Stateside Ricans, "a permanent victi...

Stateside Ricans, "a permanent victimization"?

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Jorge

San Juan, Puerto Rico

#1 Feb 6, 2014
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Victim_playing Cached

Victim playing (also known as playing the victim or self-victimization) is the fabrication of victimhood for a variety of reasons such as to justify abuse of others, to manipulate others, a coping strategy or attention seeking.

Manipulators often play the victim role ("poor me") by portraying themselves as victims of circumstances or someone else's behavior in order to gain pity or sympathy or to evoke compassion and thereby get something from another. Caring and conscientious people cannot stand to see anyone suffering, and the manipulator often finds it easy and rewarding to play on sympathy to get cooperation.[1]

The language of "victim playing" has entered modern corporate life, as a weapon of use even for the most competent of professionals.[3] To define victim-players as dishonest may be an empowering response;[4] as too may be awareness of how childhood boundary issues can underlay the tactic.[5]

Object relations theory has explored the way possession by a false self can create a permanent sense of victimisation[10]- a sense of always being in the hands of an external fate.[11]

El cacique

Since: Dec 12

Location hidden

#2 Feb 6, 2014
Jorge wrote:
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Victim_p laying Cached
Victim playing (also known as playing the victim or self-victimization) is the fabrication of victimhood for a variety of reasons such as to justify abuse of others, to manipulate others, a coping strategy or attention seeking.
Manipulators often play the victim role ("poor me") by portraying themselves as victims of circumstances or someone else's behavior in order to gain pity or sympathy or to evoke compassion and thereby get something from another. Caring and conscientious people cannot stand to see anyone suffering, and the manipulator often finds it easy and rewarding to play on sympathy to get cooperation.[1]
The language of "victim playing" has entered modern corporate life, as a weapon of use even for the most competent of professionals.[3] To define victim-players as dishonest may be an empowering response;[4] as too may be awareness of how childhood boundary issues can underlay the tactic.[5]
Object relations theory has explored the way possession by a false self can create a permanent sense of victimisation[10]- a sense of always being in the hands of an external fate.[11]
Well ain't this post a piece of work?....LOL!

You are here practically everyday bitching about PR being a colony.

Colony this. Colony that.

We can't this...We Can't........We can't because we are a colony....It's endless.

Then you post this nonsense?.

You are nuts. But, we know that.
Jorge

San Juan, Puerto Rico

#3 Feb 6, 2014
El cacique wrote:
<quoted text> ...
Then you post this nonsense?....
Stop being a minority victim, cacique.

Some of you niuyoricans will never manipulate us, Puerto Ricans, EVER!

Blame your fellow New Yorkers for keeping you as their permanent underclass.

El cacique

Since: Dec 12

Location hidden

#4 Feb 6, 2014
Jorge wrote:
<quoted text>
Stop being a minority victim, cacique.
Some of you niuyoricans will never manipulate us, Puerto Ricans, EVER!
Blame your fellow New Yorkers for keeping you as their permanent underclass.
Do you see yourself as someone that would be classified as being part of the underclass?

I'm not part of the underclass. I do not fit the criteria.

And id i ever had the misfortune of becoming part of the underclass. Then, i guess i would have to cross that bridge and deal with it.

You life has been a series of choices, Jorge.

If you are on SSI/D because you are unable to work. Which i strongly suspect you are.

Then, it was your choices that led you there....And now you are obviously quite unhappy because of whatever situation you are presently wrestling with.

So,you look for the proverbial boogeyman to blame it on.

The boogeyman in your case so far is the gringo's or the NY and stateside Puerto Ricans.

Ironically....Of which you are likely one or the other.

Your idiotic rationalizations almost sound like the Nazi's blaming the Jews as a scapegoat for the mess the Weimar Republic themselves into.

==========

While we ultimately do not have total control over our health and life's unforeseen occurrences.... We do have some control and a certain amount of God given free will.

Learn to live with your's.Jorge....Seriously....G ive a da*n about yourself and get some therapy!

El cacique

Since: Dec 12

Location hidden

#5 Feb 6, 2014
Do you see yourself as someone that would be classified as being part of the underclass?

I'm not part of the underclass. I do not fit the criteria.

And if i ever had the misfortune of becoming part of the underclass. Then, i guess i would have to cross that bridge and deal with it.

==========

You life has been a series of choices, Jorge.

If you are on SSI/D because you are unable to work. Which i strongly suspect you are.

Then, it was your choices that led you there....And now you are obviously quite unhappy because of whatever situation you are presently wrestling with.

So, you look for the proverbial boogeyman to blame it on.

The boogeyman in your case so far is the gringo's or the NY and stateside Puerto Ricans.

Ironically....Of which you are likely a Stateside Puerto Rican or may even be another nationality. Although, i'm leaning toward you being a stateside Puerto Rican who has settled in the island.

Your idiotic rationalizations almost sound like the Nazi's blaming the Jews as a scapegoat for the mess the Weimar Republic got themselves into.

==========

While we ultimately do not have total control over our health and life's unforeseen occurrences.... We do have some control and a certain amount of God given free will.

Learn to live with your's.Jorge....Seriously....G ive a da*n about yourself and get some therapy!

“The Topix Legend of "GS8"!”

Since: Sep 10

Manalapan, FL

#6 Feb 6, 2014
El cacique wrote:
Do you see yourself as someone that would be classified as being part of the underclass?
I'm not part of the underclass. I do not fit the criteria.
And if i ever had the misfortune of becoming part of the underclass. Then, i guess i would have to cross that bridge and deal with it.
==========
You life has been a series of choices, Jorge.
If you are on SSI/D because you are unable to work. Which i strongly suspect you are.
Then, it was your choices that led you there....And now you are obviously quite unhappy because of whatever situation you are presently wrestling with.
So, you look for the proverbial boogeyman to blame it on.
The boogeyman in your case so far is the gringo's or the NY and stateside Puerto Ricans.
Ironically....Of which you are likely a Stateside Puerto Rican or may even be another nationality. Although, i'm leaning toward you being a stateside Puerto Rican who has settled in the island.
Your idiotic rationalizations almost sound like the Nazi's blaming the Jews as a scapegoat for the mess the Weimar Republic got themselves into.
==========
While we ultimately do not have total control over our health and life's unforeseen occurrences.... We do have some control and a certain amount of God given free will.
Learn to live with your's.Jorge....Seriously....G ive a da*n about yourself and get some therapy!
I don't understand yours and Jorge's endless back and forth. Why cannot you two just agree to disagree and move on? It is clear to me as an American that lives in the 48 he clearly doesn't understand the cost of living in New York or the thresh old for created poverty in this country.
Allan

United States

#8 Feb 6, 2014
Cacique is responding and Jorgito is instigating thats the difference

“The Topix Legend of "GS8"!”

Since: Sep 10

Manalapan, FL

#9 Feb 6, 2014
Allan wrote:
Cacique is responding and Jorgito is instigating thats the difference
Yes, I agree Allan.

Since: Sep 12

Location hidden

#10 Feb 6, 2014
@ God smacked . This is all started because of Jorge, and it has been this way ever since.Jorge dislikes Anglos, and New Yorkers of Puerto Rico decent.
Allan

United States

#12 Feb 6, 2014
Jorge wrote:
<quoted text>
Stop victimizing the obese.
In doing so, you're bullying your own family.
Stop commenting, in doing so you are embarrassing Puerto Ricans all over the world

Since: Sep 12

Location hidden

#13 Feb 6, 2014
Hey, this has nothing to do with the obese or my family.You are here to derail the thread with your endless bigotry against Anglos, mainland born Puerto Ricans.

Especially New Yorkers of Puerto Rican.decent.I dislike the term Nuyorican.lt sounds too derogatory.
Jorge

San Juan, Puerto Rico

#14 Feb 6, 2014
Nubeluz wrote:
.....I dislike the term Nuyorican.lt sounds too derogatory.
Some find Chicano a derogatory term also.

But, you, as a Chicana, have come to embrace it.

Since: Sep 12

Location hidden

#15 Feb 6, 2014
Stop taking my postings out of context!This has nothing to do with me or the Chicano.

This is a never ending thing with you day in and day out.

Cacique is right about you.Topix is your last resort.

“The Topix Legend of "GS8"!”

Since: Sep 10

Manalapan, FL

#16 Feb 6, 2014
Jorge wrote:
<quoted text>
Some find a derogatory term also.
But, you, as a , have come to embrace it.
See this is my issue Jorge. I feel you lack an etiquette filter to understand when it is derogatory and when others embrace. Please refrain from using the word.
Jorge

San Juan, Puerto Rico

#17 Feb 6, 2014
Nubeluz wrote:
Stop taking my postings out of context!This has nothing to do with me or the Chicano.
This is a never ending thing with you day in and day out.
Cacique is right about you.Topix is your last resort.
You hate the niuyorican term but embrace the chicano one?

“The Topix Legend of "GS8"!”

Since: Sep 10

Manalapan, FL

#18 Feb 6, 2014
Jorge wrote:
<quoted text>
You hate the term but embrace the one?
Jorge, you use the terms to instill hate, isolate, and show bigotry towards those the term reflects on.

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