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Snoopy

Szombathely, Hungary

#1 Nov 30, 2010
You guy talk a lot about gambian men cheats and scam but none, so far has said the truth. The gambia is a well known place for female sex tourism and we all know. Personally, i do think that western women, specially british, german and swedish women know. I have been travelling to the gambia for a while now and i was always wondering why there is so many lonely middled aged and overweight women in the plane. Comon people, you go there to get what you don't get back home. These women are acting like male sex tourists, they go to the poorest places all over the world knowing that the probabily of being said NO is really low. Do they really think that a 21 year old guy will hook up with a 45 years woman without any financial interest? That's an absolute nonsense. These guys are male prostitutes, that's what they do to support themselve and the relatives. Since when prostitues are falling in love with there customers? Comon people stand up behind your acts. Say i got ripped off by a gigolo, which for me is the truth instead of bullsh***g gambian men.
By the way, if Gambian men were so bad, why do they still going there? These women are the liars, they are the cheaters. There is nothing wrong with 2 adults having fun, that's their business, but having fun with prostitute not knowing that you have to pay for it. don't make me laugh grannies.
dave

Szombathely, Hungary

#2 Nov 30, 2010
Comon people let's break the taboo, we have all heard about how sweet Gambian men are. At 45 or 50 years, men in the west don't really pay attention to us anymore, they like them younger. So we gotta get the groove somewhere esle. If it is not gambia for the sweet talking, it would have been jamaica for the big bamboo, or the republican dominic. British women are amoung the most well know sex tourist, both sex. Comon people let say the truth. Even after all the comments, all the stories, the planes are still fun of middle age women heading to the gambia. Are they still so naive or just hypocrit? let bring it on. Tell us what you think
Ayesha

Flitwick, UK

#3 Nov 30, 2010
dave wrote:
Comon people let's break the taboo, we have all heard about how sweet Gambian men are. At 45 or 50 years, men in the west don't really pay attention to us anymore, they like them younger. So we gotta get the groove somewhere esle. If it is not gambia for the sweet talking, it would have been jamaica for the big bamboo, or the republican dominic. British women are amoung the most well know sex tourist, both sex. Comon people let say the truth. Even after all the comments, all the stories, the planes are still fun of middle age women heading to the gambia. Are they still so naive or just hypocrit? let bring it on. Tell us what you think
First of all, it would be nice if u stick with one name, Snoopy or Dave as obviously you are the same person "Comon"????? I DO agree with a lot of what u say but I also think that some women (many, many on this site) have been genuinly Love Scammed by someone. And these are the ones that I feel sympathy for. I myself am not old, overweight, ugly or desperate and yet it still happened to me, totally out of the blue. There was no 30 year age gap and I travel all over the world and never go in for holiday "romances" as they are pointless and normally a waste of time but u don't always have to go looking for love, for love to hit u when u least expect it. It is not like it is the minority of guys that do this in the Gambia (I can't speak for other countries); I could not walk along the beach or the street without being hit on by some opportunist and this wasn't just in the typical tourist areas. It wasn't just a random guy, here or there, it was MOST of them, from the hotel workers to the police to the pest on the beach. It's not just older women that these guys hit on although I guess they will have more luck with them as they are normally divorced or lonely and have money but it happens to any woman with a pulse from what I see. It's a lesson learnt but it is not going to stop me going there again or anywhere I choose, i'm just going a lot wiser next time and they can go and be nice to be nice somewhere else!!

Since: Oct 10

Location hidden

#4 Dec 1, 2010
snoopy , if you read all the comments on here the truth has been said many times before...i have seen these women for myself in the Gambia and agree its not good to see.personally i would never and don't have too go on holiday to get this attention you are talking about. many do go again & again and never learn.
first time i went was with a friend who was getting married,no matter where we went the guys behaviour was the same, not just on the beach or club.other times with my partner,who when left my in the car the opportunist would approach.
again, you don't have to go on holiday to meet these men they are living on your doorstep.....
Krysia

London, UK

#5 Dec 2, 2010
Snoopy wrote:
You guy talk a lot about gambian men cheats and scam but none, so far has said the truth. The gambia is a well known place for female sex tourism and we all know. Personally, i do think that western women, specially british, german and swedish women know. I have been travelling to the gambia for a while now and i was always wondering why there is so many lonely middled aged and overweight women in the plane. Comon people, you go there to get what you don't get back home. These women are acting like male sex tourists, they go to the poorest places all over the world knowing that the probabily of being said NO is really low. Do they really think that a 21 year old guy will hook up with a 45 years woman without any financial interest? That's an absolute nonsense. These guys are male prostitutes, that's what they do to support themselve and the relatives. Since when prostitues are falling in love with there customers? Comon people stand up behind your acts. Say i got ripped off by a gigolo, which for me is the truth instead of bullsh***g gambian men.
By the way, if Gambian men were so bad, why do they still going there? These women are the liars, they are the cheaters. There is nothing wrong with 2 adults having fun, that's their business, but having fun with prostitute not knowing that you have to pay for it. don't make me laugh grannies.
I have been the Gambia twice.
Both times with my Gambian husband who I met in the UK.
He turned out to be the biggest liar and fraudster I have ever known.
He married me to get a UK visa.....much later,I discovered that he was an illegal immogrant here at the time AND he was already married...to his 'sister' who also went along with the scam and even stayed at my house while her husband had sex with me in the next room!
I would not judge a granny if she went for sex but there is no way that I believe that this is the case. If it were then sex would be all that is involved.
Instead, vulnerable,naive,decent women are being taken advantage of by this bumsters.
If this is not the case why do the Gambian men have to lie their way in????????
Why do they say they love you? If I wanted sex I would not expect a prostitute to tell me love me.
Not only that, they also try to 'marry' western women for further gain....like visas and more financial gain.
Sorry my 'friend' but you are obviously condoning this scam by your missive.
I left wondering why??? because you obviously do NOT have a conscience. I must assume you are trying to further the scam.
I did a lot of work for the poor in Gambia but thanks to the behaviour I have encountered from these people, I will never do so again and never go to The Gambia either. You scammers are hurting your own people by your selfish lies.
You can only see in front of your nose and that it why the bigger picture will never change until you get some morals.
Forget about prayer mats six times a day....God is not a fool.
he does not want the adoration of liars and thieves.
He would rather you lived a decent life.....maybe Gambia is poor for a reason.....but you are unable to open your eyes.
Ayesha

Flitwick, UK

#6 Dec 2, 2010
Krysia wrote:
<quoted text>
I have been the Gambia twice.
Both times with my Gambian husband who I met in the UK.
He turned out to be the biggest liar and fraudster I have ever known.
He married me to get a UK visa.....much later,I discovered that he was an illegal immogrant here at the time AND he was already married...to his 'sister' who also went along with the scam and even stayed at my house while her husband had sex with me in the next room!
I would not judge a granny if she went for sex but there is no way that I believe that this is the case. If it were then sex would be all that is involved.
Instead, vulnerable,naive,decent women are being taken advantage of by this bumsters.
If this is not the case why do the Gambian men have to lie their way in????????
Why do they say they love you? If I wanted sex I would not expect a prostitute to tell me love me.
Not only that, they also try to 'marry' western women for further gain....like visas and more financial gain.
Sorry my 'friend' but you are obviously condoning this scam by your missive.
I left wondering why??? because you obviously do NOT have a conscience. I must assume you are trying to further the scam.
I did a lot of work for the poor in Gambia but thanks to the behaviour I have encountered from these people, I will never do so again and never go to The Gambia either. You scammers are hurting your own people by your selfish lies.
You can only see in front of your nose and that it why the bigger picture will never change until you get some morals.
Forget about prayer mats six times a day....God is not a fool.
he does not want the adoration of liars and thieves.
He would rather you lived a decent life.....maybe Gambia is poor for a reason.....but you are unable to open your eyes.
Krysia.... sorry to hear about your terrible Gambian Experience - I totally agree with everything you say and using religion as a cover is unforgivable. I have been to poor countries where this would never happen so I hate the way they try and gain sympathy and justify their wicked ways by saying they are poor, blah blah blah. Yes, the Sister is nearly always the wife and she doesn't care what her husband does as long as it brings in the money. The entire family are in on it. So, all we can do is come on here and talk to victims/survivors of scams and cons. Shame we can't get them before they come on here but they won't listen and each thinks that their man is "different". What a shame that u will never help the people there again but I'm sure you will be able to help people in other countries without being scammed. I'm trying to turn my negative experience into a positive by advising other women and girls and hope this site gives food for thought.
Snoopy

Szombathely, Hungary

#7 Dec 2, 2010
Krysia.. I am not saying that i am happy with all what's going on in the Gambia. It's such a beautifull country and lots of Gambian people are really nice and genuine. Now the whole reputation of that country is messed up by british people, saying that there is only conmen in there which is not true.
Trust me, lots of women know why they going there, when i look at them in the plane, they all look the same, older, overweight and desperate.Why can they not stay at home and get some mal escort? It would be better for them because you only pay once.
what have they got some special these guys, the only thing they do is lying, cheating and stealling, comon ladies we know that, we DO KNOW that.

Off course, there is a lot of lovely and genuine women going there as well and they get basically ripped off and came back with nothing, no money left and no boyfriend. Sure if before going to gambia, you get a brochure, it will be written on it that you have got to becarefull.

We all know that by now, and i am pretty sure that in 10 years time, we will still be talking about that issue. This scam thing is on for years and years now and i can't believe people still get trapped in this. How can a grand ma, think that a 21 boy will stay with her? Have you seen african men dating women older than them?

ppffff The more we speak about it, the more the people get keen to go there and the more damage they get in return. if it is not the Gambia, it will be another country. pppffff
Ayesha

Flitwick, UK

#8 Dec 2, 2010
dave wrote:
Comon people let's break the taboo, we have all heard about how sweet Gambian men are. At 45 or 50 years, men in the west don't really pay attention to us anymore, they like them younger. So we gotta get the groove somewhere esle. If it is not gambia for the sweet talking, it would have been jamaica for the big bamboo, or the republican dominic. British women are amoung the most well know sex tourist, both sex. Comon people let say the truth. Even after all the comments, all the stories, the planes are still fun of middle age women heading to the gambia. Are they still so naive or just hypocrit? let bring it on. Tell us what you think
Just wondered why your name is Dave if u are a woman? I take it that ur a woman as you said "men in the West don't really pay attention to us anymore"....... unless u are gay LOL...

Since: Mar 10

Location hidden

#9 Dec 2, 2010
omg....i agree totally....you are right on every single word....they are the most selfish people on this planet....as you rightly pointd out ...dont look past their nose...they pray as if it is a joke....no conscience whatsoever....good observation....
Krysia wrote:
<quoted text>
I have been the Gambia twice.
Both times with my Gambian husband who I met in the UK.
He turned out to be the biggest liar and fraudster I have ever known.
He married me to get a UK visa.....much later,I discovered that he was an illegal immogrant here at the time AND he was already married...to his 'sister' who also went along with the scam and even stayed at my house while her husband had sex with me in the next room!
I would not judge a granny if she went for sex but there is no way that I believe that this is the case. If it were then sex would be all that is involved.
Instead, vulnerable,naive,decent women are being taken advantage of by this bumsters.
If this is not the case why do the Gambian men have to lie their way in????????
Why do they say they love you? If I wanted sex I would not expect a prostitute to tell me love me.
Not only that, they also try to 'marry' western women for further gain....like visas and more financial gain.
Sorry my 'friend' but you are obviously condoning this scam by your missive.
I left wondering why??? because you obviously do NOT have a conscience. I must assume you are trying to further the scam.
I did a lot of work for the poor in Gambia but thanks to the behaviour I have encountered from these people, I will never do so again and never go to The Gambia either. You scammers are hurting your own people by your selfish lies.
You can only see in front of your nose and that it why the bigger picture will never change until you get some morals.
Forget about prayer mats six times a day....God is not a fool.
he does not want the adoration of liars and thieves.
He would rather you lived a decent life.....maybe Gambia is poor for a reason.....but you are unable to open your eyes.
tom boy

Groningen, Netherlands

#11 Mar 31, 2011
You went to the Gambia twice for work to help poor people? why did you became interested in their men. Doesn't matter where you met your husband. you became interested to him cos he was gambian simple. Have you never heard that work and pleasure never mix? Looks like someone had covert motives there before chosing Gambia. Your escapade took just a bad turn but seem to be too blind to understand it.What if the guy was a good guy? we wouldn't have been reading anything from you here. Listen- they say the choices we make determines the life we live
denise

Coleford, UK

#12 Apr 1, 2011
tom boy wrote:
You went to the Gambia twice for work to help poor people? why did you became interested in their men. Doesn't matter where you met your husband. you became interested to him cos he was gambian simple. Have you never heard that work and pleasure never mix? Looks like someone had covert motives there before chosing Gambia. Your escapade took just a bad turn but seem to be too blind to understand it.What if the guy was a good guy? we wouldn't have been reading anything from you here. Listen- they say the choices we make determines the life we live
there not many good guys in gambia. it would be like looking for a neddle in a haystack.i went to gambia and met my partner through a friend i knew.ive seen how they operate. so my escapade must have taken a bad turn too.they couldnt tell the truth if their life depended on it.why shouldnt people visit gambia.it is a lovely country.why should we be subjected to these low life parsites.
carrie

Berlin, Germany

#13 May 7, 2011
[your posting is no good, anything goes for men but if an overweight woman in their forties ( this in no grannny is she???) want to go to bed with a younger guy its not ok why then????the guys are no prostitutes they are like they are...you have no idea, the only thing i can tell ( notice i aint overweight and 40 and look thanks to god very good) is that gambian guys are good in bed they have beautiful bodies and they last longer in bed and have a good style ( you get what i say????) that makes us white chicks never want to go back with a white man in bed, i can tell cause i met enough by now... the problem is not the age is the different worlds we are living, the different expectations and so on, so dont talk so arrogantly about the non attractive women travelling for sex in the gambia ( i was never there will never probably go) they dont go there to rape children like old men travelling to thailand and so on...do so why you compare them with them???since gambian men ony have their genitals to offer this is just fine that the ladies wish to take it whats your problem with that???we are living in a sex crazed society why shouldnt overweight women have fun???
Aylin B

Flitwick, UK

#14 May 7, 2011
carrie wrote:
[your posting is no good, anything goes for men but if an overweight woman in their forties ( this in no grannny is she???) want to go to bed with a younger guy its not ok why then????the guys are no prostitutes they are like they are...you have no idea, the only thing i can tell ( notice i aint overweight and 40 and look thanks to god very good) is that gambian guys are good in bed they have beautiful bodies and they last longer in bed and have a good style ( you get what i say????) that makes us white chicks never want to go back with a white man in bed, i can tell cause i met enough by now... the problem is not the age is the different worlds we are living, the different expectations and so on, so dont talk so arrogantly about the non attractive women travelling for sex in the gambia ( i was never there will never probably go) they dont go there to rape children like old men travelling to thailand and so on...do so why you compare them with them???since gambian men ony have their genitals to offer this is just fine that the ladies wish to take it whats your problem with that???we are living in a sex crazed society why shouldnt overweight women have fun???
Eh???? Who are you actually replying to? Who's posting is No Good?
Gambian men "Only have their genitals to offer" - what the hell does that mean?????????? Sounds like you have had plenty of Gambian experiences!!!!!! Oh my days!!!!! Gambian men would never marry a woman who has been around the block so many times. Sex tourism again.... hey ho....
sofie

Wolverhampton, UK

#15 May 13, 2011
carrie wrote:
[your posting is no good, anything goes for men but if an overweight woman in their forties ( this in no grannny is she???) want to go to bed with a younger guy its not ok why then????the guys are no prostitutes they are like they are...you have no idea, the only thing i can tell ( notice i aint overweight and 40 and look thanks to god very good) is that gambian guys are good in bed they have beautiful bodies and they last longer in bed and have a good style ( you get what i say????) that makes us white chicks never want to go back with a white man in bed, i can tell cause i met enough by now... the problem is not the age is the different worlds we are living, the different expectations and so on, so dont talk so arrogantly about the non attractive women travelling for sex in the gambia ( i was never there will never probably go) they dont go there to rape children like old men travelling to thailand and so on...do so why you compare them with them???since gambian men ony have their genitals to offer this is just fine that the ladies wish to take it whats your problem with that???we are living in a sex crazed society why shouldnt overweight women have fun???
you white women dont have a genuine humanistic bone in your bodies.you are like dogs,how can you say another human being, a gambian man only has his genitals to offer?? blacks are just flesh for you to lust after you will eat them like cannibals if it was not illegal.
questioning

Birmingham, UK

#16 May 13, 2011
carrie wrote:
[your posting is no good, anything goes for men but if an overweight woman in their forties ( this in no grannny is she???) want to go to bed with a younger guy its not ok why then????the guys are no prostitutes they are like they are...you have no idea, the only thing i can tell ( notice i aint overweight and 40 and look thanks to god very good) is that gambian guys are good in bed they have beautiful bodies and they last longer in bed and have a good style ( you get what i say????) that makes us white chicks never want to go back with a white man in bed, i can tell cause i met enough by now... the problem is not the age is the different worlds we are living, the different expectations and so on, so dont talk so arrogantly about the non attractive women travelling for sex in the gambia ( i was never there will never probably go) they dont go there to rape children like old men travelling to thailand and so on...do so why you compare them with them???since gambian men ony have their genitals to offer this is just fine that the ladies wish to take it whats your problem with that???we are living in a sex crazed society why shouldnt overweight women have fun???
i think you mean bumsters only have their genitals and its ok for 2 consenting adults to do what they want if both parties are happy with the arrangement? i have to say i agree they are not harming anyone and if both parties know the rules thats fine by me. its just the one who say "i love you" "i want to marry you" and generally take advantage of a lonely womans feelings. i think these women know its unlikely but they are overwhelmed by the attention and its like a drug, its euphoric and its human nature as women fall in love with what they hear and men fall in love with what they see, thats why with all the forums in the world and all the warning sigs flashing when a western woman has a lonely existance and she gets that attention she will do whatever it takes to have that man with her in england. so i myself think theres a slight difference between bumsters one being some will just chat and have sex (or not),give company or be a taxi or guide with women for some kind of payment and the ones who want to get to the UK so desperately they will downright lie and scam their way to a womans heart and those are the dangerous ones. thats my feelings but never having been to gambia i really havent experienced them for myself. or maybe im talking complete tosh and all the bumsters want to get here and i have just wasted 10 minutes of my life typing rubbish lol its just a obsvervation of human nature.
Missy

Walsall, UK

#17 May 13, 2011
Why oh why do people like Snoopy think that single women, mature women, overweight, and even cosmetically challanged women go to Gambia or any third world country for a 'man' any woman can get a man in her own country even if she has to pay for it, so why on earth would a woman spend hundreds of pounds on a trip going abroad and then still pay for it with food,drinks,gifts, where it would be far less cheaper to have a dabble with someone nearer home.

I have been to Gambia 3 times over the last 5 years, and never once felt the urge to have a 'Black Mamba'
Yes of course I get approached,and btw I am not old, overweight or cant get a man in my own country, but obviously they think that any woman is fair game, and its up to the individual woman to put them straight.
I have seen older women with young men, and old men with young gals, so what? Gambia hasnt got the monolopy of pull a pig for a visa, there are many countries that make the Gambians look like choir boys.
Aylin B

Flitwick, UK

#18 May 13, 2011
Missy wrote:
Why oh why do people like Snoopy think that single women, mature women, overweight, and even cosmetically challanged women go to Gambia or any third world country for a 'man' any woman can get a man in her own country even if she has to pay for it, so why on earth would a woman spend hundreds of pounds on a trip going abroad and then still pay for it with food,drinks,gifts, where it would be far less cheaper to have a dabble with someone nearer home.
I have been to Gambia 3 times over the last 5 years, and never once felt the urge to have a 'Black Mamba'
Yes of course I get approached,and btw I am not old, overweight or cant get a man in my own country, but obviously they think that any woman is fair game, and its up to the individual woman to put them straight.
I have seen older women with young men, and old men with young gals, so what? Gambia hasnt got the monolopy of pull a pig for a visa, there are many countries that make the Gambians look like choir boys.
Simple thing is that SOME women CAN'T get cute looking fit guys in their own countries but don't want to pay for services rendered, they'd rather have the illusion of a guy talking sweet rubbish in their ears so that they can believe someone out there loves them. They like the fantasy and the romance and excitement and for that they pay thousands of pounds on trips and paying everything for the man when they are in The Gambia. Sad fact.
Aylin B

Flitwick, UK

#19 May 13, 2011
sofie wrote:
<quoted text>you white women dont have a genuine humanistic bone in your bodies.you are like dogs,how can you say another human being, a gambian man only has his genitals to offer?? blacks are just flesh for you to lust after you will eat them like cannibals if it was not illegal.
Sofie, whether a woman is black or white makes no difference - the point is that ANYONE talking about ANYONE as a sex object is degrading to everyone ..we are human beings and much more than our physical attributes!!
sofia

Wolverhampton, UK

#21 May 16, 2011
Aylin B wrote:
<quoted text>
Sofie, whether a woman is black or white makes no difference - the point is that ANYONE talking about ANYONE as a sex object is degrading to everyone ..we are human beings and much more than our physical attributes!!
I hear you, and yes you are right.

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#22 May 17, 2011
experientia docet for who knows latin...we are not prophet to know earlier what it will happen. only, if we have premonition and a special feeling.

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