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Reba

South Gate, CA

#23 Feb 19, 2012
Somali honey wrote:
I am 20 years old. I have been having unprotected sex with my boyfriend for three years now. he is somalia. He wants a three some with a women, I am tempted but not sure , he wants anal. I am a bit scared. do any Somalian have any experience with anal ? is it really painful. He says he wont marry me if I don't give in and will tell the Somalian community. I am from Mogadishu and he is from Hergeisa. We made a sex tape, I am afraid he will show people. what shall I do?
Please brothers and sisters I need your advice, please don't cuss me, I already feel bad and shamed.
This guy doesn't ever remotely care about you. I hope you are not trying to fool yourself into thinking he does.

He will never marry you. He is just using you for as much sex as he can, and enjoying degrading you. When he has done every imaginable thing he can think of to you, he will call you a whore and dump you, then go on to marry someone he considers a virgin, or near virgin.

What he is doing to you is an extreme form of abuse, and if he was in the United States, he could go to jail for rape. Sex by blackmail is rape.

You are so lucky that you are not yet pregnant, but you may now have some kind of sexually transmitted disease.

First, tell him that you are not going to do ANYTHING else with him, not even have coffee with him, if he does not hand over the tape. If he says no, he may then tell the community, or let others see it. But that is not as bad as what will happen if you let this go any further.

Try to think of someway that you could make it believable that he doped your drink or something to make you do whatever you did on the tape.

Then tell him that if he does try to show it or tell anyone, that you "now remember" that he must have drugged you, because you didn't remember a thing about it.

If you think he is about to tell or show the tape, go to the police and tell them that he drugged you, made you have sex with him on the tape, and now is using it to try to blackmail you into continuing. And do it BEFORE he shows it to anyone!

Yes, this is a lie. But look, he doesn't mind treating you in this horrible fashion. He is very happy to try to ruin your life!!! When he said he loved you, it was a lie. When he says he will marry you, that is a lie. He does not mind telling a lie so that he can hurt and control you.

You need to fight fire with fire!

Ask him if he has ever had sex with the other girl yet, and tell him that you would have to meet her first. He may be blackmailing her in the same way! Try to get to talk to her in private. Find out if he is doing something similar to her. If he is, the two of you need to go to the police together!
Reba

South Gate, CA

#24 Feb 19, 2012
Somali honey wrote:
I am 20 years old. I have been having unprotected sex with my boyfriend for three years now. he is somalia. He wants a three some with a women, I am tempted but not sure , he wants anal. I am a bit scared. do any Somalian have any experience with anal ? is it really painful. He says he wont marry me if I don't give in and will tell the Somalian community. I am from Mogadishu and he is from Hergeisa. We made a sex tape, I am afraid he will show people. what shall I do?
Please brothers and sisters I need your advice, please don't cuss me, I already feel bad and shamed.
In what country did this actually happen? If it is the UK, there are probably laws that you could prosecute him under. You were only 17 when you first had sex with him. How old were you when he made the tape? How old was he? If he is over age, he could be prosecuted for having sex with an underage girl if you can convince them that after the first time, he was blackmailing you.

I hope you will go on the offensive now. This jerk deserves the WORST!!!
hooyo

Basel, Switzerland

#25 Feb 19, 2012
Reba wrote:
<quoted text>This guy doesn't ever remotely care about you. I hope you are not trying to fool yourself into thinking he does.
He will never marry you. He is just using you for as much sex as he can, and enjoying degrading you. When he has done every imaginable thing he can think of to you, he will call you a whore and dump you, then go on to marry someone he considers a virgin, or near virgin.
What he is doing to you is an extreme form of abuse, and if he was in the United States, he could go to jail for rape. Sex by blackmail is rape.
You are so lucky that you are not yet pregnant, but you may now have some kind of sexually transmitted disease.
First, tell him that you are not going to do ANYTHING else with him, not even have coffee with him, if he does not hand over the tape. If he says no, he may then tell the community, or let others see it. But that is not as bad as what will happen if you let this go any further.
Try to think of someway that you could make it believable that he doped your drink or something to make you do whatever you did on the tape.
Then tell him that if he does try to show it or tell anyone, that you "now remember" that he must have drugged you, because you didn't remember a thing about it.
If you think he is about to tell or show the tape, go to the police and tell them that he drugged you, made you have sex with him on the tape, and now is using it to try to blackmail you into continuing. And do it BEFORE he shows it to anyone!
Yes, this is a lie. But look, he doesn't mind treating you in this horrible fashion. He is very happy to try to ruin your life!!! When he said he loved you, it was a lie. When he says he will marry you, that is a lie. He does not mind telling a lie so that he can hurt and control you.
You need to fight fire with fire!
Ask him if he has ever had sex with the other girl yet, and tell him that you would have to meet her first. He may be blackmailing her in the same way! Try to get to talk to her in private. Find out if he is doing something similar to her. If he is, the two of you need to go to the police together!
he/she is troll

Since: Feb 12

Location hidden

#26 Feb 19, 2012
Reba wrote:
<quoted text>This guy doesn't ever remotely care about you. I hope you are not trying to fool yourself into thinking he does.
He will never marry you. He is just using you for as much sex as he can, and enjoying degrading you. When he has done every imaginable thing he can think of to you, he will call you a whore and dump you, then go on to marry someone he considers a virgin, or near virgin.
What he is doing to you is an extreme form of abuse, and if he was in the United States, he could go to jail for rape. Sex by blackmail is rape.
You are so lucky that you are not yet pregnant, but you may now have some kind of sexually transmitted disease.
First, tell him that you are not going to do ANYTHING else with him, not even have coffee with him, if he does not hand over the tape. If he says no, he may then tell the community, or let others see it. But that is not as bad as what will happen if you let this go any further.
Try to think of someway that you could make it believable that he doped your drink or something to make you do whatever you did on the tape.
Then tell him that if he does try to show it or tell anyone, that you "now remember" that he must have drugged you, because you didn't remember a thing about it.
If you think he is about to tell or show the tape, go to the police and tell them that he drugged you, made you have sex with him on the tape, and now is using it to try to blackmail you into continuing. And do it BEFORE he shows it to anyone!
Yes, this is a lie. But look, he doesn't mind treating you in this horrible fashion. He is very happy to try to ruin your life!!! When he said he loved you, it was a lie. When he says he will marry you, that is a lie. He does not mind telling a lie so that he can hurt and control you.
You need to fight fire with fire!
Ask him if he has ever had sex with the other girl yet, and tell him that you would have to meet her first. He may be blackmailing her in the same way! Try to get to talk to her in private. Find out if he is doing something similar to her. If he is, the two of you need to go to the police together!
bless u, ur a good samaritan.
isaaq

Cardiff, UK

#27 Feb 20, 2012
AAHAHHAHAHHA wat a load ov tripe 2 somali honey plz get a life u horny baastaar 2 women uuuuum now dats a thought id have jada fires and jennifer hudson 2gva uuuum or carmen hayes and maserati
ConcreteAngel

UK

#28 Feb 20, 2012
isaaq wrote:
AAHAHHAHAHHA wat a load ov tripe 2 somali honey plz get a life u horny baastaar 2 women uuuuum now dats a thought id have jada fires and jennifer hudson 2gva uuuum or carmen hayes and maserati
u like jennifer hudson? Whatever floats ur boat son.:/
ConcreteAngel

UK

#29 Feb 20, 2012


This song is good though!
ISAAQ

Cardiff, UK

#30 Feb 21, 2012
@^^ wats wrong wid her i think she iz wat a woman should b curvy juicy sweet n sexy daam wat u Nayaaz got on her? i luv big thick bodoied women
Reba

El Dorado Hills, CA

#31 Mar 21, 2012
I'd sure like to know how things are turning out for "Somali Honey".
daacad

Rochester, MN

#32 Mar 21, 2012
ok hadii aa rabto waano aa aad ula dhacdo igala soo xiriir ciwaankeyga eh brad.dk@hotmail.com balan waxaan ku qaaday inoowna ku ceebeyn oo aan ku siiyo arin kaa difaaceeysa ceebta kugu soo socota....

“Safar Dheer iyo”

Since: Jan 11

Sahay Gaaban

#33 Mar 22, 2012
I am assuming you're not married in accordance your post, i.e. you've a boyfriend. You have also said that you have had sex with this boyfriend of yours. This is an act of Zina, and as you may know-if you're a Muslim- sex before marriage has been forbidden in Islam and it's known as ZINA. As you may also know this is a gross and sinful thing. Therefore, I'd encourage you to repent to Allah [S.W.A.] and ask for His forgiveness. Today you're alive and you still have a chance to correct the past mistakes that you have done. Also, I'd encourage you discontinue this relationship between you and this guy because if you continue it you may be remorseful about it later on. Care about your self and think about what you'll encounter after leave this world if you continue this act. Be responsible and fear the One who Created before and to Whom you shall return eventually. Held yourself accountable be Allah held you accountable of your own deeds.

Just a brotherly advice...

Best of your.

“You Have Died Corfield!!”

Since: Feb 12

Dervishes Were Thunderbolts!

#34 Mar 22, 2012
Reba wrote:
<quoted text>This guy doesn't ever remotely care about you. I hope you are not trying to fool yourself into thinking he does.
He will never marry you. He is just using you for as much sex as he can, and enjoying degrading you. When he has done every imaginable thing he can think of to you, he will call you a whore and dump you, then go on to marry someone he considers a virgin, or near virgin.
What he is doing to you is an extreme form of abuse, and if he was in the United States, he could go to jail for rape. Sex by blackmail is rape.
You are so lucky that you are not yet pregnant, but you may now have some kind of sexually transmitted disease.
First, tell him that you are not going to do ANYTHING else with him, not even have coffee with him, if he does not hand over the tape. If he says no, he may then tell the community, or let others see it. But that is not as bad as what will happen if you let this go any further.
Try to think of someway that you could make it believable that he doped your drink or something to make you do whatever you did on the tape.
Then tell him that if he does try to show it or tell anyone, that you "now remember" that he must have drugged you, because you didn't remember a thing about it.
If you think he is about to tell or show the tape, go to the police and tell them that he drugged you, made you have sex with him on the tape, and now is using it to try to blackmail you into continuing. And do it BEFORE he shows it to anyone!
Yes, this is a lie. But look, he doesn't mind treating you in this horrible fashion. He is very happy to try to ruin your life!!! When he said he loved you, it was a lie. When he says he will marry you, that is a lie. He does not mind telling a lie so that he can hurt and control you.
You need to fight fire with fire!
Ask him if he has ever had sex with the other girl yet, and tell him that you would have to meet her first. He may be blackmailing her in the same way! Try to get to talk to her in private. Find out if he is doing something similar to her. If he is, the two of you need to go to the police together!
Shes a Troll
Somali babe

United States

#35 Mar 22, 2012
Wow this is misfortune this happened to you. First thing first, dont under any circumstances allow this fool to take advantage of you. He is black mailing you, its clear. He to you saying he loves you total bs.Get copy of his personal information such as social security very important. find some guy friends you can trust then invite him to ur place, told him to bring you the video so you can watch together and convinced him you want make another one then tell your guys friends to hide somewhere then he comes in and you get hold of the tape call them and teach him a lesson. If that plan doesn't work then report his ass to the police.good luck.
Anonymous

Nairobi, Kenya

#36 Mar 22, 2012
are u serious subxanalah, may allah guide u sis ..

and my advise for u >>> DONT DO IT,,,,

just break up with that guy coz he cn never marry u. agood somali guy will never ask to do three sum ..
mahad

UK

#37 Mar 22, 2012
Somali honey wrote:
I am 20 years old. I have been having unprotected sex with my boyfriend for three years now. he is somalia. He wants a three some with a women, I am tempted but not sure , he wants anal. I am a bit scared. do any Somalian have any experience with anal ? is it really painful. He says he wont marry me if I don't give in and will tell the Somalian community. I am from Mogadishu and he is from Hergeisa. We made a sex tape, I am afraid he will show people. what shall I do?
Please brothers and sisters I need your advice, please don't cuss me, I already feel bad and shamed.
i can garanteed u that u are not somali girl but only pretending as somali.
why dont u refeal ur identity.
Reba

Citrus Heights, CA

#38 Mar 27, 2012
KushTheKid wrote:
<quoted text>
Shes a Troll
What makes you think she's a troll?

Since: Mar 12

United States

#40 Apr 3, 2012
My nimbuz siyaaaad2011,my namba+254720209345,just tel me ur problem i wl help u,

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