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#910
Apr 4, 2013
 
Ga girl wrote:
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Yes there are men here. I did not intend for this to happen.(to meet him). So what do I do? Just get out of this now and never talk to him again?
If you were smart that is exactly what you would do.

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lay a trap
Why bother? Seriously why waste the time and energy? Move on.

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One more thing. He hates liars. He has told me that different of times.
Of course he has, most liars would say the same thing! I have nephews in Morocco that same age as well as sons (half Moroccan) here in the US. Rest assured they have zero interest in beginning a relationship with an older woman. They are young, they want to have fun, someday marry an age appropriate woman and have children.
Why do you think he would be so different than others of his age? He wants out of Morocco and you are his ticket. I guarantee you, you will be hurt. You can take the advice or leave it but when it happens don't play the victim. You were warned and you choose your own path. It does not really matter what anyone tells you, you already know that you are going to continue with the relationship, you've already made your mind up.
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thetruth huts wrote:
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Of course he has, most liars would say the same thing! I have nephews in Morocco that same age as well as sons (half Moroccan) here in the US. Rest assured they have zero interest in beginning a relationship with an older woman. They are young, they want to have fun, someday marry an age appropriate woman and have children.
Why do you think he would be so different than others of his age? He wants out of Morocco and you are his ticket. I guarantee you, you will be hurt. You can take the advice or leave it but when it happens don't play the victim. You were warned and you choose your own path. It does not really matter what anyone tells you, you already know that you are going to continue with the relationship, you've already made your mind up.

no I will not continue. I will end things. Thanks for the advice.
Ga girl

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Apr 4, 2013
 
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no I will not continue. I will end things. Thanks for the advice.
Will it be easy to end things with him?

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no I will not continue. I will end things. Thanks for the advice.
I hope so and I'm sorry if I sounds harsh it just boils my blood when the signs are there and people do nothing to help themselves before it is too late. I am a form beleiver that there is a soul mate and partner for everyone this child is not yours. Get out there and enjoy life, love will find you when you least expect it. Good luck!

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Apr 4, 2013
 
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Will it be easy to end things with him?
It will be harder on you than him for sure, change your email address, block him from your Facebook, change your number. It's not as though he can show up at your home or work. He can only contact you if you allow him to. It's all in your hands.
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It will be harder on you than him for sure, change your email address, block him from your Facebook, change your number. It's not as though he can show up at your home or work. He can only contact you if you allow him to. It's all in your hands.
that is very true. and i will. I will be hurt but it will be better in the long run.
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Apr 4, 2013
 
He hates liars.....because they are liars!!!
Ga girl wrote:
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One more thing. He hates liars. He has told me that different of times.
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Apr 4, 2013
 
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Hey Gemma,

U r obviously not going to listen to the voices of reason because u have already established a very emotional bond with this individual whom u only know from the stroke of computer keys. U dont want to believe that he has an ulterior motive of a green card. I can tell by the questions that ur asking. Stop wasting other ppls time and do exactly what u intend to do in the first place and that is to go to Morocco, stay with him, believe his lies, help him get a green card and spend all of ur time and money on someone who really doesnt care about u for u, but only u 4 the magical green card. Women like u dont learn the smart way, u learn the hard way and that is only thru ur own experience, which in my view and many others views, will only lead to heartache and financial issues. But go for it. U deserve it!
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#920
Apr 4, 2013
 
The comments were meant for the original poster. I am not sure if it is Gemma. Forgive me for my error.
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yes they are all just looking 4 a way out.. im married 2 one and he spends hours on internet chatting 2 many girls and older women.and when we met he seemed a honest guy .im back in my own country now not divorced simply because if he wants one he can pay 4 it im broke not working . we still have some contact and blames that he didnt get visa. he never bothered to save thats why he was refused.worked 4 him self but gave to family as they all do when i spent time in morocco with him he wouldnt give me any help wit rent i have to argue even to sometimes get a littel help twords food.and this guy tells me he loves me.. never did what a fool i was.hope u never meet this fake guy
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These men are very patient, they know that the process can take up to 14 months and all they have is time!!! Please, do not fall for their games! They will tell you they love you they will Skype with you every single night, they will patiently wait and tell you many beautiful things that you want to hear, but the fact of the matter is this.....they are using you to get out of Maroc!!! Plain and simple. I know this, I have been dating a man from Maroc for many months, he already is a citizen, but his cousin wants to come here, there is NOTHING for them in Morocco, it is a very poor country, I know this as I've visited twice now. His cousin is so desperate to come, he sits in an internet cafe all day chatting with this unsuspecting woman, who has never met him, yet tells him that she loves him!! I wish I know who this woman was as to warn her, he will get here and in a year leave her!!! Please, do not be naive! You deserve better.
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We have been talking for a year. We have all the information for the visa. but we have not started a visa yet for him. If he was so desperate for a green card. Would he really wait over a year for us to be together? Wouldn't he of left me now to find someone else. So he could get to the USA.
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Hey Gemma,
U r obviously not going to listen to the voices of reason because u have already established a very emotional bond with this individual whom u only know from the stroke of computer keys. U dont want to believe that he has an ulterior motive of a green card. I can tell by the questions that ur asking. Stop wasting other ppls time and do exactly what u intend to do in the first place and that is to go to Morocco, stay with him, believe his lies, help him get a green card and spend all of ur time and money on someone who really doesnt care about u for u, but only u 4 the magical green card. Women like u dont learn the smart way, u learn the hard way and that is only thru ur own experience, which in my view and many others views, will only lead to heartache and financial issues. But go for it. U deserve it!
Wait Hold on. I am NOT going to morocco to marry this guy. And yes I do have questions so people can help me understand, Does not mean I will keep thing going with him,
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Wait Hold on. I am NOT going to morocco to marry this guy. And yes I do have questions so people can help me understand, Does not mean I will keep thing going with him,
Best to stay away from these guys. I have a good friend, she is going through hell right now with this Moroccan man just to get rid of him. As said above, they have endless patience, they sit in coffee shops all day and in internet places. When they latch on to a unsuspecting woman from another country they will not let go. They are very skilled in buttering and honeying until they got what they want.
My friend here in USA got this Moroccan man into the country, she married him but at first he get a 2 year green card with condition which he must renew. This man would always tell her that he came here only for her. Well it turned out that during the 2 years it proved to her that he came not for her but his green card. Now she refused to sign his petition for removal of condition and he moved out, got himself an attorney and is fighting her nasty, defaming her and has her at the brink of a nervous breakdown. Lots of them are still in believe that a woman must be punished for not obeying their husbands. This guy is fishing for anything in her life now that he could get her perscecuted with. According to our laws, they are criminals deceiving women and defrauding by supposedly good faith mariages when they are only out for a green card. Some are slick and can hold on till they got what they after but in my friends case this guy is a bit stupid, no sooner she helped him to lay his foundation meaning job, bank account, etc. her marriage became a 1 way street on which she travelled alone. He wanted his freedom, never shared anything, refused to touch her and prohibited her to touch him, bought food for himself only, then invited her to cook it and eat with him and he wanted her to put the gas in his car which he utilized only, told her to take rides in a Yellow Cab when her truck broke down.!! STAY AWAY FROM THEM!! Listen to people that know.
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Apr 6, 2013
 
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Wait Hold on. I am NOT going to morocco to marry this guy. And yes I do have questions so people can help me understand, Does not mean I will keep thing going with him,
OK, well at least ur questioning his motives. That is a step in the right direction. I am very familiar with Moroccan men, but I have always refused to be used by them.
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Apr 6, 2013
 
Ga girl wrote:
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Wait Hold on. I am NOT going to morocco to marry this guy. And yes I do have questions so people can help me understand, Does not mean I will keep thing going with him,
Right now u r not "going with him" anyway because u only know him via the internet! That hardly constitutes "carnal knowledge".
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Apr 6, 2013
 
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Best to stay away from these guys. I have a good friend, she is going through hell right now with this Moroccan man just to get rid of him. As said above, they have endless patience, they sit in coffee shops all day and in internet places. When they latch on to a unsuspecting woman from another country they will not let go. They are very skilled in buttering and honeying until they got what they want.
My friend here in USA got this Moroccan man into the country, she married him but at first he get a 2 year green card with condition which he must renew. This man would always tell her that he came here only for her. Well it turned out that during the 2 years it proved to her that he came not for her but his green card. Now she refused to sign his petition for removal of condition and he moved out, got himself an attorney and is fighting her nasty, defaming her and has her at the brink of a nervous breakdown. Lots of them are still in believe that a woman must be punished for not obeying their husbands. This guy is fishing for anything in her life now that he could get her perscecuted with. According to our laws, they are criminals deceiving women and defrauding by supposedly good faith mariages when they are only out for a green card. Some are slick and can hold on till they got what they after but in my friends case this guy is a bit stupid, no sooner she helped him to lay his foundation meaning job, bank account, etc. her marriage became a 1 way street on which she travelled alone. He wanted his freedom, never shared anything, refused to touch her and prohibited her to touch him, bought food for himself only, then invited her to cook it and eat with him and he wanted her to put the gas in his car which he utilized only, told her to take rides in a Yellow Cab when her truck broke down.!! STAY AWAY FROM THEM!! Listen to people that know.
Wow Karen that is some expose. There is a website that warns US women about men who use marriage to defraud. It is too bad many women on this site dont view themselves in those very telling paragraphs written by the US Consulate. If they did, they could avoid a lot of heartache.
Leila Zafari

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#932
Apr 10, 2013
 
Im Hispanic, and married to a Moroccan. Last year we visited Morocco, we were there almost a month. Some places are very beautiful, food is great. Tea time is awesome. And wo, while in Morocco boy did we enjoy having sex, my husband was caring again, like when we were dating.
When I met him, he was a sweetheart. An Angel sent to me to take care of me, as he said. Opened doors for me, frequently had sex, time of day was not an issue, showers together, etc.
WE spent a lot of time together, now we just sleep.

As time has passed, and he has obtained his inmigrant status to permanent, he has changed. He has also recently left to Morocco over night, without consult.
Ive helped him start his own business, and always stopped what I was doing to help him succeed. My wishes for him have always been good, progress together was always my intention.
My husband has been a liar since the beginning, he was dating another Hispanic when me met, and somehow I didn't find out until returning from Morocco. I felt guilty, as tho it was my fault hed left the other girl.
Now, all we do is fight and argue. He has what he wanted his update in status. IM NOT SURE HE IS COMING BACK.
Did I feel loved by him, yes, BEFORE we married. since then he is rude, un loving, untrusting, never has my back.
But Im in love with the man I met. I pray he will be the same guy he was before.
But rescently before he left his older brother was stupid enough to mention to another member of the family, my husband planned to leave in April for good, after getting his permanent resident card.
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#933
Apr 11, 2013
 
I meet my boyfriend at work 5 months ago .. at the beginning of our relationship we were just friends for like a month and then we start dating and going out a lot times .. I am Mexican , he is Moroccan .... he use to told me that he doesn't care about any body .he doesn't want any serious relationship .. he used to told me that the day he gets married he will only married to a girl from morocco .. he used to be so mean ,,, but he is good in sex ...he is 27... im 21... he went on vacations for 2 months .... I think he went to get married with somebody and he is tryung to hide that from me ,,,, he has call me a lot times ,, saying he miss meand he love me ,,,, but I think he is so fake and he only likes me because I have a good job and I make a lot money ... I think im stupid cuz I bought him an ipad, aqua di gio , a gold ring, teddy bears,,, clothes ... etc help what should I do he is coming back in 1 week

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