are the gambian women in on their husbands marrying western women?

[Reality Check]

And before you become paranoid 'Tutti' please remember there are in excess of 16 million inhabitants in London!. We are not all the same person!

At least 5% of those 16 million have travelled to and experienced the Gambia.

[cumupence1]

Reality Check wrote:

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Yes they live in cloud cuckoo land. They are 60+ on benefits. Swinging the lead bigtime. Disability Living.'Atendennce Allowance etc. Milking the system big time.
Kiddin themselves these bumsters love them when in reality they're been played, scammed, taken to the cleaners. Rinsed, just like they're playin and rinsin the system.
No wonder the govt. is clampin down, they're on to these fat slags.

theres the thing they not all 60+, and i agree tutti i wouldn't call these women slags...
one even claims that she would not accept a polygamous marriage but has converted to islam and she thinks relationships don't work for women like us because' WE DON'T LEARN THE CULTURE' therefore get scammed, so as i take from that comment is you probably realise you are going to end up in a polygamous marriage but they have learned the gambian culture so we won't see that bit. one even says her husband goes to gambia every year for 1 month but no mention that he goes away with her... so yes maybe non eyes open but not slags.

[cumupence1]

there are women who do go to gambia for the thrill of all they can get though and some of there behaviour is awfull.

[Reality Check]

cumupence1 wrote:

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theres the thing they not all 60+, and i agree tutti i wouldn't call these women slags...
one even claims that she would not accept a polygamous marriage but has converted to islam and she thinks relationships don't work for women like us because' WE DON'T LEARN THE CULTURE' therefore get scammed, so as i take from that comment is you probably realise you are going to end up in a polygamous marriage but they have learned the gambian culture so we won't see that bit. one even says her husband goes to gambia every year for 1 month but no mention that he goes away with her... so yes maybe non eyes open but not slags.

I agree, however the Gambia has become a sex tourism/peddophile destination. And we are not referring to the 'nice' old dears who get taken to the cleaners by con men bumsters.

We are talking about Gambia as a sex tourism destination where ugly fat old men and women can get laid for a few hundred dallasi and that is a fact!!.

And the Gambian government and tourism industry is aware of it and accepts it.

Gambia is a low-life downmaket sex-tourism destination for very low life Brits. Fat unattractive men and women. Unwanted by anyone in their own country!.

The Benidorm of Africa!.

[cumupence1]

it has been like this for a while now especially for the older man. the women have come later.
you put your staement like you arguing 'and that is a fact' but no one is saying any different. every one knows this happens. there are these kind of people there as i many other countries but there are also the other other women who do not have a bumster as such, a good quiet man who prays and treats them nicely ect but still have an alteria motive. these women are not sex tourists.

[Janette]

With regard to the other Gambian site - WetPaint .

It's filled with older ( middle aged 55+) women that need a support structure to justify a relationship with a Gambian male (usually a bumster) in disguise.

There is the occasional obsessed person whose relationship is working out that helps validate the rest of the hopefully desperate cases.

Then of course there are those that have learned by stepping into the fire and having their feet badly burned off by a Gambian bumster that seek solace in people that have has the same happen to them (misery loves company).

I don't fit any of these categories and was simply there to express my sentiments. Had I done so however, the personal attacks would just escalate so I choose not get involved.

[s_sweet_c]

What's the advantage age in this forum?

[Janette]

A typical member is "Deboank' A more appropriate name would be 'DeboBank' if you have a look at her grinning bumster who's at least 30 years younger than her.

Deboank claims to be 54 but looks closer to 64.

"What else you should know about me" she asks:

"I've fallen head over heels for a young Gambian man & I'm in need of some positive feedback if possible after following threads on Topix"

Says it all really. She has a toyboy bumster who's most likely fleecing her and Debo is seeking positive feedback, or flannel from other members that her bumster toyboy really loves her.

[awoosophia]

Reality Check wrote:

'Tutti' i have read your acerbic bitter comments and wondered the same. Is this a man?
I can assure you I am neither a man nor the person you accuse me of.
I am merely a tourist who has been to gamia once, and who has been thoroughly sickened by what I saw in the Gambia.
Fat obese promiscuous ugly grandmothers shagging around, drinking cheap spirits to excess and falling for the bumster bullshit and yes marrying the parasites who've never done a day's work in their life.
All they do is leech off ponce off ugly fat toubabs with very very low self esteem on benefits.
Just like all your mates on wetpaint have done.

Bit harsh dont u think Reality ?? Not all women who visit the gambia are " fat ugly grandmothers...and ugly fat toubabs!!! Never judge a book by the cover, who is to say that these women were feeling lonely. Whether you or anybody find it unbelievable what has happened and who these women have fallen for etc...they have all had their own personal reasons for doing so at the time, be it a big mistake or not!!... And they are not Fat..ugly ..obese grandmothers by any stretch of the imagination. Beauty is in the eyes and all that!!!

[awoosophia]

Seriously think you need to take your name sake, literally. And maybe and have one for yourself. Reality Check that is!!

[deboank]

Janette wrote:

A typical member is "Deboank' A more appropriate name would be 'DeboBank' if you have a look at her grinning bumster who's at least 30 years younger than her.
Deboank claims to be 54 but looks closer to 64.
"What else you should know about me" she asks:
"I've fallen head over heels for a young Gambian man & I'm in need of some positive feedback if possible after following threads on Topix"
Says it all really. She has a toyboy bumster who's most likely fleecing her and Debo is seeking positive feedback, or flannel from other members that her bumster toyboy really loves her.

On a more positive note. No matter how old or fat or wrinkly you get. As long as Gambia exists there is no need to ever be without a good F**k. It's well worth the money we get fleeced out of

[Jeanette]

deboank wrote:

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On a more positive note. No matter how old or fat or wrinkly you get. As long as Gambia exists there is no need to ever be without a good F**k. It's well worth the money we get fleeced out of

You dirty vile old slapper.

You deserve all the aggro and scams your bumster tried on. Clearly he's only with you for dosh. He's a whore.

You're an example of all that is wrong with the Gambia, The easy old slaggy toubab, out to shag anything that moves and has to pay for it.

By you accepting cr@p you get cr@p you lowlife easy old tart.

[carefulgirl]

Janette wrote:

With regard to the other Gambian site - WetPaint .
It's filled with older ( middle aged 55+) women that need a support structure to justify a relationship with a Gambian male (usually a bumster) in disguise.
There is the occasional obsessed person whose relationship is working out that helps validate the rest of the hopefully desperate cases.
Then of course there are those that have learned by stepping into the fire and having their feet badly burned off by a Gambian bumster that seek solace in people that have has the same happen to them (misery loves company).
I don't fit any of these categories and was simply there to express my sentiments. Had I done so however, the personal attacks would just escalate so I choose not get involved.

You are wise Janette- best not to get involved with anything like that- it would not help you at all and all you do is appeal to the 'less desirable' in these forums -'onwards and upwards' is a good motto!

[deboank]

Jeanette wrote:

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You dirty vile old slapper.
You deserve all the aggro and scams your bumster tried on. Clearly he's only with you for dosh. He's a whore.
You're an example of all that is wrong with the Gambia, The easy old slaggy toubab, out to shag anything that moves and has to pay for it.
By you accepting cr@p you get cr@p you lowlife easy old tart.

I dont get no aggro & if they offer it I can afford to pay for it. Even if I end up disabled & in a wheelchair with my arthritis I know I can always rely on getting shagged in Gambia

[Jeanette]

Sad old tart, wheelchair or not. Old wh...res like you are a disgrace an give Brits. a bad name.
They think we're all easy old slags like yourself.

One day your pension/ money will run out and no man will want you you old slapper. You should be ashamed of yourself.

[Tutti K]

Jeanette wrote:

Sad old tart, wheelchair or not. Old wh...res like you are a disgrace an give Brits. a bad name.
They think we're all easy old slags like yourself.
One day your pension/ money will run out and no man will want you you old slapper. You should be ashamed of yourself.

i dont agree as slags are women who get used by men and give away themselves for nothing, if a women wants to pay for sex thats different. both parties know what the score is and nobody gets hurt, unlike when a woman gets scamed thinking a guy loves her, totally different kettle of fish.

[deboank]

Jeanette wrote:

Sad old tart, wheelchair or not. Old wh...res like you are a disgrace an give Brits. a bad name.
They think we're all easy old slags like yourself.
One day your pension/ money will run out and no man will want you you old slapper. You should be ashamed of yourself.

Bullshit Open your eyes when you're in Gambia & you will see that it really doesn't matter how old or ugly you are. There is always a fit young good looking muscular young man ready to service you for the price of a couple of Jul Brews. It's full of threads on here from sad women who've been scammed by these bumsters. Let more of the many underfucked grannies who go to Gambia to scam the scammers. Own up to why you really go & lets have a laugh at their expense.

[Zomba]

deboank wrote:

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Bullshit Open your eyes when you're in Gambia & you will see that it really doesn't matter how old or ugly you are. There is always a fit young good looking muscular young man ready to service you for the price of a couple of Jul Brews. It's full of threads on here from sad women who've been scammed by these bumsters. Let more of the many underfucked grannies who go to Gambia to scam the scammers. Own up to why you really go & lets have a laugh at their expense.

You are too stupid to realise the damage you are doing by creating a generation of prostitutes and damaging further the reputation of the Gambia worldwide.

You obviously have no self respect, no dignity. You are robbing young Gambians of dignity too.
Why travel to the Gambia for sex? Is it not available closer to home?

[Juliet]

I agree with the last comment. Are'nt there enough male prostitutes in Bradford who could service you?.
Surely it would be cheaper.

[deboank]

Jeanette wrote:

Sad old tart, wheelchair or not. Old wh...res like you are a disgrace an give Brits. a bad name.
They think we're all easy old slags like yourself.
One day your pension/ money will run out and no man will want you you old slapper. You should be ashamed of yourself.

Jeanette a hore is someone who gets paid for sex. In my case it's me that does the paying & so do many other women like me. We haven't done anything wrong by taking these bumsters up on their offer of sex. If they think we are daft enough to fall for their sweet talking lies & bullshit then it's their tough luck. Western men have been travelling as sex tourists to Thailand & other places for years.Now it's the womens turn. We live in an age of equal opportunities so embrace this new found freedom & be proud of it!!!!!