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Sweetie

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Well a turkish man asked me out and I've never been asked out by a turkish man and don't know anything about turkish culture. I'm a black female. Has anybody seen a couple before? Do you know any Turkish men that would date black women? I need help. Thanks
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Sweetie wrote:
Well a turkish man asked me out and I've never been asked out by a turkish man and don't know anything about turkish culture. I'm a black female. Has anybody seen a couple before? Do you know any Turkish men that would date black women? I need help. Thanks
Do you like black cck??

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http://www.turkishdailynews.com.tr/article.ph...

I can not realy answer your question but advise you to be very careful.

Many Muslim men think that western girls are permissive and take advantage, then marry a Turkish girl.

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ARMAND WAGNER wrote:
<quoted text> Do you like black cck??
It is a pity who this board has gone down the drain since only primitive young Turks are posting here;(
Sweetie

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Thanks Lakshmi72
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Lakshmi72 wrote:
http://www.turkishdailynews.co m.tr/article.php?enewsid=22408
I can not realy answer your question but advise you to be very careful.
Many Muslim men think that western girls are permissive and take advantage, then marry a Turkish girl.
Thanks for the article. I doesn't look good for me :(. Can you tell me what the Turkish people think of black people in general.
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I've never met any Turk that was with a black female!
Certainly, he likes exotism, and after having spent a while with you, he'll leave you ...

That's what happens with Westerner white females too (in most of the case; i'd say 90%)...

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Sweetie wrote:
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Thanks for the article. I doesn't look good for me :(. Can you tell me what the Turkish people think of black people in general.
If you read "Grey Wolfs" comments in the German Forum (I am a German female), it does not sound good.

This topic has somehow never come up in another Turkish forum I used to belong to.

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Grey Wolf wrote:
I've never met any Turk that was with a black female!
Certainly, he likes exotism, and after having spent a while with you, he'll leave you ...
That's what happens with Westerner white females too (in most of the case; i'd say 90%)...
Sorry, I did not see your post.
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Lakshmi72 wrote:
Many Muslim men think that western girls are permissive and take advantage, then marry a Turkish girl.
I've to avow that Wester girls don't ask marriage to have sex LOLLL

Moreover, they don't have the abilities to become a good house wife (even they don't work).

They can't cook like Turkish women,

They aren't as clean as Turkish girls (when you go to a Turkish house, you'll be asked to take out your shoes, not the case with Westerners),

They'll make eat pork to Turks and will raise the kids as native ppl here!!!

The kid will become an Atheist
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And, the biggest "issue", many of the families are just Racist; they don't even accept their children marry even other areas of other ethnic groups of Turkey.

In my case, if I try to marry an kurd, an Arab,... my family would reject me; same if Belgian or Italian ...

In fact, we're not free...
Grey Wolf

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Lakshmi72 wrote:
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If you read "Grey Wolfs" comments in the German Forum (I am a German female), it does not sound good.
This topic has somehow never come up in another Turkish forum I used to belong to.
doesn't sound good!!!

the subject is listed in the Turkish forum;

you google, "Turkish forum - topix", and you're here ...
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Sweetie wrote:
Well a turkish man asked me out and I've never been asked out by a turkish man and don't know anything about turkish culture. I'm a black female. Has anybody seen a couple before? Do you know any Turkish men that would date black women? I need help. Thanks
Hi Sweetie, please ignore all other replies, this forum is crowded with turkish haters and are here to only start mischief. I'm a turkish male and my answer to you is I love all women. I have much turkish friends dating other women from different cultures.
Suat

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Sweetie wrote:
Thanks Lakshmi72
She is not a turkish male. She speaks for everybody here.
Grey Wolf

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Suat wrote:
<quoted text> Hi Sweetie, please ignore all other replies, this forum is crowded with turkish haters and are here to only start mischief. I'm a turkish male and my answer to you is I love all women. I have much turkish friends dating other women from different cultures.
I'm not Turkish hater,
I'm a Proud and Pure Turk (with some Circassians in).

I don't want Turks to mix with everything that turns around ...

Of course, I date local girls too, but I won't marry or get her pregnant; it's what Turks do in general; this is the truth.

some tend to marry, yet, it's low.
http://www.dw-world.de/dw/article/0,2144,3134...
that was for Germany.

Same case in Belgium or France.

Also, 1/4 of Turks in the Netherlands marry close relatives !!!
Grey Wolf

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Turks are one of the most racist ppl in the World.

100 years ago, when Turkey was created, some Greeks (a few hundred thousands) changed their faith to become "Turk";

These ppl got mistreated by "coward, evil ppl" till 20 years ago, even when they were half Turk!!!

kurds are not integrated in Turkey, because they're brown in fact; families don't want their children to marry them because they think kurds are like Arabs;
in the case with kurds, I'd say that even westerner girls are more welcome than them.
Sweetie

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Thanks for the comments. I'm not a slut and plan to save myself for marriage. So I don't think even if I did date him he would get any. *sigh* I think there's racist people from all cultures including black people. I guess I'm not gonna date him.*sigh* I'm just somewhat confused right now. I haven't heard from anyone who has experienced this pair so... I don't want to be used as a experiment either *sigh*
Sweetie

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Suat wrote:
<quoted text> Hi Sweetie, please ignore all other replies, this forum is crowded with turkish haters and are here to only start mischief. I'm a turkish male and my answer to you is I love all women. I have much turkish friends dating other women from different cultures.
Thanks for the info. Do you know any of your friends who date black women? If they do how is they relationship? Are the parents accepting? Sorry for all the questions.
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Sweetie wrote:
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Thanks for the info. Do you know any of your friends who date black women? If they do how is they relationship? Are the parents accepting? Sorry for all the questions.
Hi Sweetie,

I will be fair with you. I know two Turkish girls who have black boyfriends. But they both keep it secret from their families because they are afraid of the families' reactions.

I also know a guy who was dating with a black girl. In the end, things did not work out and their relationship ended.

My message is: A traditional Turkish family would not enjoy seeing a non-Turk bride or groom marrying their son or daughter. A less-traditional Turkish family would not want a non-white bride/groom marrying their son/daughter. There may be exceptions but this will be the main pattern.

But in the end, a person with a strong character can challenge the wills of his/her family, the family will have to accept. And this is usually easier if the person in question is a male. Because Turks really dislike their daughter marrying non-Turks (even with white ones).

In the end, it depends on the person that you are dating. I think if he really loves you, things can work out between you. Usually, younger people are much more liberal on these issues compared to their parents.

Best wishes..
Sweetie

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Hi Sweetie,
I will be fair with you. I know two Turkish girls who have black boyfriends. But they both keep it secret from their families because they are afraid of the families' reactions.
I also know a guy who was dating with a black girl. In the end, things did not work out and their relationship ended.
My message is: A traditional Turkish family would not enjoy seeing a non-Turk bride or groom marrying their son or daughter. A less-traditional Turkish family would not want a non-white bride/groom marrying their son/daughter. There may be exceptions but this will be the main pattern.
But in the end, a person with a strong character can challenge the wills of his/her family, the family will have to accept. And this is usually easier if the person in question is a male. Because Turks really dislike their daughter marrying non-Turks (even with white ones).
In the end, it depends on the person that you are dating. I think if he really loves you, things can work out between you. Usually, younger people are much more liberal on these issues compared to their parents.
Best wishes..
Thanks so much for the info. The truth does hurt. I guess it's on both sides because my family doesn't even know what Turkey is. Do you know any Turkish men who find black women attractive? My friends have never really seen a turkish guy so... I don't want to generalize but in many forums that I've read they say Turkish men are very romantic and tend to be controling. What is your view on this statement?
Serkan

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Sweetie wrote:
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Thanks so much for the info. The truth does hurt. I guess it's on both sides because my family doesn't even know what Turkey is. Do you know any Turkish men who find black women attractive? My friends have never really seen a turkish guy so... I don't want to generalize but in many forums that I've read they say Turkish men are very romantic and tend to be controling. What is your view on this statement?
Of course I know Turkish men who find black women attractive. On my behalf, I see a lot of really hot black girls in Pittsburgh ;)

I can say that Turkish people are usually more emotional than Westerners, especially Americans. We usually do not date with as many people as an average American does in our life times, and that is why each person that we have an affair with is very valuable to us.

Many Turkish males are protective (usually more traditional ones), and once they are together with a girl, they try to do anything for her. e.g. Male paying the bills is almost a rule for Turkish men.

Yeah, I think we are controlling. But it is because we really value the girls that we are together with. I think, to some extent, this should be similar for, say Armenians, Persians or Greeks. It is something to do with oriental culture. But could be more remarkable with the Turkish men.

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