mexican mother in laws why are they so posessive of there sons?

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karen

United States

#1 Apr 30, 2011
my mother in law is the most coniving bitch on the face of the world! im white, blonde and her son i thought i was in love with, but after wasting 11 years waiting for things to change , im through! she is so hatefull, and satonic!, shes continually trying to take my place shes a ass hole! she lies of being sick so he and every male in his family will cut there vacations short, and run to fix her toilet, mow her lawn, cut her trees, reroof her house, fix, fix, fix, all for free, a full time job for my husband her and her lazy old man(his father) have tons of money but all they do is leech off us, i cant hardly put food on the table for my family, there always wanting something every weekend my husband is off work. he doesnt even want to do our yardwork or fix our place, they are so selfish! his mother gossips and complains, calling him on his cell phone all day he has no time to listen to my problems, or our children, i guess its part his fault why does he have such respect for the bitch and basturd, they beat and molested him when he was young, made him quit school at 14, so he could work and they could lay on there asses in there 30:s i am thinking seriously of leaving him here very soon, i hate his parents so much i could scream! anyways i have to leave cause this wickid devil bitch from hell isnt goenna die soon enough.
delsoul

Houston, TX

#2 Apr 30, 2011
You just described my mother-in-law to a tee, and she's white. Surely you realize there's not a race in the world in which those type of mother-in-laws don't exist. You're in the wrong forum, you should try Dr.Phil!!!
Thank God

Benson, AZ

#3 May 2, 2011
karen wrote:
my mother in law is the most coniving bitch on the face of the world! im white, blonde and her son i thought i was in love with, but after wasting 11 years waiting for things to change , im through! she is so hatefull, and satonic!, shes continually trying to take my place shes a ass hole! she lies of being sick so he and every male in his family will cut there vacations short, and run to fix her toilet, mow her lawn, cut her trees, reroof her house, fix, fix, fix, all for free, a full time job for my husband her and her lazy old man(his father) have tons of money but all they do is leech off us, i cant hardly put food on the table for my family, there always wanting something every weekend my husband is off work. he doesnt even want to do our yardwork or fix our place, they are so selfish! his mother gossips and complains, calling him on his cell phone all day he has no time to listen to my problems, or our children, i guess its part his fault why does he have such respect for the bitch and basturd, they beat and molested him when he was young, made him quit school at 14, so he could work and they could lay on there asses in there 30:s i am thinking seriously of leaving him here very soon, i hate his parents so much i could scream! anyways i have to leave cause this wickid devil bitch from hell isnt goenna die soon enough.
Those who have not married yet, and read the above post - remember you don't just marry the man or woman, you also marry the family. So, be sure you know the in-laws before you take that all important step in life - marriage. I did, and I have no problems with my in-laws.
Ann

Omaha, NE

#4 Mar 6, 2012
I've been married to a mexican man for over 25 years and now see the big picture.
My father was 100% German, my mother is of Irish and Scottish descent. My in-laws are mexican, okay.
The differences between my Irish/Scottish mother and my mexican mother-in-law are profound. In short, my mother is SO REFINED, so in tune as to how to relate to her in-laws compared to my mexican mother-in-law who had had problems with another daughter-in-law from Old Mexico is 100% mexican.
I've seen it all firsthand and lived it. The bottom line is this: Mexicans just don't make for good in-laws, but the mexican mother-in-law and those mexican sister-in-laws are innocently ignorant as to how an in-law should be treated. The obnoxious behavior from the mexican mother-in-law and her precious mehas is not done on purpose but out of ignorance. Mexicans are from the lower class, and consequently their behavior is low class. End of story!
karen wrote:
my mother in law is the most coniving bitch on the face of the world! im white, blonde and her son i thought i was in love with, but after wasting 11 years waiting for things to change , im through! she is so hatefull, and satonic!, shes continually trying to take my place shes a ass hole! she lies of being sick so he and every male in his family will cut there vacations short, and run to fix her toilet, mow her lawn, cut her trees, reroof her house, fix, fix, fix, all for free, a full time job for my husband her and her lazy old man(his father) have tons of money but all they do is leech off us, i cant hardly put food on the table for my family, there always wanting something every weekend my husband is off work. he doesnt even want to do our yardwork or fix our place, they are so selfish! his mother gossips and complains, calling him on his cell phone all day he has no time to listen to my problems, or our children, i guess its part his fault why does he have such respect for the bitch and basturd, they beat and molested him when he was young, made him quit school at 14, so he could work and they could lay on there asses in there 30:s i am thinking seriously of leaving him here very soon, i hate his parents so much i could scream! anyways i have to leave cause this wickid devil bitch from hell isnt goenna die soon enough.
rachael christens rios

Hollywood, FL

#5 Mar 6, 2012
Ann wrote:
I've been married to a mexican man for over 25 years and now see the big picture.
My father was 100% German, my mother is of Irish and Scottish descent. My in-laws are mexican, okay.
The differences between my Irish/Scottish mother and my mexican mother-in-law are profound. In short, my mother is SO REFINED, so in tune as to how to relate to her in-laws compared to my mexican mother-in-law who had had problems with another daughter-in-law from Old Mexico is 100% mexican.
I've seen it all firsthand and lived it. The bottom line is this: Mexicans just don't make for good in-laws, but the mexican mother-in-law and those mexican sister-in-laws are innocently ignorant as to how an in-law should be treated. The obnoxious behavior from the mexican mother-in-law and her precious mehas is not done on purpose but out of ignorance. Mexicans are from the lower class, and consequently their behavior is low class. End of story!
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Omg ladies I totally agree and thank you so much for posting your experiences. I feel so relived to know I am not the only one who has been through this. Long story short, the first and only time I ever met my mother in law, she chewed me out and made me cry. Then she had the nerve to tell her husband in front of my face that I'm fake crying! Oh but it dosent stop there...i was pregnant at the time with her sons baby and she had even more nerve to say its not his baby without even knowing anything about me! She stared at me up and down the whole time..for what? I don't know! But all I know is that she is an evil you know what and so is her precious mija. One day for no resin at all my husbands sister verbally attacked me on facebook threatening me! I hate to sound racist and good forgive me if I do but it must be a mexican thing because my ex mother in law who was puerto rican was wonderful to me and so was the entire family. I actually miss them:/ to sum it all up, its like you said, they are of low class thus so is there attitude. Enough said!
Krystal

United States

#6 Apr 24, 2012
karen wrote:
my mother in law is the most coniving bitch on the face of the world! im white, blonde and her son i thought i was in love with, but after wasting 11 years waiting for things to change , im through! she is so hatefull, and satonic!, shes continually trying to take my place shes a ass hole! she lies of being sick so he and every male in his family will cut there vacations short, and run to fix her toilet, mow her lawn, cut her trees, reroof her house, fix, fix, fix, all for free, a full time job for my husband her and her lazy old man(his father) have tons of money but all they do is leech off us, i cant hardly put food on the table for my family, there always wanting something every weekend my husband is off work. he doesnt even want to do our yardwork or fix our place, they are so selfish! his mother gossips and complains, calling him on his cell phone all day he has no time to listen to my problems, or our children, i guess its part his fault why does he have such respect for the bitch and basturd, they beat and molested him when he was young, made him quit school at 14, so he could work and they could lay on there asses in there 30:s i am thinking seriously of leaving him here very soon, i hate his parents so much i could scream! anyways i have to leave cause this wickid devil bitch from hell isnt goenna die soon enough.
. Wow I felt like that was me talking!! I've wasted 8 years on a man that should be married to his mother, it's a absolute nightmare and I'm just realizing things are never going to change :(
KKK Klansman

United States

#7 Apr 25, 2012
karen wrote:
my mother in law is the most coniving bitch on the face of the world! im white, blonde and her son i thought i was in love with, but after wasting 11 years waiting for things to change , im through! she is so hatefull, and satonic!, shes continually trying to take my place shes a ass hole! she lies of being sick so he and every male in his family will cut there vacations short, and run to fix her toilet, mow her lawn, cut her trees, reroof her house, fix, fix, fix, all for free, a full time job for my husband her and her lazy old man(his father) have tons of money but all they do is leech off us, i cant hardly put food on the table for my family, there always wanting something every weekend my husband is off work. he doesnt even want to do our yardwork or fix our place, they are so selfish! his mother gossips and complains, calling him on his cell phone all day he has no time to listen to my problems, or our children, i guess its part his fault why does he have such respect for the bitch and basturd, they beat and molested him when he was young, made him quit school at 14, so he could work and they could lay on there asses in there 30:s i am thinking seriously of leaving him here very soon, i hate his parents so much i could scream! anyways i have to leave cause this wickid devil bitch from hell isnt goenna die soon enough.
lol lol lol!!!!! Hi jenny!
Diane

Chesapeake, VA

#8 Jun 4, 2012
Looking back, I should have not been trustful. I should have just gone and ended the relationship, but you know the sweet treatments our men gave us. I was too young and unguarded to think my in laws treatment will be in line with good marriage. Well, 12 years later i still feel I made a mistake. The indication in the beginning. Those blatant words and stares were a signal to stay away. Now, the my baby sister in law i was so fond of also hates me. I should have not opened up with her about what had happened in the past. At least she was civil with me before, but now she has a reason to hate me. I do not know how God will put this in perspective if pride has been in their hearts. Yes, i relocated across the country, and this is about the best thing i've done, but from time to time my dreamy state would grab the phone to wish them hello, may it be their birthday or holiday, and i've been pretty much disappointed most of the time. I have regrets, but i got 2 beautiful kids. I can see my husband puts effort in our relationship. Too bad, i have difficult in laws. Diane
Ranman

Alpine, CA

#9 Jul 26, 2012
My mexican mother in law was hands down the most selfish, controlling, sneaky person I have ever known. I was married to my wife for 8 months and the whole time she was actually married to her mother.(if youve been in this situation you know exactly what I mean) I am just glad I did not have kids with my ex because the longer I was with her the more I started to see that she was actually gonna be just like her mother. Divorce is never easy, but let me tell you that staying in a relationship where your mother and father in law boss your wife around and she listens to them like she is 10 years old is no marriage at all. I feel so relieved now that that woman and her insane family are out of my life. Life goes on and I will find someone who wants to be my partner and put ME first instead of her mother :)
Jazz

Sacramento, CA

#10 Oct 9, 2012
I can relate to quite a few of these stories. They always want and ask my man to buy them stupid shit or give them his things. They even take my stuff! I just couldnt take it anymore and told my husband no more. They all talk shit about me and I dnt even kno close to half of them cuz there is wayy to many to count and all are immagrints And they bring not only there family of 8 but bring an extra person all the time and I will let u kno I live in a two bedroom apt wit my two small kids and my husband so wen they come and stay at MY HOUSE theres like 11 ppl in my small apt!!!!! Thats just disrespect and gross!
karen

Los Osos, CA

#11 Nov 5, 2012
Jazz wrote:
I can relate to quite a few of these stories. They always want and ask my man to buy them stupid shit or give them his things. They even take my stuff! I just couldnt take it anymore and told my husband no more. They all talk shit about me and I dnt even kno close to half of them cuz there is wayy to many to count and all are immagrints And they bring not only there family of 8 but bring an extra person all the time and I will let u kno I live in a two bedroom apt wit my two small kids and my husband so wen they come and stay at MY HOUSE theres like 11 ppl in my small apt!!!!! Thats just disrespect and gross!
yes, I totally agree 100% they are filthy, my mother in law never bathes, unless she has to go to the doctor.otherwise she smells so bad, hiding it with heavy perfume. she lays her lazy ass in her robe all day, and complains of being sick, to get attention. she is the most filthiest, coniving manupilating, selfish liar i have ever known, my advice to all is stay away if you can.you will always have a husband who will never take your side, and make you work as a slave. and honor his mother, and family no matter what they do. he will critize you and will never be anything but someone to take all anger out on cause he really hates his bitch mother.that is why he is not married to a mexican.
karen

Los Osos, CA

#12 Nov 5, 2012
and ann you are so right yes they are ignorant.they cant do anything for themselves.but steal your life.
Badtothebone

Shirley, NY

#13 Nov 6, 2012
Hahahahaha this is great, I wish ILuvMexMen would read this.
palomitaamorosa

United States

#14 Nov 6, 2012
rachael christens rios wrote:
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Omg ladies I totally agree and thank you so much for posting your experiences. I feel so relived to know I am not the only one who has been through this. Long story short, the first and only time I ever met my mother in law, she chewed me out and made me cry. Then she had the nerve to tell her husband in front of my face that I'm fake crying! Oh but it dosent stop there...i was pregnant at the time with her sons baby and she had even more nerve to say its not his baby without even knowing anything about me! She stared at me up and down the whole time..for what? I don't know! But all I know is that she is an evil you know what and so is her precious mija. One day for no resin at all my husbands sister verbally attacked me on facebook threatening me! I hate to sound racist and good forgive me if I do but it must be a mexican thing because my ex mother in law who was puerto rican was wonderful to me and so was the entire family. I actually miss them:/ to sum it all up, its like you said, they are of low class thus so is there attitude. Enough said!
OMG I can not believe the things I have read on here-- maybe the problem is ignorant; conceited american women who think that once married that their husbands are suppose to forget their families- and they show a complete lack of respect for their mother-in- laws , I love my mother-in-law- she gave me the greatest gift Icould ever imagine .MAYBE the problem is not your in-laws . If you really love your man you might try a little harder to gain your mother-in-laws respect remember to get love and respect you have to give it. and if all else fails leave your husband and find a white guy they are use to being treated like crap by their wives .
karen

Los Osos, CA

#15 Nov 8, 2012
palomitaamorosa wrote:
<quoted text>OMG I can not believe the things I have read on here-- maybe the problem is ignorant; conceited american women who think that once married that their husbands are suppose to forget their families- and they show a complete lack of respect for their mother-in- laws , I love my mother-in-law- she gave me the greatest gift Icould ever imagine .MAYBE the problem is not your in-laws . If you really love your man you might try a little harder to gain your mother-in-laws respect remember to get love and respect you have to give it. and if all else fails leave your husband and find a white guy they are use to being treated like crap by their wives .
you are so ignorant, are you one of those 500# fat white woman, who are needy for any man in there life. you are uneducated and live, think as a fool! mexican mother in laws from mexico are needy, complaining, LAZY, coniving! and dirty!what you say has no truth! everyone knows how jealous they are. how gossip is there main entertainment, when not plopped in front of the t.v on there lazy fat asses. yes when they are not amercanized, and straight from mexico they are too lazy to bathe. they love perfume to hide the odor, from weeks of not taking a shower.they will stab you in the back, watch out.you deserve it though, have fun with the witch, then watch out for her husband, he is a pig too, you see in mexzico everything goes, even screwing all the neighbors. while the dumb ass wife sits on her fat ass and is totally oblivious to whats going on, I know for a fact you never got any nice gift from her.they only are receivers not givers.they are selfish, controlling and unbearable.they will suck the lifes out of there sons.you will never be anything, but a pawn for the mother to play her games.you will have to do everything for her, cause she is too ignorant to even write a check, she is too used to feeding off her sons, she will make them go pay her bill, while she tucks her thousands of saved dollars up her ass, all the time complaining of how poor she is,you will see her stuffing mcdonalds hamburgers down her mouth in a hidden parking lot, while she will complain how she wonders why she is so FAT she barely eats anything, hahaha how dumb you are, who ever you are!oh, and dont get too close to your father in law, he will try to cop a feel, and no one will believe you, he might even do worse, watch your back.why do you see so many mexican familys where the parents came from mexico, and all the sons in this family marry white women? cause they deep down hate the mexican mother. and want something so different from her as they can get. now go dream your ignorance.
palomitaamorosa

United States

#16 Nov 8, 2012
WOW I am really sorry you have such a terrible experience with your in- laws .I am not 500 lbs. nor am I uneducated as you suggest I am just very fortunate to have a wonderful mother-in -law . I did not come into my marriage thinking that I wanted to take her place nor am I willing to give her my place .And you are wrong she did give me a gift for without her I would not have the wonderful man I call my husband .But you do realize there are horrible controlling mother-in-laws of every race. And honestly most mexican women are far from lazy .If you look around that corner at Mcdonalds you are going to see alot of people of every race hiding out stuffing their faces -But honestly why did you marry a Mexican if you are that racist ?
karen

Los Osos, CA

#17 Nov 8, 2012
palomitaamorosa wrote:
WOW I am really sorry you have such a terrible experience with your in- laws .I am not 500 lbs. nor am I unkareneducated as you suggest I am just very fortunate to have a wonderful mother-in -law . I did not come into my marriage thinking that I wanted to take her place nor am I willing to give her my place .And you are wrong she did give me a gift for without her I would not have the wonderful man I call my husband .But you do realize there are horrible controlling mother-in-laws of every race. And honestly most mexican women are far from lazy .If you look around that corner at Mcdonalds you are going to see alot of people of every race hiding out stuffing their faces -But honestly why did you marry a Mexican if you are that racist ?
not racist, not with him any longer either, yes though I do not like mexican illegal women, or men. the women are horribly lazy, dirty, and ignorant.the mexican man will work hard for cash, and send it to his family in mexico, while having many other families and with children from several different women. they are alcoholics,and have no respect. they are eager to drop there pants at any time.they have no loyalty whats so ever.they were brought up to think they could mate and breed when ever the chance comes around.also, they are mostly perverted.liking to stare at young girls.14 and below.now I am talking about the animals that cross the borders, they seem to be uneducated, and perverted, but hey it is your life, if you are with a wetback. mexican men, who have been here for generations are very different. maybe yours is this type.
palomitaamorosa

United States

#18 Nov 8, 2012
WOW I just can not see how you or anyone else can generalize a whole group of people .No not all of them are alcoholics yes some are and some just are not able to drink without acting a fool but again that is every race or am I mistaken .And yes there are a lot who come over here illegally but would you not do everything in your power to feed your children to give them medical care all the things Americans take for granted .Here you get pregnant you get W.I.C. medicaid if you can not afford it ,but in Mexico you do not have money you are on your own .And you talk about men staring at young girls but honestly look at how some of them dress and act . And again it is not only the Mexicans who are staring . I am happy that you have moved on and truly hope you are happy and wish you the very best in you life .And I hope that you will open your heart and mind to accept others .
karen

Los Osos, CA

#19 Nov 8, 2012
palomitaamorosa wrote:
WOW I just can not see how you or anyone else can generalize a whole group of people .No not all of them are alcoholics yes some are and some just are not able to drink without acting a fool but again that is every race or am I mistaken .And yes there are a lot who come over here illegally but would you not do everything in your power to feed your children to give them medical care all the things Americans take for granted .Here you get pregnant you get W.I.C. medicaid if you can not afford it ,but in Mexico you do not have money you are on your own .And you talk about men staring at young girls but honestly look at how some of them dress and act . And again it is not only the Mexicans who are staring . I am happy that you have moved on and truly hope you are happy and wish you the very best in you life .And I hope that you will open your heart and mind to accept others .
nope! dont agree, if they like it so much here they should respect it, not suck it all away.they need to stay in there own country and fix it, if you cant afford children, than use birth control.why should we pay for there breeding problem?
palomitaamorosa

United States

#20 Nov 8, 2012
Honestly even here with the problems we have how can we fix them we are at the mercy of our elected officials and honestly what have they taken from you that would cause a major impact on your life (other than your ex and in-laws lol) I just wish that people would realize that yes there are some inconsiderate jerks here but they are from all over the world not just Mexico but for the most part all Mexicans want to do is work and make a better life for their families and themselves and not bother anyone or to be bothered .

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