relationship with romanian men

[Ria]

I live in the uk of indian origin when i go out to places I always attract attention from romanian guys . Ive never actually given my number to them but I have been attracted to them some are very goodlooking.I just wanted to know of peoples experiences I know they are not all the same but just culture wise as i know nothing about romanian culture.

[Alex]

Best you don't Ria, most of them will have a wife sat in the house and any half decent looking girl will have Romanian men chasing them, bloody sex pests most of them as they get away with in Romania, part of the culture.

[Ria]

Alex wrote:

Best you don't Ria, most of them will have a wife sat in the house and any half decent looking girl will have Romanian men chasing them, bloody sex pests most of them as they get away with in Romania, part of the culture.

Thanx I see what u mean , they can be very persistant

[Gia]

I live in Romania and lived here half of my life. I've never been in a relationship with any Romanian men, because I realized that they're not worth the effort. Sorry, but, I say, there's nothing to be flattered about when it comes to Romanian men woo'ing you. I only have negative experiences with them, because I noticed that most have no idea how to court women, how to make compliments, how to be charming, how to be subtle....they treat women like sex objects, they expect you to kiss their butt and be their slave, they have no idea how to appreciate women, they're sexist to the bone, they're mean and shrewd and so on. Seriously, if you're considering getting into a relationship, DO NOT GIVE ANY CHANCES TO ROMANIAN MEN. They always expect for some kind of reward, they're never genuine. And marrying a Romanian man is the worst thing you can do. If you don't wanna end up being treated like a sex object and a slave, then avoid Romanian men like plague!

Take this piece of advise from a woman that has lived long enough in Romania, to know.

[Doru]

Yeah, take that piece of advise! See if any Romanian man would give a damn.

"I live in Romania and lived here half of my life. I've never been in a relationship with any Romanian men, because I realized that they're not worth the effort."

That's cool! I don't think you are worth the effort either.

"Sorry, but, I say, there's nothing to be flattered about when it comes to Romanian men woo'ing you."

hahaha.. Romanian men woo'ing you? Why would they do that?

"I only have negative experiences with them, because I noticed that most have no idea how to court women, how to make compliments, how to be charming, how to be subtle."

Not so charming, subtle, that may be true, but having no idea how to court women? lol

Treating women like sex objects, slaves, being sexist, shrewd lolwut? I'll tell you something, genius! The sex industry is a good indicator for the treatment of women as sex objects. Do you want to talk about that? I'm sure this is when you want to be quiet.

I don't want to say anything nice or pretty about us, Romanian men or boys. Why should I? We live in a big world! Find your man somewhere else.

[Gia]

Doru wrote:

Yeah, take that piece of advise! See if any Romanian man would give a damn.
"I live in Romania and lived here half of my life. I've never been in a relationship with any Romanian men, because I realized that they're not worth the effort."
That's cool! I don't think you are worth the effort either.
"Sorry, but, I say, there's nothing to be flattered about when it comes to Romanian men woo'ing you."
hahaha.. Romanian men woo'ing you? Why would they do that?
"I only have negative experiences with them, because I noticed that most have no idea how to court women, how to make compliments, how to be charming, how to be subtle."
Not so charming, subtle, that may be true, but having no idea how to court women? lol
Treating women like sex objects, slaves, being sexist, shrewd lolwut? I'll tell you something, genius! The sex industry is a good indicator for the treatment of women as sex objects. Do you want to talk about that? I'm sure this is when you want to be quiet.
I don't want to say anything nice or pretty about us, Romanian men or boys. Why should I? We live in a big world! Find your man somewhere else.

LMAO I was sure you'd answer pissed like that. So, to the main poster, like I said, keep faithful to my piece of advise. Trust me, I KNOW what I'm saying!

[Dece]

don't listen to Gia she's just gelous because the smart and handsome romanian men don't like her

[Doru]

lol bro! that was hilarious! 10+

[Gia]

Dece wrote:

don't listen to Gia she's just gelous because the smart and handsome romanian men don't like her

LMAO Yeah, don't listen to me. Every Romanian Casanova Neanderthal Gypsy dude wants a nice, foxy, western woman. Now, what they do to you and how they treat you later on, you will see.

Good luck and have fun. LMAO

[Gia]

Dece wrote:

don't listen to Gia she's just gelous because the smart and handsome romanian men don't like her

Don't worry, cioara, I don't date Romanian men at all. So, there's no one to like or don't like me when I'm not interested in anyone. And I personally would feel insulted to know that some Romanian monkey would like me.:)

[Doru]

Romanian men love Romanian women.

[Dece]

Gia wrote:

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Don't worry, cioara, I don't date Romanian men at all. So, there's no one to like or don't like me when I'm not interested in anyone. And I personally would feel insulted to know that some Romanian monkey would like me.:)

I'm not a cioara you stupid curva. The cute gypsy from the avatar on which you masterbate on it's not me, it's a guy called Pesky who is an slovakian orphan from these forums . And like I said, real romanian men would't give a spit on a bitch full of impresions like you.

[Reyna]

I am dating a 28 year old romanian man and he is the sweetest most caring man I have ever met.

[Freddy]

My dear I could bet a week's wages that you need to pay someone to even glance at you.

Gia wrote:

I live in Romania and lived here half of my life. I've never been in a relationship with any Romanian men, because I realized that they're not worth the effort. Sorry, but, I say, there's nothing to be flattered about when it comes to Romanian men woo'ing you. I only have negative experiences with them, because I noticed that most have no idea how to court women, how to make compliments, how to be charming, how to be subtle....they treat women like sex objects, they expect you to kiss their butt and be their slave, they have no idea how to appreciate women, they're sexist to the bone, they're mean and shrewd and so on. Seriously, if you're considering getting into a relationship, DO NOT GIVE ANY CHANCES TO ROMANIAN MEN. They always expect for some kind of reward, they're never genuine. And marrying a Romanian man is the worst thing you can do. If you don't wanna end up being treated like a sex object and a slave, then avoid Romanian men like plague!
Take this piece of advise from a woman that has lived long enough in Romania, to know.

[Ana]

Not too long ago, I met a Romanian American man, who is a physician (doctor), and he was one of the most handsome, respectful gentleman I have ever met. There is good and bad in each culture. But DAMN, this man was fine! This is coming from a Hispanic girl. ;)

[lanie]

I talk to a Man in Romania, and he is intelligent and respectful. I have not met a man so nice. It's a shame that you consider all Romanian men the same as you do. That's O'kay you do not have to like the Romanian men, because us American girls will appreciate them. They are considered hardworkers, strong willed,and speak one of the most beautiful languages in the world.Maybe, you say those things because you do not want anyone to like your sexy men? There is good, bad, and ugly everywhere you go. Try being fair.

[Gina]

Well... Gia - Not sure where you are hanging out to find all the bad ones. Are you camped in a gypsy village somewhere??? I've been with my romanian husband for 3 years and married to him for 2. I'm english by the way.

What I can say is, they are very family orientated, very stubborn and very strong willed bunch but their hearts are in the right place. Due to communism they still very traditional values and a lot of them are old fashioned in how they see women but this has good and bad, depending on how you see it and you have to except both. The bad side can be that they expect you to manage the home and the kids and any job you have should work around home but the good side is, you are getting a man who will work his ass off to provide for his family, provide you with everything you need and try to make sure his family is safe and well! The younger generations are a lot more westernised and are becoming more accommodating toward the career woman but the problem in Romania is still the ratio of men to women. There are approx 4 women to every man so for a woman, competition is fierce and the men can sit back and take their pick which does amazing things to a mans ego and can be the foundation to the issues around cheating etc. However, generally, if you get a good one, you get a good one, and if you don't your in Gia's boat.

This is only based on my experience with my husband and the other men in his family but he's hard working, protective, romantic, loving, committed and a good provider for us but at times, he can be stubborn, possessive and sexist which can be infuriating so I'm glad he's not like that all the time.

Being of indian origin I would say the mentality on this is quite similar to your own culture so you may or may not relate to this but at the end of the day, it all comes down to what you're looking for in a man.

Good luck and never be afraid to try something new!

Gina xx

[Gigi]

you are so right! I had the unfortunate misfortune of dating a romanian man. He is the most sexist pig ever. He is rude has cheated and lies all the time. He never takes me out and hides things from me this is the last time I ever date a Romanian man. I am Italian and I know what beauty, and class are all about and Romanian men are simply not any of that! I

[Daniel]

Well from my point of view(maybe you're avrage romanian man) you are all right.
I find that we romanina man are usually always on the extremes rarelly in the middle.
I have friends who can be considered Gods by sexists and there are the loosers with a phd in advance fizics and maths.
When choosing a romanian man it all comes down you! You looking for a pig well you'll find a one(world class if you try hard), You looking for a perfect gentelman you might be looking for the Holy Grail, but if you find him... you have the Holy Grail
On my behalf i alway try to culture and elevate myself(i don't always acomplish this).
Taking into consideration my expriences abroad(Italy, Spain, Germany ....) i can only sustain what others have already said in this thread there is good and there is bad you just have to set them apart.
PS:Romanian girls are very pretty!
Romanians are not gipsys!
To all the girls that had unpleasant expirences with men of any nationality: You choose them no one made that choice for you, belive me not all italian , spanish , german men are saints.

[Doru]

Poor losers learned Math and Physics instead of playing with their dix. I feel so sorry for them.