mexican mother in laws why are they so posessive of there sons?

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jessica214

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Nov 18, 2012
 
After reading these posts I do feel I have several things in common. My in laws don't speak English very well if not at all. Therefore I cannot communicate with them. However I did have a child with my husband and they treat him extremely well. But sometimes at family gatherings I feel rather out of place because I do not understand a lot of what they say. My brother in law is conceited. My sister in law is kind and helpful. She is allowing us to stay in her home until we get back on our feet. The issue I do have is when it comes to knowing whats best for my son. My mother in law is always correcting something that I know is okay. Like my dogs, she is convinced that my two very small dogs were going to harm my son or that their hair was going to harm him. When in reality the hair etc can help prevent future allergies. Anyways...sometimes it feels like she doesn't trust my judgement and I hate it.

***btw my in laws were illegal but have gotten their citizenship but everything that is being said about the race is ignorant and you obviously just want to put all Mexicans in the category of stinky nasty evil people when in reality there are a group of them that really shower on a daily basis sweet and take their time to try and understand the English language.

I was just lookkngvto see if therr were others i could relate to. But majority of those on this thing are just ignorant.
palomitaamorosa

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Nov 18, 2012
 
I agree-- but as far as your son is concerned your Mother-in-law is always going to think she knows what is best ,it has nothing to do with race though. And in actuality Mexican mother and Grandmothers are extremely protective (over- protective )sometimes but just know that she is doing out of love .And feels that she is helping you by showing you the right way and giving you advice .I have learned the best thing is to listen and then go ahead and do what you feel is right . Good luck and please do not pay attention to all the negativity on this site .
jessica214

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Nov 18, 2012
 
palomitaamorosa wrote:
I agree-- but as far as your son is concerned your Mother-in-law is always going to think she knows what is best ,it has nothing to do with race though. And in actuality Mexican mother and Grandmothers are extremely protective (over- protective )sometimes but just know that she is doing out of love .And feels that she is helping you by showing you the right way and giving you advice .I have learned the best thing is to listen and then go ahead and do what you feel is right . Good luck and please do not pay attention to all the negativity on this site .
I assumed that. I try to listen and just do what I feel is right. She's just always around it seems. I mean she's sweet but sometimes when she corrects me it makes me feel like she is judging me. Or she is thinking I don't know what I'm doing. He is my first baby and Im confident in everything I do.

* these posts pissed me off because obviously my son is half Mexican. I'll be damned if he will be grouped based on what other peoples opinions are. And yea I'll be just as protective of him when ever someone new comes into his life. I won't depend on him but I'll make sure he is being treated right.
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Nov 18, 2012
 

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yeah I know my dad is from Mexico You should see the post on on Ask A Mexican the ignorance on there is incredible. But as for your mother-in kaw the best thing is to try to limit the time you have to spend with her --It will save your sanity lol .
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<quoted text> I assumed that. I try to listen and just do what I feel is right. She's just always around it seems. I mean she's sweet but sometimes when she corrects me it makes me feel like she is judging me. Or she is thinking I don't know what I'm doing. He is my first baby and Im confident in everything I do.
* these posts pissed me off because obviously my son is half Mexican. I'll be damned if he will be grouped based on what other peoples opinions are. And yea I'll be just as protective of him when ever someone new comes into his life. I won't depend on him but I'll make sure he is being treated right.
believe me the bitch will take your place also, she will ruin your child if you let her take over your place, every wet back mother in law wants the grandbabies to be pregnant at 14 have no education, and be a coniving bitch like herself.the wet back mother in law will do anything she can to ruin your relationship with her son, cause she needs that cash cow for herself.she will milk the shit out of your husband, so you will no longer be able to pay your own bills.hoping she will get her son back in her house, and under her thumb again.she truelly is a manipulating, controlling, selfish, absoloute devil from hell. she will do anything to take your place, and spoil your lives, best thing you can do is move as far as you can from her.or she will cripple your husband with her manipulating, lying and the games she will play to destroy your relationship.
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Nov 19, 2012
 

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<quoted text>believe me the bitch will take your place also, she will ruin your child if you let her take over your place, every wet back mother in law wants the grandbabies to be pregnant at 14 have no education, and be a coniving bitch like herself.the wet back mother in law will do anything she can to ruin your relationship with her son, cause she needs that cash cow for herself.she will milk the shit out of your husband, so you will no longer be able to pay your own bills.hoping she will get her son back in her house, and under her thumb again.she truelly is a manipulating, controlling, selfish, absoloute devil from hell. she will do anything to take your place, and spoil your lives, best thing you can do is move as far as you can from her.or she will cripple your husband with her manipulating, lying and the games she will play to destroy your relationship.
I've recently lost my job and she helped us out a lot. She paid for the trailer we had lived in she helped us out of debt by letting us borrow her credit card. Due to the fact that my child is s boy he cannot get pregnant at all. I do not agree with a lot of what you say. She has been very kind and altjough we can't really communicate we do understand each other. My issue with her is getting the vibe that she thinks I'm dumb when it comes to my son. But then again I get unwanted advice from my mom as well. But with his mom she is old time. She believes that dogs belong outside because they can be harmful to an infant. She just doesn't know about the newest information etc. Founded by the APA that's really my only issue...
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palomitaamorosa wrote:
yeah I know my dad is from Mexico You should see the post on on Ask A Mexican the ignorance on there is incredible. But as for your mother-in kaw the best thing is to try to limit the time you have to spend with her --It will save your sanity lol .
lol I know. I can't understand her but she still drives me crazy sometimes.
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<quoted text>believe me the bitch will take your place also, she will ruin your child if you let her take over your place, every wet back mother in law wants the grandbabies to be pregnant at 14 have no education, and be a coniving bitch like herself.the wet back mother in law will do anything she can to ruin your relationship with her son, cause she needs that cash cow for herself.she will milk the shit out of your husband, so you will no longer be able to pay your own bills.hoping she will get her son back in her house, and under her thumb again.she truelly is a manipulating, controlling, selfish, absoloute devil from hell. she will do anything to take your place, and spoil your lives, best thing you can do is move as far as you can from her.or she will cripple your husband with her manipulating, lying and the games she will play to destroy your relationship.
Besides your ex and his family do you even know any Mexicans .Have you ever heard of a quinceanera - Do you know the meaning or the significance ? You are a vieja amargada --Or is it simply that you are so resentful that things did not work out with your ex ? Are you like one of those crazy white women that have like 30 cats because no man in his right mind wants to deal with the BS .Just because in the Mexican culture there are stronger family values than most Americans have does not mean that the men are all brainless idiots who can be used and manipulated. Maybe it was your attitude that was the problem in your marriage and not your mother-in law
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<quoted text>lol I know. I can't understand her but she still drives me crazy sometimes.
Just remember she is coming from a different time and a different back ground but she can be your strongest ally -She just wants to know that you love her son -She wants the same for her son as what you want for yours --- And you can always vent here Sometimes thats all that is needed ---
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<quoted text>Besides your ex and his family do you even know any Mexicans .Have you ever heard of a quinceanera - Do you know the meaning or the significance ? You are a vieja amargada --Or is it simply that you are so resentful that things did not work out with your ex ? Are you like one of those crazy white women that have like 30 cats because no man in his right mind wants to deal with the BS .Just because in the Mexican culture there are stronger family values than most Americans have does not mean that the men are all brainless idiots who can be used and manipulated. Maybe it was your attitude that was the problem in your marriage and not your mother-in law
news flash! I have no pets, only a beautiful american husband, whos parents are classy, mannerly, and live clean, not the filthy wet back bitch who was so filthy the stench reaped off her stinkin body, could barely stand to get near her.and yes mexican bitch mother in laws do indeed try to take a wifes place, if she is white, and american. because they are so controlling and nosey. she used to go in my bedroom and steal my belongings. cause they are used to stealing, so to them it is ok. they are thiefs, liars and you have a problem with the truth. if grandbabies are around the bitch while growing up like the mother in law likes to baby sit, for sure the kids will be pregnant at 13 and the boys drunks and drug addicts, cause she could give a shit about the kid, its all about the CONTROL the bitch feeds on. now you should mind your own business, cause you are in a great big denial now go take your bul shit some where else, cause even you know your a wetback mother in law, lets talk to your daughter in law lmfao.
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<quoted text>Just remember she is coming from a different time and a different back ground but she can be your strongest ally -She just wants to know that you love her son -She wants the same for her son as what you want for yours --- And you can always vent here Sometimes thats all that is needed ---
your so full of shit!she wants her son, all to her self!she most likely molested him when he was a child, i read they do in mexico and papa is allowed to molest the females now go educate yourself mother in law.oh, and take a shower.you wont miss a gossip session.
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<quoted text>your so full of shit!she wants her son, all to her self!she most likely molested him when he was a child, i read they do in mexico and papa is allowed to molest the females now go educate yourself mother in law.oh, and take a shower.you wont miss a gossip session.
YOU ARE ONE SICK TWISTED PERSON ---you are really showing what a classy lady you are hahaha ---Just because you have no love or concern for your children does not mean that if someone else does that there is some sick perverted reason behind it ---YOU SHOULD HONESTLY LOOK FOR A GOOD THERAPIST ---YOU NEED IT SERIOUSLY ---Now it is evident why your husband left you ---
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palomitaamorosa wrote:
<quoted text>YOU ARE ONE SICK TWISTED PERSON ---you are really showing what a classy lady you are hahaha ---Just because you have no love or concern for your children does not mean that if someone else does that there is some sick perverted reason behind it ---YOU SHOULD HONESTLY LOOK FOR A GOOD THERAPIST ---YOU NEED IT SERIOUSLY ---Now it is evident why your husband left you ---
and I made this topix a while back, don't need to talk of the trashy old pig anymore. just stopped by to see the responses, which I saw ALOT of women have this problem, so you best mind your own business and get on with your life, as I have.I am sorry your daughter in law left your son.LMFAO. bye bye.
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palomitaamorosa wrote:
<quoted text>YOU ARE ONE SICK TWISTED PERSON ---you are really showing what a classy lady you are hahaha ---Just because you have no love or concern for your children does not mean that if someone else does that there is some sick perverted reason behind it ---YOU SHOULD HONESTLY LOOK FOR A GOOD THERAPIST ---YOU NEED IT SERIOUSLY ---Now it is evident why your husband left you ---
and get your self some mental therapy, you are a ignorant piece of work!you need to clean your rose colored glasses lmao! I love my children, more than you could ever imagine, thats why I chose not to subject them to such a filthy bunch of morons with no manners, education or values.I want my sons to make good husbands, not some lazy azzes waiting for mommy to clean up after them. get your head out od your azz.
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<quoted text>and get your self some mental therapy, you are a ignorant piece of work!you need to clean your rose colored glasses lmao! I love my children, more than you could ever imagine, thats why I chose not to subject them to such a filthy bunch of morons with no manners, education or values.I want my sons to make good husbands, not some lazy azzes waiting for mommy to clean up after them. get your head out od your azz.
did you not say bye earlier ? and yes your education manners & values show through in your posts lol .
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<quoted text>did you not say bye earlier ? and yes your education manners & values show through in your posts lol .
well thankyou, your stupidity, ignorance and so on show what a ignorant uneducated ass you are.
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<quoted text>well thankyou, your stupidity, ignorance and so on show what a ignorant uneducated ass you are.
LMAO! Very well said! There is this beautful blonde from Arroyo Grande who stole my heart who would have said it just like you did.
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Nov 26, 2012
 
To all the racist comments from supposedly white women that marry Mexicans...

ejemmm... ejemm....

"Why are were you such race traitors"

XD XD XD

Don't marry us monkeys. Stay with your rosy nippled men, for god's sake!!

If you do not have kids, you are in time not to live a life of regret.

( I visit some US right-wing forums from time to time, and I think those people would agree it could summarize as easy as that, without so much fuss ).

Regards.
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karen wrote:
<quoted text>well thankyou, your stupidity, ignorance and so on show what a ignorant uneducated ass you are.
yes I am the one who can not conversate without cursing like some jr. high bully lol Y ou are sso right lol
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LMAO! Very well said! There is this beautful blonde from Arroyo Grande who stole my heart who would have said it just like you did.
you are just so hilarious hahaha ---What a bunch of idiots lol

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