How are Salvadorian Men different from "American" Men?

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#69
Jul 16, 2012
 
Badtothebone wrote:
American men have balls.
SIKE XD!!!
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#70
Aug 21, 2012
 
I date an el salvadorean. I live with him. He pulls my hair when i am disrespectful. He has a secret life he will not tell me about. I am from america. Totally white. And he has been here two years. I get jealous when he drinks and hang out with guys. Only because i am not allowed to hang out with my friends. I believe he is over protective over me. Or jealous. I am not sure. I am confused. Our sex is great.
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#71
Aug 22, 2012
 
bluemist rocks wrote:
american men are hotter and more handsome and rocher than my mom who is a savage <3
their only hotter than your mom
Nikita

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#72
Sep 7, 2012
 
El salvadorian man is the most romantic, sexual, sexiest man of all man kind!
no comprende

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#73
Nov 7, 2012
 
Had been friends with a Salvadorian man for about two years. We always had an unspoken attraction and were affectionate with one another when we would see each other. One evening we got romantic and it seemed we both enjoyed the encounter quite a bit . The next day I sent him a message and he didn't want to talk. The second day I attempted to contact him he told me he was not my BOYFRIEND and leave him alone. I was dumbfounded! He went on to call me crazy and was just very mean. It hurt me deeply. A couple months went by, I visited him and asked if we could ever restore our friendship. Yes and let's not talk about the past. A week later I was helping with some work he needed done and he started having an attitude again. When I asked if he was OK with us being friends again, he said you text me too much (???) and and go away. Confused, I asked for an explanation. No answer. I exposed my desire to meet and talk about whatever was bothering him and he has refused, telling me to go away and insulting me add a mother and friend. I just do not understand this behavior and truly have no idea what I could have possibly done to offend this man. I am 13 years his elder and figure he's just immature and doesn't know how to handle conflict. That x2 since I don't speak Spanish and his English seems OK but I'm not sure he really understands add much as he lets on.
I value friendship and it has made me quite sad to know I was unable to gain some kind of closure for this relationship.
Any obvious comment or ideas?
Kevin

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#74
Nov 8, 2012
 
no comprende wrote:
Had been friends with a Salvadorian man for about two years. We always had an unspoken attraction and were affectionate with one another when we would see each other. One evening we got romantic and it seemed we both enjoyed the encounter quite a bit . The next day I sent him a message and he didn't want to talk. The second day I attempted to contact him he told me he was not my BOYFRIEND and leave him alone. I was dumbfounded! He went on to call me crazy and was just very mean. It hurt me deeply. A couple months went by, I visited him and asked if we could ever restore our friendship. Yes and let's not talk about the past. A week later I was helping with some work he needed done and he started having an attitude again. When I asked if he was OK with us being friends again, he said you text me too much (???) and and go away. Confused, I asked for an explanation. No answer. I exposed my desire to meet and talk about whatever was bothering him and he has refused, telling me to go away and insulting me add a mother and friend. I just do not understand this behavior and truly have no idea what I could have possibly done to offend this man. I am 13 years his elder and figure he's just immature and doesn't know how to handle conflict. That x2 since I don't speak Spanish and his English seems OK but I'm not sure he really understands add much as he lets on.
I value friendship and it has made me quite sad to know I was unable to gain some kind of closure for this relationship.
Any obvious comment or ideas?
He might of been flirting the whole time. I am a Salvadoran myself and I don't think that's cool. But personally I don't think it's cool for people to post their relationship problems here on the Internet for it is not safe and dirty minded kids here make the Internet very repulsive. What I suggest is to talk to him and tell him what you feel and if he keeps up, best thing to do is to just move on. There's much better people you can bond relationships with. It's not worth dealing with flirts.
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Apr 13, 2013
 

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I m a salvadorean guy and I admit that most of the salvadorean want to have sex almost with any woman that they see but not all of the salvadorean guys are like that!! I can't talk about myself here but I say that we all have good habits and bad habits.... I want to make the exception and it is really hard but it is not impossible I just need to be a man and hold my pans up!!!
Indigo

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#76
Apr 18, 2013
 
Lamiya wrote:
Well I know for one they love to work and provide for their family at least mines does and after a good 11 yrs the sex is still grrreat! Can't lie though they can be a pain in the a** but I figure thats with every man!
There is one El Salvadorian man who has become very interested in me. He appears to be very kind, and he works very hard. He works for the real estate company I rent from. His work is very dangerous, repairing and pointing brick walls , on the exterior of tall buildings. He came into my apartment to check the walls, and to place tape and heavy plastic on the windows,to keep out the dust. He would stop by every other day to re-check to make sure the work he and his team were doing did not cause more dust to enter my apartment. We started having conversations, about his home and mine. I am African American, and I have always believed one should follow his or her heart. I believe many people have missed their soul mate because of race, and being unwilling to simply make the effort to learn about another culture. Anyway, he has expressed his interest in me, in a kind and respectful way. Seriously, I am thinking about giving him a chance, but taking it slow. There is undeniable chemistry, that is electric. We both can feel it.
I already have a good understanding of the language, but will do some more research on the culture. I live un a multicultural neighborhood, and that alone makes things so much welximing. Also my family in general will be accepting of anyone I choose who respects me, so he would not have a problem in my family.
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#77
Apr 25, 2013
 
Salvadorian men are cheaters..and wont settle down (or willm have a couple of kids. and jump to the next woman they meet and the cycle begins).. In my experience at least. I am dating a guy from El Salvador for the past almost 5 years (also from stories he tells me about his family's men).
we broken up 2 twice once because he cheated (and he broke up with me..??? I dont get it) and the second because I was annoying and clingy.(that wouldn't have happen if I knew he was a loyal person. But overall yes they are cheaters and live a double life.(my bf's dad left his mom to be with another and prior to that the dad left the lady to be with my bf's mom)
I'm currently back with him due to the fact that he declared his love for me.. and claim that he was thinking thing over while we hung out while we were broken up almost every week. and also landed in the hospital with a near death experiences that he decided to give us another chance (I think it was because a few days prior to this.. I went out with another guy.. and he saw me and got jealous, lol that night i have 25 miss calls and 12 txt) I gave him another chance because I still loved him. Now we live together.. and found out her still talks to the ladies (they are at least 10 yrs older than him) he used to talk to before we got back together. Also.. chats up with a lot of girls on facebook.. and wont add me for some BS reason. I know how he is.. and I'm no angel I'm capable of cheating on him too. I just dont do it. Another reason why I'm back with him.. is the sex. Yep it is that great although because he is a hardworking man we don't get it on as much as i would like too..(ideal for me every day lol at least once) for him.. maybe every sat...

At first is all lovey dovey now... I'm lucky if i get an I love you OR te quiero.. I RARELY GET A TE AMO.

AMERICAN MEN = dry toast no flavor (MOST OF THEM)
SALVADORIAN MEN = DRAMA LOTS OF IT and their mothers are picky!!!
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#78
May 2, 2013
 
ale wrote:
Salvadorian men are cheaters..and wont settle down (or willm have a couple of kids. and jump to the next woman they meet and the cycle begins).. In my experience at least. I am dating a guy from El Salvador for the past almost 5 years (also from stories he tells me about his family's men).
we broken up 2 twice once because he cheated (and he broke up with me..??? I dont get it) and the second because I was annoying and clingy.(that wouldn't have happen if I knew he was a loyal person. But overall yes they are cheaters and live a double life.(my bf's dad left his mom to be with another and prior to that the dad left the lady to be with my bf's mom)
I'm currently back with him due to the fact that he declared his love for me.. and claim that he was thinking thing over while we hung out while we were broken up almost every week. and also landed in the hospital with a near death experiences that he decided to give us another chance (I think it was because a few days prior to this.. I went out with another guy.. and he saw me and got jealous, lol that night i have 25 miss calls and 12 txt) I gave him another chance because I still loved him. Now we live together.. and found out her still talks to the ladies (they are at least 10 yrs older than him) he used to talk to before we got back together. Also.. chats up with a lot of girls on facebook.. and wont add me for some BS reason. I know how he is.. and I'm no angel I'm capable of cheating on him too. I just dont do it. Another reason why I'm back with him.. is the sex. Yep it is that great although because he is a hardworking man we don't get it on as much as i would like too..(ideal for me every day lol at least once) for him.. maybe every sat...
At first is all lovey dovey now... I'm lucky if i get an I love you OR te quiero.. I RARELY GET A TE AMO.
AMERICAN MEN = dry toast no flavor (MOST OF THEM)
SALVADORIAN MEN = DRAMA LOTS OF IT and their mothers are picky!!!
Ale, I think you will last with this man because you know his ways. I rhink inspite of how he is, he is somehow able to show goi Love in his way. After all you have been thru and the sex is still great, then don't worry. At least you know who he is. He loves you "his way", which appears ro be alot fo deal with, but you appear to be able to handle him.
Jose

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#79
Oct 16, 2013
 
Every one knows that american balls are no match for latino balls , american balls are tinny compared to latino balls
Cris

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#80
Oct 20, 2013
 
Man are the same every some good some bad some controlling some nice.
Salvadorian culture has change so much because of the war and migration. So depends on the culture they grow up with but if you find a good salvadorian man he can be very good with words and he can be your best friend for ever and will be with you during the bad and good specially the bad but you have to understand the man as with any man and learn how to controll him. Every man has a way and if you learn his way of thinking you know how to control him. But salvadorian are like volcanoes for good and for bad.
The bad salvadorian man are as they say abusive controlling drunk but like I say there is good and bad in evvery culture all depends how your connection and how communicate with each other. If you find a good salvarion man its for ever.
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#81
Nov 21, 2013
 
I am writing to explain the differences between American and Salvadoran. I am married to a Salvadoran from Central America, meaning he was born and raised over there and is a first immigrant from El Salvador. He is protective, romantic, hot-headed, understanding, gentle, patient, proud, happy, stubborn, passionate, curious, affectionate, and brave. He is a family man and has lots of respect for his mom, the mom of his kids, and he will do anything for his kids. Needless to say, in American culture, it is taught that when you get married your spouse comes first. That is not the case with them, it breeds a lot of frustration and headaches. His love for his first family is immense and you will have to deal with being put on the back burner from time to time. Make sure you put the understanding out there early who you are and what you expect; independent, open communication, honesty. They will respect you more and will let you be the woman you want. If you don't, they will choose the traditional lifestyle because that is how they were raised. Opportunities for women over there aren't that great besides the traditional nurse, teachers, and restaurant workers, market stands, cooks, homemakers etc. Would I trade it, headaches, frustration, tears, no! The compassion he shows me and his willingness to sit down with me to explain his culture and what he is about keeps me mesmerized and in love. Treat them good and stay faithful and loyal to a T. The same will be returned. Keep it spicy, they love surprises and appreciation. American men have different expectations because the culture here is that women are independent and make their own decisions. That leads to the possibility of leading different lives and being ok about it. Passion dying is common and so is boredom. With Salvadoran men, they need to be with their woman and their life is yours, living separate different lives for them is a NO! Everyday will be exciting. I don't know how he does it but he does even if we are lounging. They have less money because they don't have a foundation, but if you stay with them, they work their butts off to give you the life they deserve and their status and money grow. They are more social, their friends are a huge part of their lives and so is living amongst their community and their religion. Doing that opens doors for them because their community strongly supports them monetarily too. Borrowing money from each other is commonplace. But they are good for paying it back. Living amongst each other also opens doors for work. As you can see, the ability to speak Spanish is strongly desired in America because the companies want to tap into the Latino communities in the U.S. So there you have it.
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#82
Feb 12, 2014
 
Well, first off may I say that you people (some of you) are stereotyping salvadorean men.
I am a salvadorean myself and I know for a fact, they are not all cheaters, of course some of them are but aren't all men in all cultures? I mean, you Americans have you looked at your men?
I'm sorry to be te bearer of bad news but they cheat too! It happens, it's just a matter of finding someone good.
Salvadorean man are one of the best, they love passionately, will take care of you and actually will jow you off to their friends. Sure they are macho, but their manliness makes them more desireble, they love their families and their kids ógod, mess with a salvadorean man kids and you will regret it.
They are friendly and curious, sure some of them are lazy and frustrate you, but they will do anything to bring good to their families, no one messes with a salvadorean man families. Teu are loving and will romantise you to no end, I know for a fact all of these men are like this, they are romantic with their spouses or girlfriends.
You will feel safe, they are bastards and stupid and hell, they like to party and so many more things but teu are loyal and if they have been brought up with morals they'll live up to it.
Sure some of them are pure assholes, so are American men or any other men from any nationality.
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#83
Feb 20, 2014
 
from my own experience, Salvadorean men really serves my happiness, they have something that other men don't, they're the best in bed, and they have huge ones, they're hot and handsome.
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#84
Mar 3, 2014
 
Married to an salvaradian and he broke heart not saying they are all like that but I'm not going to lie most of his family are here in America and all the male cousins cheat.. There is about 15 of them (men) and talked to all of their wife's and girlfriends and all of them said they have been cheated on by theses men... I love my husband and have two kids by him I have been with him 7 years and be cheated on me twice the first year but I loved him and stuck around.. I dont know if he has cheated since then but he has no respect for me at all I don't work so he thinks I'm his Slave talks to me disrespectful in front of our children.. He tears me down only to sweet talk me back up and the vicious cycle has been going on all these years.. Like I said I don't know if this is all the men but almost every woman I have spoken to have all said bad things about men from El Salvador.. But it sounds like there are some good men reading from these comments.. I'm Native American but have dated Hispanic men since I was 18 I'm 31 now.. I'm not going to lie if I ever break away from my husband I will never date an Hispanic man again.. Good luck to all
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#85
Saturday Mar 22
 
Badtothebone wrote:
American men have balls.
in their mouth
Salvdorean235256

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Monday Mar 24
 

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Salvadoreans - Very lazy, Corrupt, Lack of Morals, and Ugly, not really good at anything except making Pupusas which aren't all that great anyway..... We do boast a heavy crime rate a long with Hondurenos!

Americans - Hard Working, Honest, A sense of Morality exist and Beautiful, pretty much good at everything and a liason to many countries in need including Venezula who is in current crisis. Crime can be somewhat high in certain cities but nothing like EL Salvador and this guy....

http://www.csmonitor.com/var/ezflow_site/stor...

Take my word for it, my el salvadorean people are just lacking in all things good when it comes to comparing to the country USA.
amour

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they are smart in economic,sentimental, respectful, hard working, family first, yeah maybe cheat but with her being prego every other year can you blame him for trying to get his needs in a little drunken state to smooth his silence in all chaos he has to endure as a man?

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