my Somali boyfriend is atheist and uncircumcised! :)

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#1 Jan 7, 2011
Hi everyone!

I am in love with my boyfriend! he is an amazing person...Ok, a quick story of me and my boyfriend. I am a Somali girl. born and raised in a small Midwest town.I never grew up with Somalis and the only Somali i knew where my family growing up in my small town, which was 98% white.currently, I go to a university and away from my family. I am loving the big city and the diversity of people! my Somali boyfriend and i have similar stories of where we grew up. he also grew up in a small town.I am his first Somali gf and he is my first Somali bf ever ( before him, i dated two white and christian guys). my current bf is fantastic!...I recently learned that majority of Somali men are circumcised, well i knew at least 1/2 of US men are. I thought this was weird, because I never made love to a circumcised men. well i don't dislike them, it's just that i never had a circumcised bf. both of my ex boyfriends who i had sex with were uncircumcised. Interestingly, my Somali bf is also not circumcised. I have no issue with it at all. in fact, i don't agree with circumcision for both male or female.Some people consider uncircumcised men unclean, however my bf is clean. we went to his doctor together once when he was getting checkup. he is healthy sexually. his doctor told him that actually uncircumcised men have more pleasure because their foreskin is intact and that it is more pleasurable for the women as well. SEX with my boyfriend is HOT! we are both sexually adventures and we love making love!!!:) My bf is faithful to me. he respects me and never cheats on me. i am the same.

another thing is that my boyfriend was raised Muslim. both of his parents are Somali and Muslims. he, however is an atheist. he keeps this a secret from everyone else except for me. I am a Muslim girl...well not a religious Muslim but a Spiritual Muslim.I love God! I know some of you might be saying u can't be Muslim and having sex with ur bf. well I believe whatever i do is between me and my God. I don't believe in cruel God who punishes ppl in hell.I believe hell is the struggles we face in our life times. I have faced hell before...enough of my explanation. To continue, my bf's Family are totally amazing. they love me. ok, they aren't ur typical Somali family for the most part. My bf parents drink alcohol and stuff. they never have problem of me and my bf sleeping together as long as we are acting as mature adults and using protections during sex. they never have issue with me wearing bikini or short shorts or even me not covering my hair. They pray five times a day too(I wish i did that). My family also loves my bf...but they don't approve of me and my bf having sex. but they love me and would never disown me no matter what. I love my family.

Ok so i don't really have any Somali friends other than my sister and my bf. I want to know what you think of me and my boyfriend? and do you have any advice for us?

p.s: why are Somalis and non-Somalis obsessed with how Somali look like. I am Somali and I get the "omg you are Somali, i could never tell" and I hate this "you are so beautiful, you are black?" oh please, shut the efff up!!!! the human race is beautiful, we are God's creations. stop being ignorant already!

Thanks, LOVE (=

Somaliluver

Mississauga, Canada

#2 Jan 7, 2011
Troll!! If you were Muslim and Somali you wouldn't say "my BF was raised as a Somali Muslim" and "at least 1/2 are circumcised and I thought that was wierd" and "I don't mind making love to a circumcised one". EXPOSED!!! A SOMALI DOESN'T LIKE THAT!

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#3 Jan 7, 2011
Somaliluver wrote:
Troll!! If you were Muslim and Somali you wouldn't say "my BF was raised as a Somali Muslim" and "at least 1/2 are circumcised and I thought that was wierd" and "I don't mind making love to a circumcised one". EXPOSED!!! A SOMALI DOESN'T LIKE THAT!
what are you saying? I don't get you at all! my boyfriend is Somali and non Muslim. he is not circumcised too.

Peace
Adam of Issaqland

West Hartford, CT

#4 Jan 7, 2011
First off I never met someone who drinks and yet prays 5 times a day. I Live in a community where there are tons of somalis and believe me when i say this, you are better off in your current location. I wish this community i live in only had 3 Somalis rather than its current 1000. Somalis in large numbers are nothing but trouble. My advice is how do u feel when you are around him? U see Islams principles cannot be forced on others but rather it must come from within u see. If you really like him do what u think is koranicly right.

“Love is serious mental disease”

Since: Feb 09

moon

#5 Jan 7, 2011
TROLL GET A LIFE.

Since: Apr 10

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#6 Jan 8, 2011
WTF??? Yup this is a fake troll story

Since: Jan 11

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#7 Jan 8, 2011
Adam of Issaqland wrote:
First off I never met someone who drinks and yet prays 5 times a day. I Live in a community where there are tons of somalis and believe me when i say this, you are better off in your current location. I wish this community i live in only had 3 Somalis rather than its current 1000. Somalis in large numbers are nothing but trouble. My advice is how do u feel when you are around him? U see Islams principles cannot be forced on others but rather it must come from within u see. If you really like him do what u think is koranicly right.
Hi
I like seeing my boyfriend because i do't get to see him often. I totally trust him, and I know he would not do something bad behind my back. I talked to him about Islam. I know that according to the Quran, I am not supposed to be dating my bf in the way I am doing. I honestly feel a bit lost when it comes to Islam. I am not extremist of course, but I have considered becoming more "religious"(btw i would never wear hejab no matter how religious i became, I believe God is not asking for me to cover my hair but to wear a beautiful heart). I love Islam and yes I do read the Quran in English. My bf said he would respect my decision if I become a more "religious". I care about him but then again, I am afraid he will not be interested in me much if we date in Islamic ways. he would miss having sex, drinking. the only physical thing we would do would be kissing, cuddling, and holding hands...and i am not even so sure if those things are allowed in Islam. I can't change my bf religious views, and i don't want to lose him. he really loves me. if we break up that would be devastating. In the future I would prefer to Marry a Muslim guy. and by the way I don't care much about marrying or dating circumcised man, I just don't agree with this practice.

Thank you for your advice, and God bless you!

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#8 Jan 8, 2011
FoziaAbdi wrote:
WTF??? Yup this is a fake troll story
Hi

excuse me but I am not telling a fake story. so are you saying there isn't a Somali man in the world who is not atheist and uncircumcised? I don't want to sound mean but I am not afraid to stand up for myself either. I think you are narrow-minded person. I asked for advice and to not to be attacked in a negative way.you need to be more respectful. I am not fake and I avoid lying.

Thank you
Adam of Issaqland

West Hartford, CT

#9 Jan 8, 2011
sillyYou8888 wrote:
<quoted text> Hi
I like seeing my boyfriend because i do't get to see him often. I totally trust him, and I know he would not do something bad behind my back. I talked to him about Islam. I know that according to the Quran, I am not supposed to be dating my bf in the way I am doing. I honestly feel a bit lost when it comes to Islam. I am not extremist of course, but I have considered becoming more "religious"(btw i would never wear hejab no matter how religious i became, I believe God is not asking for me to cover my hair but to wear a beautiful heart). I love Islam and yes I do read the Quran in English. My bf said he would respect my decision if I become a more "religious". I care about him but then again, I am afraid he will not be interested in me much if we date in Islamic ways. he would miss having sex, drinking. the only physical thing we would do would be kissing, cuddling, and holding hands...and i am not even so sure if those things are allowed in Islam. I can't change my bf religious views, and i don't want to lose him. he really loves me. if we break up that would be devastating. In the future I would prefer to Marry a Muslim guy. and by the way I don't care much about marrying or dating circumcised man, I just don't agree with this practice.
Thank you for your advice, and God bless you!
My advice to u is for you to do what u feel is morally right. Because god is the only one who see's whats truly in our hearts and minds.

Good Luck.
MGiama

San Jose, CA

#10 Jan 8, 2011
I face Hell before kulaahaa..... What a Big Lie! Another thing I wonder about this silly story is that th e poster of the story and her claimed to be a Muslim and to have love for Allah [SWT] while at the same time committing one of the biggest sins that Allah has advised the Muslims against doing such thing. This nothing more than a sort of hallucination. To be a Muslim and attain the mercy of Allah (God) one must follow the fundamental Principles of Islam and has to strive towards precluding him/herself in indulging things like sex before marriage, which is completely forbidden in Islam.

Of Course we are human beings and are open to commit sins, but a true Muslims is the one who tries to control him/herself from things that could earn him/her the wrath of God (i.e. adultery, alcohol, Shirk), and if a person found him/herself in doing some of those things, that person must repent from such gross sins and ask Allah (God) to for His forgiveness, for Allah, the Exalted, is all Merciful to those of His cibaada who are willing to seek His forgiveness. So, please, evaluate yourself and for your own sake, I would exhort you to learn what Islam is all about and the Islamic Religion has to say about this so-called BF/GF thing. Matter of fact, BF/GF has no place in Islam, and doing it is a gross sin! You and your BF (as you called him) do still have time to reflect upon this before it's too late, and start to regret on things that you have done in the past at a time when remorse will do you nothing but a throbbing pain.

Good Luck....
Platonic Love

Memphis, TN

#11 Jan 8, 2011
It is quite clear that certain discussions should not evade this forum. Please (as a courtesy) move this issue to the Human Sexuality forum.

Your immediate attention to this matter is greatly appreciated.
ali

Calgary, Canada

#12 Jan 8, 2011
who ever made this topic... you are really don't somalis a lot.... nice try troll

Since: Jan 11

Fargo, ND

#13 Jan 9, 2011
That was the most pointless story I've had the misfortune of reading. Subxanllah!
Artan

Seattle, WA

#14 Jan 13, 2011
i cant belaive i wasted 3 mins of my life-time reading a sluts story..ufff
Nomadic Status

Djibouti

#15 Jan 14, 2011
Artan wrote:
i cant belaive i wasted 3 mins of my life-time reading a sluts story..ufff
lol co-sign I donít honestly know if she is seeking acceptance or advice for the whole story she did not have one regret or displeasure in what she was doing and then at the end she asks for advice lool you got to love these trolls who come on these our forum for their statistical data research about the Somali perspective
Artan

Seattle, WA

#16 Jan 14, 2011
Nomadic Status wrote:
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lol co-sign I donít honestly know if she is seeking acceptance or advice for the whole story she did not have one regret or displeasure in what she was doing and then at the end she asks for advice lool you got to love these trolls who come on these our forum for their statistical data research about the Somali perspective
ehehheh tell me about.."hey im a slut, i clearly know im doing something wrong with my body and i know its harram(wait,, its it harram?) watever, anyways i fuck my gay somali bf,(wait hes mexican i think) but watever, anyways my father is ok with it (yah, hes a da-uuse for that), im just having sex with creepers i got stds u name it i have it, p.s. u guys got me ima troll!..anways, i was wondering can u folks give me some advice? im i slut?..im i gonna go 2 hell?(I know i am im just asking) im i somali? idk if im somali, i never seen a somali girl like me so im i somali>?.." WALLAHI this trolls CANT GET ENOUGH OF US EYY?? listen (TROLL) AFTER CUMING, AND UR SO CALLED BF IS EATTING U OUT, I WILL PRAY 2 ALLAH THAT U DIE..AND INSTALLEY BE SENT TO JAHANAMA!..amiin!(say amiin with me brother and sisters)Amiiin!!!!!!!!!!
Ahmed

London, UK

#18 Jan 17, 2011
I want somalis to be diverse. I dont want them to all the same. Gay, Hetro and bi. let them have sex at early stage/before marriage, but would advise them to keep their prayers.
Why does everyone get shocked when ever they hear "somali BF/GF"
Thanks, Enjoy ur life troll
I wish i could meet a somali girl like u.
Realistic

Toronto, Canada

#19 Feb 16, 2011
Obviously this story is fake.. Looool I'm laughing at this nonsense.
P.S you should be a story teller hoe
cadala

Denmark

#20 Feb 16, 2011
sillyYou8888 wrote:
<quoted text>
Hi
excuse me but I am not telling a fake story. so are you saying there isn't a Somali man in the world who is not atheist and uncircumcised? I don't want to sound mean but I am not afraid to stand up for myself either. I think you are narrow-minded person. I asked for advice and to not to be attacked in a negative way.you need to be more respectful. I am not fake and I avoid lying.
Thank you
pleeeeeese you trol enough is enough. pasta, We iant hear fake histry anymore ok!
Yesmam

Sunnyvale, CA

#21 Mar 21, 2011
I for one am glad to hear about an open minded Somali girl & I would say the rest of you are envious heathins live live in your own personal hells every day. Have fun cutting parts of your genitals off

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