tudy: Type of birth delivery can affect sex life

[Space1]

Typo: *She= *he went to a salon...

[TamoraRose]

Space1 wrote:

Typo:*She=*he went to a salon...

L0L!!

That sentence made more sense when it was "she went to a salon..." Most of the other sentences were much harder to understand.

[Space1]

TamoraRose wrote:

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L0L!!
That sentence made more sense when it was "she went to a salon..." Most of the other sentences were much harder to understand.

No,it was he not she who went to a salon.

He went to a salon and met a woman and started dating her. When they were having sex,he found out that she is good on kegel exercise. Meaning,she can keep herself tight at any time.

The rest of the post if too hard to understand,don't read so it won't give you a head ache.

[The Cougar]

Space1 wrote:

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They said they used to have a great sex lives until the delivery. After that their sex lives went down hill and they kept on fighting over anything.
I told her,maybe kegel can help. She didn't know how to do it and had no patience to learn it.
She ended up leaving him and took off with other man. The hubby started sleeping around other woman. She went to a salon and encountered a woman who is so good of kegel exercise.
These couple got back with each other again for their kids sake but the more the hubby can tell the difference after he tasted other woman's tight one. The wife couldn't stand the insult anymore. The hubby said,he have no respect to her after leaving him for other man. They got divorced.
These people are too moronic to me. They both held a good jobs but just because no insurance would cover the vaginal surgery as it is considered as cosmetic surgery then they decided to just let their marriage go rather than save money or loan money to have it done that could save their marriage.

Thanks for the FYI,

that stinks that the insurance would not pay for something that is effecting quality of ones life.

I'm sure if it was male related it would be a different story.

Ok enough of the male bashing lol.

[The Cougar]

OhWellSchitHappens wrote:

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Her hubby could've flipped her over.

Ouch! lol

[Space1]

OhWellSchitHappens wrote:

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Her hubby could've flipped her over.

They probably did that,too. But the man still wanted a tight thwat.

[Space1]

The Cougar wrote:

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Thanks for the FYI,
that stinks that the insurance would not pay for something that is effecting quality of ones life.
I'm sure if it was male related it would be a different story.
Ok enough of the male bashing lol.

You are welcome.

I know that is really stink when the insurance won't cover what could save the marriage. I wonder if she is a not a great bj giver. If she is,I doubt her hubby would trade her for anybody.

[Space1]

Toshia wrote:

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I don't think I know any good obstetricians. All the ones I know do very few vaginal births and then only if they can't talk mom into a cesarean for her "health"

C-section is needed if there is a complication involve delivering a child. Other than that,as long as the vagina would dilate right,the baby should be delivered vaginally.

Some obstetrician/gynecologist would rather cut the tummy for more money to their pockets. But if the patient has no insurance and no guaranteed money in the wallet,you can see how fast the doctor would suggest a normal delivery. He would still do the c-section if the mother and the child is in danger to avoid the lawsuit.

I have c-section with my first born because of complications. It was induced labor first then epidural then c-section. The second one was supposed to be vaginally but I didn't dilate and my blood pressure was going high on me again a week before the due date so the doctor was forced to cut me.

After c-section,there was more complication,I hemorrhage bad and almost died. My doctor and my hubby can no longer handle the pressure of risking my life on operating table so I got ligated for life.

[Space1]

The Cougar wrote:

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You make some good points,I also did vaginal excercises and at 48 I am as tight as I was at 18.

I do kegel exercise. I am married for almost 18 years and my hubby said I feel like a virgin.

[Pamela in red]

jjj wrote:

just out of curiosity, is it good for a lady to do these b4 she has kids? what are they called?
kirgles or somthing?

lol They are called Kegel exercises named after a person that discovered them. It's the same muscles you use to stop the flow of urine.

[Alpha Omega Game]

Pamela in red wrote:

This is so stupid. Women have had vaginal deliveries since the beginning of time without any problems.
This is just another excuse to not have sex. I had two babies without any problems.
It doesn't stretch you out either. I'm still a snug fit.
There is a longer recovery time with C section and you have a scar.

Some women get riped during child birth and require sticthes.

I always wondered how a woman knows how tight she is?

[Ivory Dove]

The Cougar wrote:

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Wow,
You are the first person I have heard of to have a vaginal delivery after C-Sections.
I wonder if that could have been the problem?Have you tried Kegels for the incontinence?
You are one of the few who can speak about both types of deliveries.

You should read the eye opening findings of both
Nancy Cohan and Diana Korte. There are plenty of
women who've had babies at home after C-Sections
and who are glad they did.

[Space1]

Space1 wrote:

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I do kegel exercise. I am married for almost 18 years and my hubby said I feel like a virgin.

Hey,what's funny about me feeling like a virgin. Haven't you tried a kegel expert yet? She can grind you alive and spit you out like a tobacco.

[Pamela in red]

Alpha Omega Game wrote:

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Some women get riped during child birth and require sticthes.
I always wondered how a woman knows how tight she is?

If you rip they stitch you up.

We can feel how snug the fit is. Probably not as good a judge as a man would be but we can tell.