I just recently met a Moroccan Man on FB

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ZapGirl

Los Angeles, CA

#1 Dec 10, 2010
I just recently met a Moroccan man on FB. We hit it off instantaneously. We have been quite fast and thats ok. Basically we are meeting soon. I am flying him to the United States. I just want to meet him first before I decide to get married and have children. He is 7 years younger than me but we are both in our 20's so it doesn't matter. He has truly captured my heart and I think about him all the time. The question I am having and what is bothering me is that I (and not to sound conceded) but am truly beautiful but I had a injury recently and became disabled. I was wondering how Moroccan Men will become in person w/ this disability. I use a wheelchair mostly. And he f hot as hot as can be. We are both a match in the face. Many thanks ahead.

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#2 Dec 10, 2010
I want to delete this posting by me. How do I do it please?

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#3 Dec 14, 2010
I hope you are flying him in locally and be sure he has good intentions.

I think once you post, it's stuck on there.

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#4 Dec 14, 2010
What do you mean by locally? I think he needs to be more worried of my intentions :)

The question was how do you feel these men will adapt or adjust to a disability?
Khayna

Santa Catarina, Mexico

#5 Dec 16, 2010
It's funny to see how people are judging Moroccans as if they were coming from another planet...:D

Please know that we Moroccans are no different from any other men in the world ^^ With both our qualities and flaws.

As for your question, do not worry, I mean, I guess (if you've been talking for a long time) that you have mentioned that at some point so honestly, if he's coming from so far, I don't think that he'll really mind this kind of things... Love is not limited to this kind of barriers. If he really is honest about his feelings then he will probably not mind this unfortunate disability, if on the contrary he does or has a negative reaction, then try to talk to him about it (whether he was surprised or shocked or didn't know what to say or how to behave) and then you could know if really he's worthy or not.

If he's indeed worth it then I wish you all the best :)

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#6 Dec 18, 2010
Thanks Khanya.

We talk about it all the time. He seems to put it out of my mind and wants me to. I think he actually finds it sexy.

I think I am being hard on myself because we are falling in love. It greats stronger day after day.

He makes me super happy and I think until we are actually in person will he see all that entails into it. However, I believe he has a good idea. He's by no means a moron :)
Khayna

Santa Catarina, Mexico

#7 Dec 19, 2010
My pleasure ^^

If you do talk about it all the time, then no doubt he's already got used to it and you should not be scared of anything.

Obviously meeting him is something that can make you feel nervous, but know that Moroccan men are a bit shy at the beginning but quickly relax ^^

Wishing you all the best to both of you :)
same

Norway

#8 Dec 20, 2010
hi zap girl......... go weth all your fellings some times people cant help if they dont know about your conversation;s togather .what i know about a good persson who beleave in humanity.and from the bottem of that heart will be able to grow up older weth you i seen this maney times and even they agreed on maney thinks in there future when they realy do respect echother weth love and hounesty ...as morocan im and where i come from .... i do know god is in the heart of a great persone matter what your religion or where you came from i have maney disable friends sance i was 18 y old i use to go to france a lot just to help thos people who they maney of them are greats .. in the other hand ..i wanted to know how is going to be able to come see you from morocco ..is not just a tickit but need lot befor that visa and paper work ..the reson im sayen this dont know the persson if orady has visa or just sheting you to get that amont of money tickit and you will never heare from hime sorry just a opinon in case you dont know this parte ...good luk dear to bouth of you ....sancerly friend same
JAMILA

Surprise, AZ

#9 Dec 26, 2010
ZapGirl wrote:
I just recently met a Moroccan man on FB. We hit it off instantaneously. We have been quite fast and thats ok. Basically we are meeting soon. I am flying him to the United States. I just want to meet him first before I decide to get married and have children. He is 7 years younger than me but we are both in our 20's so it doesn't matter. He has truly captured my heart and I think about him all the time. The question I am having and what is bothering me is that I (and not to sound conceded) but am truly beautiful but I had a injury recently and became disabled. I was wondering how Moroccan Men will become in person w/ this disability. I use a wheelchair mostly. And he f hot as hot as can be. We are both a match in the face. Many thanks ahead.
You are totaly out of your entire mind, crazy,, you are been used,, and you do not have any self respect,, it is for a man to pursue a woman, and take on all the responsibilities, money wise and in all areas of life.. you must be desperate,, and insecure,,, he wants his green card ! that is all,, and he will leave you to rot,, afterward,, with kids or not,,and not many love God enough in the whole world, to love you been disabled,, he wants his legal status and you are falling for it, desperate to be loved, in fear to be alone,, you are crazy,, and are not using reason,, but only emotions,,
JAMILA

Surprise, AZ

#10 Dec 26, 2010
ZapGirl wrote:
I just recently met a Moroccan man on FB. We hit it off instantaneously. We have been quite fast and thats ok. Basically we are meeting soon. I am flying him to the United States. I just want to meet him first before I decide to get married and have children. He is 7 years younger than me but we are both in our 20's so it doesn't matter. He has truly captured my heart and I think about him all the time. The question I am having and what is bothering me is that I (and not to sound conceded) but am truly beautiful but I had a injury recently and became disabled. I was wondering how Moroccan Men will become in person w/ this disability. I use a wheelchair mostly. And he f hot as hot as can be. We are both a match in the face. Many thanks ahead.
You want to marry a pimp ? okay lol, go for it,,
kitty_123

Brooklyn, NY

#11 Feb 28, 2011
ZapGirl wrote:
I just recently met a Moroccan man on FB. We hit it off instantaneously. We have been quite fast and thats ok. Basically we are meeting soon. I am flying him to the United States. I just want to meet him first before I decide to get married and have children. He is 7 years younger than me but we are both in our 20's so it doesn't matter. He has truly captured my heart and I think about him all the time. The question I am having and what is bothering me is that I (and not to sound conceded) but am truly beautiful but I had a injury recently and became disabled. I was wondering how Moroccan Men will become in person w/ this disability. I use a wheelchair mostly. And he f hot as hot as can be. We are both a match in the face. Many thanks ahead.
I think your very immature about this. you did not mention anything of what u and him have in common, except your faces,,ohh that will defo make a good relationship there..wowow, what ever happen to true love regardless of anything else? this relationship, you are basting on him being a hottie and you being so beautiful,,but oh wiate,,your question is,,will he accept your disabillity? I think if he made you believe he loved you, then why worrie about a disabillity? love has no boundries,,but it seems to me, yours does,,sooooo very sad.

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#12 Mar 2, 2011
Zap girl, you sound like a good person. My advice to you is to stay away from the situation. Moroccan men are notorious for using American women for visa into the States. Unless you plan on traveling there first and meeting his family and really seeing what this guy is all about, I"d just walk away now and save yourself the hurt later. And even still, countless women (especially on this site) have gone to Morocco, met the family, get married, bring him back and still they leave them high and dry once they get their papers. It's saad but so true. Oh, and by the way, bringing him to the states will not be as easy as you seem to think.

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#13 Mar 2, 2011
i agree with you jamilla 100%
dee

Guelph, Canada

#14 Apr 6, 2011
you plan on flying him into your country,,,,,does he have a visa to leave,,,or he's pulling your leg,,,probably give you some story to send him money for a ticket that you'll never see again,,,run lady run,,,,moroccans are users,,,used to the tune of 10 grand,,,think with your head
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hi zap girl......... go weth all your fellings some times people cant help if they dont know about your conversation;s togather .what i know about a good persson who beleave in humanity.and from the bottem of that heart will be able to grow up older weth you i seen this maney times and even they agreed on maney thinks in there future when they realy do respect echother weth love and hounesty ...as morocan im and where i come from .... i do know god is in the heart of a great persone matter what your religion or where you came from i have maney disable friends sance i was 18 y old i use to go to france a lot just to help thos people who they maney of them are greats .. in the other hand ..i wanted to know how is going to be able to come see you from morocco ..is not just a tickit but need lot befor that visa and paper work ..the reson im sayen this dont know the persson if orady has visa or just sheting you to get that amont of money tickit and you will never heare from hime sorry just a opinon in case you dont know this parte ...good luk dear to bouth of you ....sancerly friend same

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#15 May 1, 2011
AGREED!!!!!!!!
TigerLily

Saint Paul, MN

#16 May 1, 2011
ZapGirl,
Why the change of heart? A few months you were falling in love with this man. Now you agree with Dee and Jamila. What did this man do to you? I want the gossip!
nomad

Khouribga, Morocco

#17 May 1, 2011
am really sorry for you , but i have to tell you the truth as i doo with all people here in topix .

be sure that if find he has a bad and hard life in Morocco , he will accept anything he find on you , until he get his greencard and all things , after that , he will learn to talk , meand he will leave.
but if he is ok here in Morocco and his family are ok , for exemple they are not in need of his help. be sure he is in love with u really. but be attention and don't be in a hurry.
Moroccan girl aus

Brisbane, Australia

#18 May 10, 2011
If you are thinking twice about being with this man, I don't think you should even visit him in maroc, moroccan men are the most beautiful, charming humans on the face of this planet (pure perfection)and he will make you feel like you are the only beautiful woman on this planet.
Also be sure, there are more women than man in Morocco (3 woman to 1 man) and from a young age the man will find his love already. I will say 98% he already has his Moroccan love...Even you may be beautiful, you have not seen beauty until you go to morocco and see moroccan women.
My advice, we only live once? do you want to wait for someone who you know you will be safe with? or do you want to take a chance with this moroccan man, you will show you the true passion in life (maybe leave you afterward) but at least you had a taste of what life is truly about...
TRYING TO HELP

Columbus, OH

#19 May 11, 2011
Dear ZapGirl,
If you are asking for our help we well help you,however,I need more information about this guy,for example:what's his full name? what's his education level?does he work?what city is he from? see if you can get his national ID #?what's his culture background,is it arab culture or is it berber culture?what's his address?....Just an FYI there is a lot of organizations that you can use to learn about a community. Now back to you what makes you think that you are a catch?
Take my advise,you can chat about this all day long no one can change your mind,GO CHECK IT OUT BY YOUR SELF.If it did not work out ohhh well you got to see another country.....move on ! next !
TigerLily

Saint Paul, MN

#20 May 27, 2011
Moroccan girl aus...where did you get your statistics from? 3 WOMEN to 1 MAN??? No country has a gender ratio like that...not even the UAE (which happens to be close to 3 MEN to 1 WOMAN). True there are some beautiful Moroccan women, but there also plenty of ugly ones also. He possibly (probably) does have a love interest, but it's a possibility he may be unable to marry her (due to the high cost of marrying a Moroccan girl). "Moroccan men are the most beautiful" WHAT?!?! Most of them are NOT good looking..some are...but most of them are either too fat or too skinny, big ugly buck teeth, too short, bad hygeine, etc...Although, they can be charming. They are charming because they are such good liars!

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