why do Iranian women get mad at Persian men who date foreign girls?

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Pishi Joon

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Farhad wrote:
"why do Iranian women get mad at Persian men who date foreign girls?"
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How come you have the guts to pop the question on this faceless and shallow site, but not face to face with the "Persian" girl with "that" kind of views?
Let me tell you why, because she would destroy you intellectually!
The western culture has got nothing but pain written all over it. Start reading history before you fools start uttering words you have no appreciation for.
I would also like to turn the tables and put a few questions to you: How come the divorce rates in the western world is 50%+? Major depression issues, massive addiction issues, infidelity, child abuse etc ?
I can also give you the answer to the above. It's because your culture is shallower than shallow, period!!!! There is no meaning to the western culture but SHOPPING and consumption, NOTHING!!!
Your superficial attributes are now being injected to China, India and all other Tiger economies. So may God be with them too.
You as a westerner should look yourself in the mirror first before having a go at another nation's population. You should also be ashamed of yourselves that you let your parents rot to death by not taking care of them when they need you the most. You see, your culture have so many flaws that one doesn't know where to begin.
....now you can go back to your daily routine....watching TV or getting drunk to forget the realities of this world!!
So long
Farhad (Proud being Iranian!)
Farhad Jan,(The Proud Persian)
What rock did you just come out from under? Donít act like there isnít mental illness, prostitution or drug abuse among the Iranian communities inside and outside of Iran!!! Do you even know the divorce rate in Iran or in the American Iranian community? I bet you will be shocked to see that one! Perhaps you should look up the statistics before you start dishing out the nationalistic BS! Do you actually have the gall, to lead us to believe that Iranian men and woman donít cheat? I worked with an Iranian girl who decided her IRANIAN boyfriend wasnít hot enough, nor educated enough for her, because her American friends told her this, so what does she do? She convinces him to get a high paying job out west and then dumps him for a Kurdish guy, and now she is with an American man! The same girl likes to go out and get drunk as well, just like many Iranian girls, in the west. Plenty of Iranian divorces happen because the man cheats!! You act like the original poster was attacking Iranian woman! You should see how some Iranian woman act towards a hybrid Iranian and Western relationship. Shall we talk about values, we all know that Westerners arenít always as conservative as Eastern countries, but how many times have I seen Iranian parents proudly marry their 20 something year old daughter to a 45 + year old doctor, simply for the status and economic factors. Do you actually believe the couple would have things in common, other than being Iranian? Do you think an Iranian woman canít destroy you either, go ahead divorce one and when her ameu Amir,(the attorney) takes you for everything you have, and youíre driving around in a Honda Civic, while she is in her M5, youíll think twice. My Iranian husbandís mother, used to talk so poorly of her own sister, her sonís Iranian wife and pretty much everyone, and that isnít something I would do! Not every American puts their parents in a nursing home, I know I wouldnít, but then not every Iranian marries their daughter off to the highest bidder, or dislikes Western woman with Iranian men! I love Iranian culture, but the arrogance and nationalistic bs, is nothing less than BS! And what you were spewing at us was lies!! Proud American, who loves Iranian culture..
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Farhad wrote:
"why do Iranian women get mad at Persian men who date foreign girls?"
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How come you have the guts to pop the question on this faceless and shallow site, but not face to face with the "Persian" girl with "that" kind of views?
Let me tell you why, because she would destroy you intellectually!
The western culture has got nothing but pain written all over it. Start reading history before you fools start uttering words you have no appreciation for.
I would also like to turn the tables and put a few questions to you: How come the divorce rates in the western world is 50%+? Major depression issues, massive addiction issues, infidelity, child abuse etc ?
I can also give you the answer to the above. It's because your culture is shallower than shallow, period!!!! There is no meaning to the western culture but SHOPPING and consumption, NOTHING!!!
Your superficial attributes are now being injected to China, India and all other Tiger economies. So may God be with them too.
You as a westerner should look yourself in the mirror first before having a go at another nation's population. You should also be ashamed of yourselves that you let your parents rot to death by not taking care of them when they need you the most. You see, your culture have so many flaws that one doesn't know where to begin.
....now you can go back to your daily routine....watching TV or getting drunk to forget the realities of this world!!
So long
Farhad (Proud being Iranian!)
First of all, why is it ok for you to judge American and Western culture but it is not ok for people to judge Persian culture?? That is quite hypocritical of you. Addiction is a problem among the whole world including very much so in Iran. And,this is obvious since even though people know that they could be hanged for drug trafficking they still do it. The punishment here in Canada and America is not as serious. You think opium isn't a problem in Iran? Read this: "According to the U.N. World Drug Report for 2005, Iran has the highest proportion of opiate addicts in the world -- 2.8 percent of the population over age 15. Only two other countries -- Mauritius and Kyrgyzstan -- pass the 2 percent mark. With a population of about 70 million and some government agencies putting the number of regular users close to 4 million, Iran has no real competition as world leader in per capita addiction to opiates, including heroin." Why do people do these drugs? Most likely because they are depressed. So what you are saying makes no sense at all. With all those people addicted to Opium and Heroin there is of course going to be tons of people who are depressed and
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A lot of people in Iran can't get divorced. Why do you think women have killed their husbands in order to be with who they truly love? Because divorce is probably not an option. And the men probably can't afford the money they owe after divorce which is why women are forced to stay in the marriage. Obviously divorce rates would be lower in Iran.

A lot of the Western population is shallow but so are a lot of Iranians. Get your head out of your ass. I love Persian culture and I'm not even Persian. I get stared at once in a while when I'm with my bf and I'm sure many other non-Persians do so that is why the question was asked. There is nothing wrong with being proud of who you are and your culture but it shouldn't be done by putting down others. And Westerner's should have the right to be proud of who they are too.
Pishi Joon

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stareh wrote:
most persian man that date non persian women cant get a persian women .... persian women dont just get with anyone that happens to look at them unlike most white women from US... most american women act like man they have no idea how to be a women... and everyone american women give it up to anyone or anything its just nasty.... most persian man that get with american women have issues that persian women will not deal with like drug or alcohol problems for american women those things are normal cause they do drugs and drink alcohol as much as a drug addict man.... and that's the truth ....
LOL!!! did you choke on some Tadig and suffer from a lack of O2 to the brain? Do you really believe what you are saying? Plenty of Iranian women are getting hymen replacement surgeries, or finding other ways to avoid Iranians men finding out what they have been doing prior to marriage. Lets see how beautiful you would be if you still had your old nose!!! lol. The only nasty thing I see is your attitude! You are not superior than Western woman simply because you can make Gormeh Sabze and have all your decisions made by baba. If the west was run by Khomeini, our behavior would be similar to yours, but of course you like to tell yourself that your "Chastity" is of free will!!! Ok Khoshgel.. keep telling yourself that!!
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Jan 6, 2013
 
Im a English female,i think the American's are strange anyway. Why anyone from a different country would want to date them i do not know?. You say Persian women are ugly and stuck up? So are the americans you have no sense of humour and are very wierd. Persian women are pretty. And you are dating a persian men but then call persian women lol, you are just jealous.
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There are great people from both the Persian race and the Western (American, Canadian,etc.) race. No one is better than the other. Stop fucking generalizing people. I'm proud to be Canadian. I deserve the right to be proud of who I am. Just because I am from the West does not mean I'm stuck up or shallow. Nor does it mean that because someone is Persian they are cheap and high maintenance. I could dish out Iranian stereotypes too but that's not what I believe. There are ugly,shallow and stuck up Iranians and the same goes for Americans, etc. So what is the point in comparing? It's all the same shit. Frankly it should be an honour that the Western culture likes dating different cultures like Persians. Otherwise I would be completely ignorant of Persian culture. I think it's awesome to see different races and cultures together.

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Kez wrote:
Im a English female,i think the American's are strange anyway. Why anyone from a different country would want to date them i do not know?. You say Persian women are ugly and stuck up? So are the americans you have no sense of humour and are very wierd. Persian women are pretty. And you are dating a persian men but then call persian women lol, you are just jealous.
If you are going to insult American woman, at least be educated enough to use the English language properly, considering that is your first language, but you are probably Iranian. What a hypocrite! If you want to see weird and extremely rude people, take a trip to Turkey next summer and see how your people act on their holiday (vacation). The people of the UK are not always as refined as they like to think they are! Around the world you guys are known for being pretty arrogant and most Iranian woman wouldnít want you dating their men either, so get your head out of your rear end. Personally, donít think Iranian woman are ugly, but a lot are stuck up, most have nose jobs, and doubt most Iranians would deny this either. If you read the comments before you comment with garbage, you would understand that the original poster was only asking a question, not criticizing. Considering that you canít spell or use the English language properly, I would be inclined to assume that you are either Iranian or just extremely uneducated!
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Lini wrote:
Iranian women rule! Ahhh u say Persian men wants a sexy lady hi can cook and clean ? Ah so how come my Persian hubby chose me? Cause I'm a curvy girl hu can't cook n cleans a lil! Lol n I haven't seen hairy middle eastern girls cause maybe they covering their bodies all the time! Haha I'm glad I met this Persian guy..love him to bits
Unfortunately, refugees are generally of low social class in Iran (except for those who have real political issues). They are generally poor uneducated and truly stupid!! I am so sorry that you married him :)). I think that your man is a poor desperate refugee that no Persian girl pays attention to :D. He deserves to marry you of course!!!!... I am so sorry for you girl :D
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Pork chop wrote:
They are really hairy like a monkey
( have monkey half man that's what they r
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Interesting wrote:
Anthropology books describe Iranian faces as the most perfect formed in all humanity.
So, Persianas are the prettiestwith best formed lovely faces.
My girlfriend is of iranian decent and like most of the women there ... She has a unique and beautiful face... Her parents are from Iran and although strict by American standards... They've accepted me because I treat them all with respect and kindness ... No matter where you're from .. Humans respond well to things like that
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Lisa wrote:
There are great people from both the Persian race and the Western (American, Canadian,etc.) race. No one is better than the other. Stop fucking generalizing people. I'm proud to be Canadian. I deserve the right to be proud of who I am. Just because I am from the West does not mean I'm stuck up or shallow. Nor does it mean that because someone is Persian they are cheap and high maintenance. I could dish out Iranian stereotypes too but that's not what I believe. There are ugly,shallow and stuck up Iranians and the same goes for Americans, etc. So what is the point in comparing? It's all the same shit. Frankly it should be an honour that the Western culture likes dating different cultures like Persians. Otherwise I would be completely ignorant of Persian culture. I think it's awesome to see different races and cultures together.
The world is filled with all types of people... Good, bad, weird, ugly, beautiful ... No matter what race or nationality ... These people exist... We don't all support our governments which is where our problems with each other usually stem from. If it wasn't for America allowing people from all over the world to live here... I would have never met the most amazing woman I've ever met. You should all stop being so stupid in your assumptions about other people in the world... None of us chose where we would be born... But we choose how we behave towards others
Pleace for all

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All women in the world seem to be mad almost all the time for one reason or the other or no reason at all.

Why create false and pretended reasoning. Just wait and wish she has good mood moments for me or you and that will be great.

Even white, brown or blacks-- all feel grouchy most times. Don't bring in false blames or reasons.Persianas are the same as all other women and cannot be different. It is the humanity at large.
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I know why persianboys are talking like that about persian girls because the know that beautiful and smart persian girl will never date with persian playboys and she will leave him for other nations to be used... hahaha...
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Pizdets wrote:
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Who are "Aghan" women?:)))
pure non sense , Iranian women are far better looking than those nasty white blonde women with flat ass
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Feb 2, 2013
 
Melissa wrote:
Because they're jealous. Iranian women are very jealous of American girls.
That's hilarious... believe what you want to believe, if that's what floats your boat xD

Amricieh koon nashoor xD
Boro baba jendeh, boro beh zendigeet beres.
Fekr mikoni mah hasoodi mikoneem? Na khayr.
Chon to deri az irooniah koonet misoozeh, fekreh bikhodaki mikoni keh masalan irooniah hasoodi mikonan az amriciaheh kos khol.
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Feb 3, 2013
 
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That's hilarious... believe what you want to believe, if that's what floats your boat xD
Amricieh koon nashoor xD
Boro baba jendeh, boro beh zendigeet beres.
Fekr mikoni mah hasoodi mikoneem? Na khayr.
Chon to deri az irooniah koonet misoozeh, fekreh bikhodaki mikoni keh masalan irooniah hasoodi mikonan az amriciaheh kos khol.
I'm a Canadian but why insult a whole race of people (American or Canadian)? And this goes for the others too.

Man fekreh tu Madar gendeh

Watch what you're saying. No one wants to be insulted whether in English or in Persian. I like everyone as long as they're nice to me and respect others, and other races.
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Feb 3, 2013
 
Amira wrote:
I can tell you Persian women are gorgeous! So are Arab women. Better than your American girls!!!
SORRY but I'm American and look just as good if not better.
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#115
Feb 3, 2013
 
I was with an iranian man for 12 years I am a white lady whose family is from the royal class in canada. He told me he would never marry an iranian girl, on his deathbed. After we brokeup he was single for a few years then he married a chinese woman from peru, not sure how that is working out as chinese only marry for money usually and cant seem to get enough of it. Also they take their family advise over his opinion. Also he is like a prisoner when married to a chinese woman- its HER house and if he goes out without her he has to be back at a certain time etc..........he had it made with me and my family..............
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Lol wrote:
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That's hilarious... believe what you want to believe, if that's what floats your boat xD
Amricieh koon nashoor xD
Boro baba jendeh, boro beh zendigeet beres.
Fekr mikoni mah hasoodi mikoneem? Na khayr.
Chon to deri az irooniah koonet misoozeh, fekreh bikhodaki mikoni keh masalan irooniah hasoodi mikonan az amriciaheh kos khol.
I might not be able to use Farsi correctly. But I can still understand a few swear words here and there. What I'm saying is don't assume that we can't understand anything you say. I don't know why people are even arguing here. These American girls that say that Persian girls are just jealous must be jealous themselves as well. But that does not reflect all Americans. A lot of Americans are fat but a lot of them are skinny too. It's the same concept for all people.
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Feb 4, 2013
 
Jan wrote:
well Im a beautiful white woman who is canadian and I think white women are the most beautiful in the world. We are the most sought after women and have been for centuries........thats why other races women are jealous of some of us........
LMFAO

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you are right spot on mate, you actually highlighted the biggest problem with persian ladies.
yes they are never honest, for some reason they lie about anything, even for small things that doesnt really matter in life but they still prefer to lie. i have dated 3 persian ladies and they were all the same and i could see from her friends too. they just dont make any sense, they live in their little baloon and try to carry on a dream life. persian girls in UK usually dont have the sense of the reality
They aren't liars, they have a strong need to "save face", it's cultural, don't just paint a whole nation with one tar brush if you don't understand it, I have a ton of Persian girl friends and when they tell something not true to a male, they have a reason. Why brand them as "liars" because you are looking at them from your cultural expectations?

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