You can't really make a true comparison between having a relationship and cheating on your spouse, you know. Having a girl/boyfriend is simply a step in a relationship after friendship, and before commitment. Besides, cheaters don't define the rest of the world's population that has a girl/boyfriend. And who said that having a relationship before marriage always includes sex? Maybe people cuddle, maybe people do heavy petting, maybe people just kiss, and others are celibate before marriage.<quoted text>
Ask these generals and these business tycoons what is wrong with having a Girl friend?
Why they have been asked to resign instead of keeping their head high and justifying their stand?
When you have sex and relationship outside marriage bond, you commit a double crime.
First you cheat on your wife giving her right to others…second you cheat on your so called girl friend, by just enjoying her person and not taking any responsibility for the consequences.
The best was is the Islamic way, where there is no sexual connection outside the bond of marriage and free mixing of sexes is curtailed.
Islam's is the only pure and harmless society in which both men and women can enjoy their time and company, both amongst their friends.
To keep fire and fuel apart is the best practice as any fireman would tell you.
Is it not?
It's not the concept of a relationship that is bad, it's stupid people who don't know how to commit. That's what cheating is. Dating is a healthy social concept. In fact, my second steady girlfriend is now my wife and we have two lovely children together~
PS -- stuff can spontaneously combust anyways. Trust me on this. This happened to one of my compost piles because we hadn't aerated it properly.