marrying a moroccan

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Ruth

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Hi I was wondering if anyone can give me some advice. I met a moroccan man online around 8 months ago and we have talked just about every day since then. I have just been to Morocco to meet him and his family and we had a fantastic time.I can see that there are a few moroccan men on here and was wondering if they can give me any tips on the visa proceedure as at the moment it all seems very complicated to me.
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Jun 8, 2008
 
I too have met a moroccan man online but have not been to morocco yet. There is another forum on here about being with a moroccan man which is interesting. Did you feel safe in morocco? Just curious to know. I have been talking with this guy that i met too almost everyday, he seems so genuine but i am worried about the way morrocan men sometimes, not all the time, treat their women. Does the guy you are with make you feel pressured into things sometimes, like getting married? The guy i met online wants me to go to morocco in July,(we have just met in april) to meet his family, stay with him for 1 week and if everything goes good, wants me to marry him right there in morocco.(I don't think it would even be legal, would it?) Of course, I have not agreed. It is too soon. I do worry too that he is just wanting me so he can get to canada. The visa process seems really really complicated to me too. I am actually quite confussed as you can tell. I really like him, he is very handsome and seems like a good person. But, i have heard so much negative stuff.
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I have just returned from Morocco. I too met a beautiful, wonderful man online. We were fast friends and really clicked. It was alot of work to get there but worth every minute. Yes, I did feel safe in Morocco, ( Morocco is beautiful) I stayed with him and his family. We were married there and now I have returned here to file the necessary paper work to bring my true love home. It is a lot of work, not an easy process, but if you are sincere and he is sincere, it is worth all of the effort. Now I begin the hard part filing the paper work here, but with Gods blessings things will go just as smoothly. Good luck.
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Jun 8, 2008
 
canadian girl
How old are you?Just wondering.
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Kathy-Seattle wrote:
canadian girl
How old are you?Just wondering.
canadian girl is 36 has 3 kids from 3 dads she doesn't work she's too fat and she's bipolar,her younger sister told me on my facebook
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Jun 9, 2008
 
Hard up Rachid
You poser!
canadian girl

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Jun 9, 2008
 
Close on the age buddy, but not quite. I'm 33, single, never married, and no children. My psychiatrist is still diagnosing my condition and yes, i am overweight! LOL LOL But on the serious side, why were you curious about my age Kathy?

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Jun 10, 2008
 
Canadian girl,
An old age shows how desperate woman you can be for the existence for a man in your life.
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Canadian Girl, and Ruth, Trust me, run as far as you can the oppossite direction. If he is presurring you to marrying and to go to Morocco, without even knowing you, he's trying to use you for entry into the country. Canadian girl, listen to what your gut feeling is saying to you. If something tells you it doesnt seem right than you can trust yourself that it isn't.
Whatever you do, don't ever send money. They are the most charming smooth talkers I have ever met. They will say whatever you want to hear to lure you. Its a trap. Dont fall for it.
From one woman to another, who has nothing to gain, you deserve someone who will love you honestly, passionately and unconditionally. The classic red flags are all there. Just open your eyes and pay attention. True, genuine love will come to you when you least expect. Don't go looking for it in this fashion. So many women are falling trap to these Moroccans and getting their lives ruined. These men hang around internet cafe's all day preying on Canadian and American women for false marriages.
Please, just look the other way and keep it moving. You only stand a chance if he's educated, has a very good job and comes for a good family. Those ones usually don't need the Canadian and American women so they are hard to find or already taken. The rest on the web cams are all the rejects that are looking for a fast ticket to freedom.
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I was just wondering cause why would you or any other woman want to put herself out there to some one you haven't met or spent considerable time with to get to know him and his family etc...?Im talking at least a year or too.There should not be any hurry. I've been in a Moroccan relationship going on four years now. A scammer would not take a lot of time and energy on the same person if he didn't really love this other person.You can figure it out with intuition and your gut feelings about a person after a while.

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Jun 11, 2008
 
Moonlight,
There is some truth in your talk but there rest I think you going a little harsh on Moroccans. Did you have a bad experience yourself?
Meryem

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There are good and bad, like there is everywhere. In this case, I can honestly say that although I dont know the situation, I think he sounds like a typical trickster...maybe I am wrong, but just reading your story...it seems so familiar. Be very very careful and show him who's boss. Like someone else said, dont send any money - then you will really see whether its genuine or not. Dont jump for him either, I would test him if I were you - see what happens. If there are any mentions of Western Union and sending money, he might not be the right guy for you.
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Meryem
I agree to testing the waters.There are a lot of white men who marry woman and take everything they have and then dump them too.It's everwhere, not just Moroccans.I think Moroccan men have a softer heart then white men.
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Well, i definetly agree ladies, there are men out there all over the world waiting for a weak woman. Some guys look for that (and some women too). One thing that does stick in the back of my mind is that a couple weeks ago, my moroccan guy offered me money to help with the cost of travel to morocco. Of course, i said no. This man does not know that i own two homes, new vehicle, and have an above average paying job, i do not plan to let him know all that right away. I will not run to morocco in July to marry him....of course not. at times this guy pressures me so heavily to come there in July and do that but I keep telling him not yet. I don't understand the rush and I have asked him. He says he doesn't want to be without me. Now, I was born at night but it sure in the hell wasn't last night!! lol.... But what could be so so pressing. Is he wanting to run away from a wife, run away from a girl maybe he has pregnant?? who knows?? Something doesn't feel quite right. But i guess i'm like most women, i want to believe him. This guy is very very good looking which doesn't help. He does work fulltime apparently and has an apartment that he shares during the week and then on his day off he claims to visit his parents. This guy is the same age as me and I would hope that he would have enough maturity not to lie to me. On the other hand, if things do happen to work out, he is in for a surprise because I am a person who investigates everything until im happy with the answer. I can't do too much investigating from here but we will see what happens.
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canadian girl
if this man is presurring u to marry after talking with him after only a couple of months, via the internet only...something is definitely wrong. you should have called his bluff and agreed to him sending you the money to help with your travel expenses....i think it is very difficult for moroccans to send money out of the country. next time he makes that offer, take him up on it and see what happens.
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Well, i definetly agree ladies, there are men out there all over the world waiting for a weak woman. Some guys look for that (and some women too). One thing that does stick in the back of my mind is that a couple weeks ago, my moroccan guy offered me money to help with the cost of travel to morocco. Of course, i said no. This man does not know that i own two homes, new vehicle, and have an above average paying job, i do not plan to let him know all that right away. I will not run to morocco in July to marry him....of course not. at times this guy pressures me so heavily to come there in July and do that but I keep telling him not yet. I don't understand the rush and I have asked him. He says he doesn't want to be without me. Now, I was born at night but it sure in the hell wasn't last night!! lol.... But what could be so so pressing. Is he wanting to run away from a wife, run away from a girl maybe he has pregnant?? who knows?? Something doesn't feel quite right. But i guess i'm like most women, i want to believe him. This guy is very very good looking which doesn't help. He does work fulltime apparently and has an apartment that he shares during the week and then on his day off he claims to visit his parents. This guy is the same age as me and I would hope that he would have enough maturity not to lie to me. On the other hand, if things do happen to work out, he is in for a surprise because I am a person who investigates everything until im happy with the answer. I can't do too much investigating from here but we will see what happens.
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I also have just returned from morocco and after spending 20 wonderful days with my man, of whom I have known now for nearly 3 years, and his family, and would not hesitate to marry him and if I'd had the neccessary papers with me, would have done so while there, hence a return trip in the very near future.
If the man you are speaking to is genuine, he will wait, respect your concerns and he will also be faithful, something of a rare nature in the western world as we know it these days.
At no time did I feel not safe there as I was with my man or a member of his family at all times, something that a decent person would do anyhow if there was any slight concern for your welfare.
My advice to you is go and meet him and stay with his family, you will see how they live and what type of people they are. I am sure you will be pleasantly surprised at the generosity and hospitality and simplicity of life that you will experience. Go and enjoy, Morocco has a lot to offer!!!
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Listen girl friend, take him up on his offer to send you money!Don't say or agree to anything until you get to know this person completly! You could be a meal ticket to him and his family.There is a huge scam going on right now with Moroccans and American woman.Google Moroccan relationships and your eyes will be wide open.You can relate to these women who are going through similar experience.Curious, what is his name?
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Jun 12, 2008
 
Kathy, i don't think it would be proper to post his name, but if you want, e-mail me @ allisonm.2007@live.ca and i will tell you his name. I do worry that I am just a meal ticket for him. I wonder why this guy is 33 and never been married and has no children. Isn't it customary for marriage earlier on in life? I do not want to be anyone's meal ticket!! That is for sure. I have worked too hard in my life to get to where I am now.
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Jun 12, 2008
 
On the other hand, i will confess that I am worried that I am not giving this guy enough of a chance. What possibly could be a perfectly good relationship and opportunity for a happy life has become filled with doubts and questions. He assures me that he is a good man and i do really want to believe him. I tell him that I am a good woman and I do hope he takes my word for it...just like I want to believe him that he is a good person. (I wish i could hire a private investigator) lol...
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Jun 12, 2008
 
canadian girl wrote:
Kathy, i don't think it would be proper to post his name, but if you want, e-mail me @ allisonm.2007@live.ca and i will tell you his name. I do worry that I am just a meal ticket for him. I wonder why this guy is 33 and never been married and has no children. Isn't it customary for marriage earlier on in life? I do not want to be anyone's meal ticket!! That is for sure. I have worked too hard in my life to get to where I am now.
The reason why he hasnt married is because he is waiting for the right woman, there are plenty of men there this age and older who are not married.
Believe me their ideas and customs are like our grandparents. Go and meet him and see what its all about.

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