From USA trying to find friend in Pretoria

[Kitt]

I lost contact with a friend whose home is Pretoria. His name is Jan Stander. There are many listings for Stander. We were corresponding over the internet. His age is 48. Any help is greatly appreciated.

[CELINA]

I KNOW HIM, SEND ME YOU E MAIL PLEASE

[Jennifer]

If you didn't get your contact info, I may be able to help you. My husband works with a "Jan Stander" who is also 48 (he is a handsome devil!)

[Wanda]

Jennifer wrote:

If you didn't get your contact info, I may be able to help you. My husband works with a "Jan Stander" who is also 48 (he is a handsome devil!)

Hi jennifer

Kitt and I were looking for information on stan..She is no longer interested but I am..It sounds like it could be the same man...yes for me he is the most handsome man...I just want to know the truth about him..If you can help me i would appreciate it..wanda ... [e-mail]

[Wanda]

CELINA wrote:

I KNOW HIM, SEND ME YOU E MAIL PLEASE

Hi selena
How do you know him ?? Was he also corresponding with you while in iraq??

[Celina]

Wanda wrote:

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Hi selena
How do you know him ?? Was he also corresponding with you while in iraq??

Yes Wanda, it's the same guy

[Denisse]

Yes, we talk for 5 months (mail, webcam, phone, everything) hope he is ok and happy with his wife and daughter.

[Denisse]

This is what Stan sent me yesterday:

Hi to all ,
Ok yes we all chatted for some time but now it ends with no regrets. To all , thank u and all of u were special to me. I am finished in Iraq and back in South Africa.
Hope u are all doing great and not living in the past but for the future, i have not one bad thing to say about any one. Forget about me and go on with live

[Denisse]

if you want anyway the last email adress that I have, please let me know

[Mahdi male age17]

i am serching for friend in usa but nobody wants to be friend with me .I want to talk with a friend in usa.please help me.i am study french in myy country.if you want know me and chat with me send me email.
[e-mail]

[Jennifer]

Wow - this guy has gotten around!! How do you all feel - slightly used? Last I heard he was divorced and owned a coffee farm in Columbia. But it appears the "story" has changed, depending on who he felt like being that day. Wishing you all the best, he is not worth the time of day.

[mercy recuerdo]

i like to pen friends in USA IM A PHILIPINA WOMAN

[STELLA]

[JENNIFER, WOULD APPRECIATE IF YOU CAN TELL ME WHERE TO FIND JAN STANDER (STAN). I LOST ALL CONTACT WITH HIM AND WILL CERTAINLY LIKE TO KNOW FROM HIM

[STELLA]

Denisse wrote:

if you want anyway the last email adress that I have, please let me know

Denisse :
Will appreciatte if you send me the last email address you have from jan stander (stan). I want to know from him. thanks

[Wanda]

Hi...No it seems he told the same story to all of us.It was much easier that way he didnt get confused with his story.He portrayed himself as the perfect man, we all dream of...The one that makes us feel special,loved and totally beautiful!! He knows what to say !! His cards,emails,ims and voice when he calls you...totally melt you!!Its like spell he puts on you that makes you believe and totally fall in love with him!! Yes as you can tell I totally loved him...always will...I'm not sorry he crossed my life,for he made me very happy!! I just wish he truly loved me as he said...but then again who knows if he even knows what love is, since he said the same to all of us.. The sad part is that I dont hate him for what he made me and my children go through....yes I would forgive him and would love to be with him forever...

[Wanda]

Jennifer

Is your husband in iraq?? Since the begining he told me he was divorced..had 1 daughter in her early 20's studying to become a dentist.He did say he had a coffee farm in medillin..A clothing factory and some cattle...He sent me many pics of himself in iraq,colombia and his daughter with her boyfriend...he corresponded and talked to my kids on cam..they also miss him and wanted him in our lifes!I'm wondering with so many women that he talked to online and for sooo long....sometimes we would talk for hours on cam and im....I'm wondering how did he find the time to work!!

[STELLA]

WANDA :
HE LIVES IN COLOMBIA, WITH HIS NEW WIFE, JULIA, THEY HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR A COUPLE OF YEARS.
SEEMS HE PLAYED WITH ALL OF US.
HE TOLD YOU, ME AND ALL THE OTHERS THE SAME STORY, AND TO ALL OF US HE SAID HE REALLY LOVED EACH ONE. I THINK HE REALLY DOES NOT KNOW WHAT REALLY LOVE IS. I REALLY FEEL SORRY FOR HIS WIFE.
WHAT AN IMMATURE AND BAD MAN HE IS!!!!!

[Wanda]

Stella

How do you know this??? have you talked to him? OR seen him in Medellin?? If you want you can email me..Wanda

[Jennifer]

Ladies -
What do you say you all just chalk this up to a learning experience and let this guy go. Like I said before he is not worth the time of day. Funny though - speaking to alllll of you how did he have any time to get anything done - and our country (USA) paid him handsomely. I wonder how many more are out there like him?
Good luck - forget fast - forgive easily and move on

[Denisse]

His email is [e-mail]

see u girls!