My wife is divorcing me ke kopa thuso!

My wife is divorcing me ke kopa thuso!

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Mokoko

Maseru, Lesotho

#1 Feb 12, 2009
We accidentally got married three years back because we had a kid and we were both 23 by then. Now she's telling me that she no longer loves me and she's has already gone to the court. I still love her but I feel like there’s nothing I can do due to the steps she has taken on this issue. I need counselling and ke kopa ba ka tsebang batho ba ka nthusang ka eona ba mpe ba mphe li-contacts tsa bona. Ke tla leboha thuso ea lona Basotho ba heso.

“Meholi ea leka-leka Lithabeng”

Since: Aug 07

Terateng Nokeng ea Monts'oane

#2 Feb 12, 2009
Mokoko wrote:
We accidentally got married three years back because we had a kid and we were both 23 by then. Now she's telling me that she no longer loves me and she's has already gone to the court. I still love her but I feel like there’s nothing I can do due to the steps she has taken on this issue. I need counselling and ke kopa ba ka tsebang batho ba ka nthusang ka eona ba mpe ba mphe li-contacts tsa bona. Ke tla leboha thuso ea lona Basotho ba heso.
Phew, man... its gonna be one of these days man, painful days..... Tough Luck. You really need some serious counselling. If you are in Maseru, there is someone who normally speaks @ PC FM, he can try to handle this job. Good Luck!
Gold Digger

South Africa

#3 Feb 12, 2009
How do accidentaly get married my dear....You knew what you were doing and getting married for anything either than love and wanting to is bound to cause trouble eish Ngoaneso eno ke scenario engoe e mpe hampe nna I dnt belive in Divorce especially if there is a child invloved its healthy for him/her as well....get marital counselling wena and try to work things out that is the only way....you need to take drastic measures to rekindle your love....Nahan dear you know her better than anything so you sit down with her and explain to her the implicationf of her actions maybe she jsut doesnt get it as well at this stage...This is very tricky but talking is always good.....
Sethole

Maseru, Lesotho

#4 Feb 12, 2009
since you got married accidentally u should be be pleased that u are going to be free! ho hlakile hore le ne le sa ratane hore le ka nyalana. SORRY ANYWAY!!!
MOLARANE

Dar Es Salaam, Tanzania, United Republic of

#5 Feb 12, 2009
Mosali o o traumatiza hobaneng? Ngawna moholle motho ya tsebang haholoanyane ka taba tsa lerato ke Tshepiso Sesiwana- ha ke tsebe his contacts (Sello ea tsamaisang naneo la atamelang ho Jehova-LTV a ka li tseba) mosali-moholo ea bitswang Ralebitso (o sebetsa NUL)- ha hae ke Ha-Abia a ka o thusa.
Marapo

Germany

#6 Feb 12, 2009
Mokoko wrote:
We accidentally got married three years back because we had a kid and we were both 23 by then. Now she's telling me that she no longer loves me and she's has already gone to the court. I still love her but I feel like there’s nothing I can do due to the steps she has taken on this issue. I need counselling and ke kopa ba ka tsebang batho ba ka nthusang ka eona ba mpe ba mphe li-contacts tsa bona. Ke tla leboha thuso ea lona Basotho ba heso.
first discussion that needs to take place is asking her why she wants out. maybe you've been thinking everything's fine in your marriage, but your wife thinks not.
then ask her if she'd at least be willing to save your marriage by visiting pair-theraphy. see if that works.
divorce need not be messy. there are people who are divorced but lead happy lives and both take care of their children - even when they are no longer a pair. its called joint custody. joint custody plus good parenthood without marriage.
however talk to your wife about councelling before throwing the marriage away. good luck

“Meholi ea leka-leka Lithabeng”

Since: Aug 07

Terateng Nokeng ea Monts'oane

#7 Feb 12, 2009
Mokoko wrote:
We accidentally got married three years back because we had a kid and we were both 23 by then. Now she's telling me that she no longer loves me and she's has already gone to the court. I still love her but I feel like there’s nothing I can do due to the steps she has taken on this issue. I need counselling and ke kopa ba ka tsebang batho ba ka nthusang ka eona ba mpe ba mphe li-contacts tsa bona. Ke tla leboha thuso ea lona Basotho ba heso.
Keep The Faith Dogg!

“Pere e palesitseng e ea lisoa”

Since: Nov 08

Moo e qhoaeloang

#8 Feb 12, 2009
Nna lia nkimela, but, like someone has said b4- u got married unintentionally, and it's clear someone has been pretending o thabile in the marriage! Be happy hore ebe ha u sa tlo phela in what motho e mong tjena a ka beng a ho bitsitse "fake" happiness!! Gud luck anyway!

“'Meke oa ka ke every man.”

Since: Oct 07

Malumeng Ha 'Mankhala

#9 Feb 12, 2009
hmm ke kila ka fihlela boemo ba hau ngoaneso,ho thata.
Mokoko

Maseru, Lesotho

#10 Feb 12, 2009
Sethole wrote:
since you got married accidentally u should be be pleased that u are going to be free! ho hlakile hore le ne le sa ratane hore le ka nyalana. SORRY ANYWAY!!!
By getting married accidentally I mean we were both not ready for marriage at that time but we compromised just because we loved each other. I don't think I'm gonna be free ngwaneso hobane since then we have been happily married. Our problems started in October 2008 ka lebaka la motho eo a mo bitsang mokhotsi oa hae oa monna ea neng a mo felehetsa almost everyday ha tsoa mosebetsing feela ba sebetsa libakeng tse arohaneng haholo.

“Keo toeba!!”

Since: Aug 08

Tloekoeng Quthing

#11 Feb 12, 2009
Mokoko wrote:
We accidentally got married three years back because we had a kid and we were both 23 by then. Now she's telling me that she no longer loves me and she's has already gone to the court. I still love her but I feel like there’s nothing I can do due to the steps she has taken on this issue. I need counselling and ke kopa ba ka tsebang batho ba ka nthusang ka eona ba mpe ba mphe li-contacts tsa bona. Ke tla leboha thuso ea lona Basotho ba heso.
Mokoko moshana oa fatsé la heso, kopana le litsibi tsa ho theola maikutlo, empa don't expect any miracles from them, you need to make a decision and make it quick my man.She has made her intentions very clear to you, so don't even contest that case just play along and sooner you will be looking back and loughing at the situation not her and saying "moer ke ne ke koahetsoe ke mofuthu oa kuku"
Be strong and move on with your life,
Makoa Lata

Lesotho

#12 Feb 12, 2009
Is said that when one door closes, another one opens. And in your case as your marriage was unintended, then another door is opening for the better. There's a whole ocean-wide horde of people out there who will love and appreciate you for who you are.
Divorce is NOT the end of the world. Be strong and move on.
Mochaochele

Maseru, Lesotho

#13 Feb 12, 2009
Mokoko wrote:
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By getting married accidentally I mean we were both not ready for marriage at that time but we compromised just because we loved each other. I don't think I'm gonna be free ngwaneso hobane since then we have been happily married. Our problems started in October 2008 ka lebaka la motho eo a mo bitsang mokhotsi oa hae oa monna ea neng a mo felehetsa almost everyday ha tsoa mosebetsing feela ba sebetsa libakeng tse arohaneng haholo.
Ngoana enoa oa batho kea mo imetsa empa ke mo ts'epela hore a ka u thusa, bua le [email protected]

“HA E TLALE TERENE!”

Since: Dec 08

Sehlabeng,Thuathe!

#14 Feb 12, 2009
Mokoko wrote:
We accidentally got married three years back because we had a kid and we were both 23 by then. Now she's telling me that she no longer loves me and she's has already gone to the court. I still love her but I feel like there’s nothing I can do due to the steps she has taken on this issue. I need counselling and ke kopa ba ka tsebang batho ba ka nthusang ka eona ba mpe ba mphe li-contacts tsa bona. Ke tla leboha thuso ea lona Basotho ba heso.
In the 1st place, I think you married for the wrong reason (accidentally having a baby ), so ha ke ea makala.
Nko li Opa

Lesotho

#16 Feb 12, 2009
Mokoko wrote:
We accidentally got married three years back because we had a kid and we were both 23 by then. Now she's telling me that she no longer loves me and she's has already gone to the court. I still love her but I feel like there’s nothing I can do due to the steps she has taken on this issue. I need counselling and ke kopa ba ka tsebang batho ba ka nthusang ka eona ba mpe ba mphe li-contacts tsa bona. Ke tla leboha thuso ea lona Basotho ba heso.
It is not your fault that she has gone to the courts, she simply does not love you anymore. What a blessing in disguise,...imagine if she were to pretend to love you for the rest of your lives...would you be O.K. with that? Me thinks not.

Dust yourself off and ... on.

Ha u'a hlaha manaka ebile, you are no lesser of a man now.

God bless
Change

South Africa

#17 Feb 12, 2009
Mokoko wrote:
We accidentally got married three years back because we had a kid and we were both 23 by then. Now she's telling me that she no longer loves me and she's has already gone to the court. I still love her but I feel like there’s nothing I can do due to the steps she has taken on this issue. I need counselling and ke kopa ba ka tsebang batho ba ka nthusang ka eona ba mpe ba mphe li-contacts tsa bona. Ke tla leboha thuso ea lona Basotho ba heso.
Ke Tsepiso Sesioana 22 31 2681 5885 0686 good luck.

“I LOVE ME SOME HIM!!”

Since: Jun 08

Location hidden

#18 Feb 12, 2009
Mokoko wrote:
We accidentally got married three years back because we had a kid and we were both 23 by then. Now she's telling me that she no longer loves me and she's has already gone to the court. I still love her but I feel like there’s nothing I can do due to the steps she has taken on this issue. I need counselling and ke kopa ba ka tsebang batho ba ka nthusang ka eona ba mpe ba mphe li-contacts tsa bona. Ke tla leboha thuso ea lona Basotho ba heso.
kea kholoa ompa o tsosoa ke taba ea hore o divorsa o le lemong tse tlaase haholo.dont worry,ngoana will keep ur surname & o tlanno mmone...dont worry o tla thola motho ngoaneso...
Mokoko

Maseru, Lesotho

#19 Feb 12, 2009
Change wrote:
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Ke Tsepiso Sesioana 22 31 2681 5885 0686 good luck.
Thanks lot Change!
Used car

Maseru, Lesotho

#20 Feb 13, 2009
Mokoko wrote:
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Thanks lot Change!
E ngoe ke 62700000.
Ho tla loka ngoaneso ,le rona re ile ra hlaloa ha se uena feela.Move on abuti.
mathe a bolila

Maseru, Lesotho

#21 Feb 13, 2009
butle pele ke o eletse, kamehla hao o bua ka ho nyala hoa hao o se kare o nyetse accidentally oa utloa nfetho?Ha mosali a o hlala ha ho bothata moo moshana heso,joale ntho eo o tlamehang ho etsa ke ho phetha tokelo tsa hao holima ngoana oa hao.Rata ngoana hao o tlohele letekatse le nyoke seterata,se seholo ha hona moo se fellang,o tla pota o tla khutla oena o se o tsoetsepele bophelong.O sa le monyane haholo bakeng sa ho touta ka manyalo boy tsoa moo1

feela monna!?"MOSICHE"o oa e tseba ntho eo!

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