Dating a Haitian man??????

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Tandie

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#109
Mar 9, 2013
 
Chrissy wrote:
Well I know my haitian bf loves me but the three times we did break up over three years he can't let me go. He says he wants to be with me and marry me after i graduate graduate school but he is controlling, he keeps tabs on me, he is very jealous and he HATES WHEN I ASK HIM QUESTIONS. he is also very conceited. All that being said he is randomly romantic, he loves to travel just as I do, he doesn't mind getting me anything I want, he can be to sarcastic at times but he does make me laugh and smile!! It's been three years and I still can't figure him out 0_O
Im going through the same thing, what did you do?lol
Arlene

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#110
Mar 11, 2013
 
My sis, you have a 50/50 relationship, how u can't ask him a question, what will make him change 4 the better when u all marry?? maybe he's cheating, don't put anything pass men, all the best
Shawna

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#111
Mar 11, 2013
 

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I have haitian women as friends that warned me to stay away frim haitian men because they are not to be trusted, jealous, play mind games and turn on you once they have charmed you out of your panties but no..i didnt listen..decided to date one for myself...bad bad bad mistake. He turned out to be everything my friends warned me about. I dont know how I got so caught up with this idiot. It took alot of praying and crying out to God to break loose. Im not saying that all haitian men are this way because I am not that narrow minded however I only heard that they all are that way.from your own haitian women! Dont get mad at me im just.the messenger!
Sexy Slim

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Mar 15, 2013
 

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Mrs Fontus wrote:
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Not true, I'm married to a Haitian man and he had his American citizenship before we met. By the way, we married on the beautiful Island of Barbados and my husband is a wonderful man. There is good and bad in all people no matter what your nationality/culture. I'm Cuban & African American so there you go.. To each it's own!!
Of course, he loves u...ur 'mixed' and 'lightskin' or what they call u (gremile)...Honey, get over urself, that Haitian man used u to make himself 'look good'...trust me, they are as 'color struck' as many AA's...don't make urself feel 'special' hun, I wouldn't want to be w/a man who uses me as an object...sorry
notsosexy

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#113
Mar 16, 2013
 

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you sound pretty angry. Like AA women dogging out brothers for dating a whit woman. Look in the mirror.

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#114
Mar 16, 2013
 
Shawna wrote:
I have haitian women as friends that warned me to stay away frim haitian men because they are not to be trusted, jealous, play mind games and turn on you once they have charmed you out of your panties but no..i didnt listen..decided to date one for myself...bad bad bad mistake. He turned out to be everything my friends warned me about. I dont know how I got so caught up with this idiot. It took alot of praying and crying out to God to break loose. Im not saying that all haitian men are this way because I am not that narrow minded however I only heard that they all are that way.from your own haitian women! Dont get mad at me im just.the messenger!
I will let you know as a haitian myself. All caribbean men are this way, well not all because I mean we have the "few" that are not players and suchh but every type of island man it's the same thing. That's why I prefer african guys.
Shawna

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#115
Mar 17, 2013
 
Emprezz wrote:
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I will let you know as a haitian myself. All caribbean men are this way, well not all because I mean we have the "few" that are not players and suchh but every type of island man it's the same thing. That's why I prefer african guys.


Well, I have dated several carribbean men ..some good, some bad but this haitian man really worked every last one of my nerves. I think its safe to say that regardless of where they are from you will find good and bad..sometimes the bad ones give all a bad reputation which is unfair but thats how black people have always been stereotyped. Anyway, I dated a African man briefly but he left the country on business and was not able to come back to the US ..paperwork wasnt right. But he was a terrific guy and we still keep in touch after 10 yrs of not seeing one another. He is living in London now but the distance is a major problem. Anyway, I am still waiting for the right one to come along. I believe God will send him my way someday..Until then Im just living life as happy as I can be and still trying to get this haitian man off my back lol..but as a friend he is cool, but as a lover all I can say is he aint ready for that!
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#116
Mar 17, 2013
 
notsosexy wrote:
you sound pretty angry. Like AA women dogging out brothers for dating a whit woman. Look in the mirror.
Angry? Where did u get that from? Did u see me 'calling names' to anyone? Funny, how u jumped to conclusions about someone else's comments or demeanor for that matter! Expand ur mind sweetie! Maybe U should look in the mirror!
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#117
Mar 18, 2013
 
all haitians are not like that why dont yall get your D*cks out yo asses and stop being so damn ignorant
BellaNagua

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#118
Mar 18, 2013
 
fck yall wrote:
all haitians are not like that why dont yall get your D*cks out yo asses and stop being so damn ignorant
I just quoted the ignorant one. Your comment shows the ignorance. LOL.
wino

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#119
Mar 18, 2013
 
Some of you might have had not so pleasant experience in my opinion and experience Haitian woman are twice the trouble...
Kristina

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#120
Mar 19, 2013
 
I bee reading your comments and i believe they are completely wrong! I have been dating a Haitian and he is the complete opposite of most. He is sweet, caring, not only takes care of me but my family and friends. he loves making me happy and the people around. i'm having a child with another man he openly accepted me and child. one thing i can say about this Haitian man is that he is the best relationship i have ever had!!!(american men could take notes)

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#121
Mar 22, 2013
 
My daughter is 19 will be 20 in September she is dating a Haitian man who just turn 24 there both students in Miami, Florida I have read so much negativity about Haitian men should I be concerned?
BabyGirl

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#122
Mar 23, 2013
 
hari67 wrote:
Here you go again......most Haitian do not date American woman except for convenience or green card good luck
... That's a lie I know a lot of Haitians and and Haitians that live in Haiti as I'm typing right now and they love themselves some thick American women trust me I know
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#123
Mar 25, 2013
 
I disagree there is a small Haitian jaspora in los Angeles all but one that i know is with an American black woman most usually date latinas or caucasian i go to haiti once a year and i have never met a couple ...by looking at them thick girls in those music videos sure i would want one too ..
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#124
Mar 25, 2013
 
BabyGirl wrote:
<quoted text> ... That's a lie I know a lot of Haitians and and Haitians that live in Haiti as I'm typing right now and they love themselves some thick American women trust me I know
again for a green card hookup..I'm a man i know what quality we are looking for an African American women is totally the opposite..
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#125
Mar 27, 2013
 
Haitian men, like any other men are good and bad. You find a good Haitian man, you have a partner for life. An educated Haitian man will be proud of his partner and help her excel. Similar to a Haitian man who is uneducated. If he sees that his partner possesses more intelligence than himself he will help her to excel as well. They are great fathers who love their children and will make sacrifices for them. They respect their parents and love yours just as much. They are excellent lovers, having you wanting more and feeling satisfied. They love their music, culture and country. They have high self-esteem. They like to look neat. They like to live comfortably and will make the sacrifice to reach their goal.
Conversely, a bad Haitian man will do the total opposite. It is for you to be sophisticated enough to know when "you're being taken for a ride"
carol

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#126
Mar 27, 2013
 
@shawana i agree with u 100% about being warn about haiti man goin thru it now am jus stuck cause am pregnant for this fool
wino

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#127
Apr 1, 2013
 
carol wrote:
@shawana i agree with u 100% about being warn about haiti man goin thru it now am jus stuck cause am pregnant for this fool
abortion.adoption. Drop off at the fire station why having a kid with a fool...
madam kat

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#129
Apr 3, 2013
 
Im Puertorican my husband is Haitian we been together for 16 years not jealous, not controlling not abusive . Our relationship is based in trust ,love, and respect but above all this communication. We have a 13 year son and has help me raise my 17 year daughter when her real father never once did. Not all men are the same no matter where they come from good luck!

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