. Those of you who are close minded please take a moment and try to understand that being a man has nothing to do with what you wear, or what your physical appearance maybe but rather how your mind works and what your beliefs tend to be. Society influences all of us to think and act a certain way, to be people that we may not truthfully be. I will agree to a certain extent that the judgment from society is what creates the feeling of guilt and shame to those of us men who wear panties. It’s so hard for us to understand why it is viewed as a bad thing as it does no harm to anyone or anything but is more of a preference than anything else. Yet we are judged solely because of what the article is rather then who we are as people. It is because of the reasons above that I feel personally I will be alone for the rest of my life, not able to be accepted by people as even a friend because I am different, an outcast, a rejection to the ways of the “social norm” whatever that may be. I find it hard to believe that there are women out there that do not judge or accept a man who wears panties. So the question I guess I must put out there is this: Why in the world would someone want to know a man like me, a man who wears panties, when there are plenty of others who have nothing to hide, nothing to feel guilty for, and who can give them a full life without question? It is not wrong to wear panties, it’s just not right to wear panties or so society says.  (Nov 23, 2011 | post #1)

Altamonte Springs, FL

Why is it unacceptable for men to wear panties?

I often find myself struggling with the validity of wearing panties. I wear only Victoria Secrets for many reason but mainly because they are the best, in terms of looks, and fit. I say I struggle with the fact that I wear panties, in truth I struggle with the fact that society shuns people like me. It is all too often I will question why what I do is seen as “gross”, “sick”, “weird”, and mainly “unacceptable” . How can what I wear be viewed as such when our society has become so open to same sex marriages. To me this seems like a double edged sword as what I do does not go against any religious teachings or natural values. Yet the moment you mention the word that you wear panties and you’re a male, the world suddenly flips. I am a very straight man, I actually highly value a beautiful sexy woman. Yet how can I date a woman when I know there will be issues if I am truthful with her about what I wear. It is said that; “ there is someone in the world for all of us”. What they forgot to mention was the fact that for those like me, this saying and rule does not apply and the only way to find someone is to be someone your not and to hide a side of you that is shunned by society. So my questions to all of you is as follows: In a society that accepts so many differences from so many cultures, how can it be unacceptable for someone who prefers to wear panties to live life completely alone? Are there beautiful women out there that actually prefer or don’t mind men who wear specifically panties and if found out would not cast them out as a problem for society? Why is there a stereotype that if a Man wears panties there must be a mental or emotional problem? What I do hurts no one, is not a disease, and is not wrong but just different so why am I an outcast in this world?  (Oct 31, 2011 | post #1)

Ruston, LA

Hot guy wearing Panties????

I often find myself struggling with the validity of wearing panties. I wear only Victoria Secrets for many reason but mainly because they are the best, in terms of looks, and fit. I say I struggle with the fact that I wear panties, in truth I struggle with the fact that society shuns people like me.  It is all too often I will question why what I do is seen as “gross”, “sick”, “weird”, and mainly “unacceptable”. How can what I wear be viewed as such when our society has become so open to same sex marriages.  To me this seems like a double edged sword as what I do does not go against any religious teachings or natural values. Yet the moment you mention the word that you wear panties and you’re a male, the world suddenly flips. I am a very straight man, I actually highly value a beautiful sexy woman.  Yet how can I date a woman when I know there will be issues if I am truthful with her about what I wear. It is said that; “ there is someone in the world for all of us”. What they forgot to mention was the fact that for those like me, this saying and rule does not apply and the only way to find someone is to be someone your not and to hide a side of you that is shunned by society. So my questions to all of you is as follows: In a society that accepts so many differences from so many cultures, how can it be unacceptable for someone who prefers to wear panties to live life completely alone? Are there beautiful women out there that actually prefer or don’t mind men who wear specifically panties and if found out would not cast them out as a problem for society? Why is there a stereotype that if a Man wears panties there must be a mental or emotional problem? What I do hurts no one, is not a disease, and is not wrong but just different so why am I an outcast in this world?  (Oct 31, 2011 | post #304)

Ruston, LA

Hot guy wearing Panties????

If I was ever able to find a woman that accepts the fact that I wear panties she wouldn't be disappointed, I just purchased 1 of every new panty on the Victoria Secrets website. Which I would offer to her before myself. How do you find a woman who is accepting of this?  (May 12, 2011 | post #226)