is it actually haram not to get married?

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avary

VanlÝse, Denmark

#1 Mar 9, 2013
Hey
I'm a somali girl. I world know if its haram to not to get married? I don't think I can meet "my lover" "my only one". I think it's disgusting to kiss another person in the mouth and I think sex is even more disgusting and I know it's circle of life and its meant to be like this but I think it's impossible for me! I mean it is haram not to have ANY love relationship with a guy? I mean can I live for my self without a man in my life or should I?
hooyo

Basel, Switzerland

#2 Mar 9, 2013
avary wrote:
Hey
I'm a somali girl. I world know if its haram to not to get married? I don't think I can meet "my lover" "my only one". I think it's disgusting to kiss another person in the mouth and I think sex is even more disgusting and I know it's circle of life and its meant to be like this but I think it's impossible for me! I mean it is haram not to have ANY love relationship with a guy? I mean can I live for my self without a man in my life or should I?
oh you can live whit mukulaal or yaanyuur trust me is no haraam
Lets get real

Saint Paul, MN

#3 Mar 9, 2013
Everything was written down before you were born so i don't understand why you are bothering with this. I know some women who say they will never get married and that's haram. You cannot do that. You cannot go out of your way to hate all men because you had a bad experience with one man.

But if you just live your life and no one happens to take a interest and you end up never getting married its not a bad thing. Its just your fate or destiny.

“turn back the hands of time”

Since: Apr 10

Location hidden

#4 Mar 10, 2013
Lets get real wrote:
I know some women who say they will never get married and that's haram.
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loooooool who came up with that fatwa?
Beloved City of Mogadishu

UK

#5 Mar 10, 2013
avary wrote:
Hey
I'm a somali girl. I world know if its haram to not to get married? I don't think I can meet "my lover" "my only one". I think it's disgusting to kiss another person in the mouth and I think sex is even more disgusting and I know it's circle of life and its meant to be like this but I think it's impossible for me! I mean it is haram not to have ANY love relationship with a guy? I mean can I live for my self without a man in my life or should I?
first of all do not claim to be Somali girl
2ndly in our culture every girl from age of 7 knows n can give straight forward answer for ur silly question without hesitation,

my conclusion;

live with ur drug addiction + ur khaniisnimo.
avary

Odense, Denmark

#6 Mar 10, 2013
Beloved City of Mogadishu wrote:
<quoted text>first of all do not claim to be Somali girl
2ndly in our culture every girl from age of 7 knows n can give straight forward answer for ur silly question without hesitation,

my conclusion;

live with ur drug addiction + ur khaniisnimo.
Hey hey hey, listen! Who do u think u are coming and calling me a khaniso? I wrote somali girl becoz I'm one and becoz u guys can answer my question in the somali point of view! So don't come here and play smart and think u know everything about ppl!
Abudii

NykÝbing, Denmark

#7 Mar 10, 2013
No it's not haram to not being married: it's a choice. If sexually intercouse or to kiss someone is disguisting to you then it's not something people should force you to do.

But in the other hand it would mean that if you isn't married, you have very much time to live in: use it wisely.
thehassanabdi

UK

#8 Mar 10, 2013
INSEARCH_OF wrote:
<quoted text>
loooooool who came up with that fatwa?
Do she-males get married and to whom? very interesting,can you tell us more please?
anon

Bracknell, UK

#9 Jun 2, 2013
Marriage is half the Islamic deen and it prevents you from engaging in bad deeds.. How old are you know? because maybe in the future you will change your mind about things..
Its nice to share your life with someone.. its not just a partner, its a friend and someone who will support you throughout your life
May god bless you
Ameeen

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