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Husna

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Hi everyone,

I need advice on whether you think its OK for a Pakistani girl (I am at uni) to have a relationship with a black guy. There is this guy in my class who I think I am starting to develop feelings for. I am in the second year of my course and it all began when we started doing a group project last year (worked together on couple of other projects) and spent a lot of time with him at uni and cafes doing our work. We spend a lot of time together and chat but its always about uni. He is so sweet and studies really hard and is not like the typical black guy.

I think he kind of likes me but treats me as a college friend and also maybe he is also a little shy to ask me out.

I am not very religious and don't pray but do fast. Do you think it would be OK to kind of ask him out?
Desi

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Why not Husna? Don't hold yourself back, believe me these days will never come back in your life. If you like someone, colour, religion, ethnicity just does not matter. And it is not at all immoral, life is too short to worry about all this. Good luck.
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To be honest why are you even discussing your private affairs on here? Hardly the place for that.
Asking complete strangers for advice, you should seek advice from your family or friends.
Husna

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Oct 29, 2010
 
Desi wrote:
Why not Husna? Don't hold yourself back, believe me these days will never come back in your life. If you like someone, colour, religion, ethnicity just does not matter. And it is not at all immoral, life is too short to worry about all this. Good luck.
Well, thanks for your advice. But its easier said than done. Dating interracially (especially a black guy) is frowned upon in the Pakistani community. Some Desi people give me uncomfortable stares when they see me with him even though I am not in an actual relationship with him, perhaps they assume I am.

I really think we Desis must start treating all humans equally.
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Oct 29, 2010
 
I think u should do wot u wanna do, regardless religion or whatever, you only have one life. You are gonna get nasty stares frm other asians, thats wot they always do, my bro is married to a white english girl and my sisters bf is white to and we are indian! But we don't care wot people think, you live your life for you not for them. Do wot feels right 4 u!
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Oct 29, 2010
 
It is all fine as long as people don't start hating others like most hindus do on this forum.
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Oct 29, 2010
 
Roger wrote:
It is all fine as long as people don't start hating others like most hindus do on this forum.
U also dating a black stud, taklu!!!
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Oct 30, 2010
 
hi i m agree darling
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Husna wrote:
Hi everyone,
I need advice on whether you think its OK for a Pakistani girl (I am at uni) to have a relationship with a black guy. There is this guy in my class who I think I am starting to develop feelings for. I am in the second year of my course and it all began when we started doing a group project last year (worked together on couple of other projects) and spent a lot of time with him at uni and cafes doing our work. We spend a lot of time together and chat but its always about uni. He is so sweet and studies really hard and is not like the typical black guy.
I think he kind of likes me but treats me as a college friend and also maybe he is also a little shy to ask me out.
I am not very religious and don't pray but do fast. Do you think it would be OK to kind of ask him out?
Well I am not sure about the " beautiful" looking children, which you may produce with him. I myself hail from Africa and would never discriminate against a black guy so long he behaves good cultured and well mannered etc. Unfortunately, most of these West Indian Africans don't in that category, as I have seen from my personal experiences with them during my visits to UK. Sorry I am very honest about my opinions and if you think that I am hurting you then pls disregard this comment. The religion deos not matter as it has only brought about hate, destruction, separation and alienation of human beings, as we have seen in India in 1947. Any way good luck with him.

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Oct 30, 2010
 
Husna wrote:
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Well, thanks for your advice. But its easier said than done. Dating interracially (especially a black guy) is frowned upon in the Pakistani community. Some Desi people give me uncomfortable stares when they see me with him even though I am not in an actual relationship with him, perhaps they assume I am.
I really think we Desis must start treating all humans equally.
I know it is easier said than done, but you have to decide one way or the other at some point.
Remember the song from Amar Prem,'kuch to log kahenge, logo ka kaam hai kehna, choro in bekaar ki baaton ko kahin bit na jaye raina'....:)
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By all means, enjoy the big cock rather than becoming a slave to a angry muslim man .. er .. dog.
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Oct 30, 2010
 
Husna wrote:
Hi everyone,
I need advice on whether you think its OK for a Pakistani girl (I am at uni) to have a relationship with a black guy. There is this guy in my class who I think I am starting to develop feelings for. I am in the second year of my course and it all began when we started doing a group project last year (worked together on couple of other projects) and spent a lot of time with him at uni and cafes doing our work. We spend a lot of time together and chat but its always about uni. He is so sweet and studies really hard and is not like the typical black guy.
I think he kind of likes me but treats me as a college friend and also maybe he is also a little shy to ask me out.
I am not very religious and don't pray but do fast. Do you think it would be OK to kind of ask him out?
Might wreck your relationship with family of nurture....brothers,sisters parents.

Pressure on you/him through entire life.

If you can weather the storms and manage the 'magic' you can.

If you cannot manage the pressure...the 'magic' will vapor into thin air very fast!
Husna

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Oct 30, 2010
 
I should stress that even if I become close to him, I am not going to sleep with him until marriage and he will need to convert to Islam. That's if we get that far because I don't even know what to do. If he were Pakistani I would have no problems asking him out, but he is black which makes it difficult. But I really like him. He is athletic and handsome and really well-mannered.
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Feb 6, 2011
 
One of my friends from Luton, her friend (Pakistani girl) was checking a black guy, she got pregnant by a black guy - and left home/town.

Once your in a relationship, black guy, white guy, etc, you def- wana shag, or the black guy may wana shag you, if it comes to that, get him to put a condom on.

it has com to that day and age, where asains wana hav a cross relationship,

Iv had a relationship with a black girl/Chinese, once your in a relationship, you def- wana shag.
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for god sake stay away from him. Whats wrong with u thats nasty.
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May 20, 2011
 
One of the hardest part of any relationship is change. Recognizing it, adjusting to it, and accepting it. Change is inevitable, everything in life changes. Think about where you are now in life. To get to this very moment you had to change, grow, learn, experience and evolve. So why is it that when people change we tend to be caught off guard?

“We are what we think!!!!!!!!!!”

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What is a "typical" black guy to you ?

I'm sure a "typical" black guy will be much better than "typical" pakistani guy. Most black men I've met treat women with respect and at least NOT as property like typical paki. Also, black men will not blast their head on impulse or carry a suicide vest.
Husna wrote:
Hi everyone,
I need advice on whether you think its OK for a Pakistani girl (I am at uni) to have a relationship with a black guy. There is this guy in my class who I think I am starting to develop feelings for. I am in the second year of my course and it all began when we started doing a group project last year (worked together on couple of other projects) and spent a lot of time with him at uni and cafes doing our work. We spend a lot of time together and chat but its always about uni. He is so sweet and studies really hard and is not like the typical black guy.
I think he kind of likes me but treats me as a college friend and also maybe he is also a little shy to ask me out.
I am not very religious and don't pray but do fast. Do you think it would be OK to kind of ask him out?
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May 21, 2011
 
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May 22, 2011
 
If she likes a black guy she shud date wiv him and convert him into a muslim there no sin in that's as she will get swaab
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May 22, 2011
 
big mistake...
e all like ppl who we spend time with, dont let the devil in u take control ov u,

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