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LIVES OF YOUR OWN mean everyone has to be abused by you!!!!

My experience

inalandaraway wrote:

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I'm pretty sure the law has recently changed, within the last year or so and they can be taken into the military later - but I believe it depends on their education.
Also, it used to be that Egyptian men married to foreign women were exempt from the military. That has FOR SURE changed and now when they go to get their exemption document it puts the military on notice that they've married a foreigner and they tend to take those guys right away.

Thank-you very much for your respectful comments. I will have to look into this more thoroughly. I appreciate your comments. Why do they take these men right away if they are married to foreign women?

My experience

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beejo wrote:

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And YOU are a 'class act'!!!
puke

Beejo,
I missed this reply of yours. Please forgive me!!! I read class act beofre I read this one and I thought you were judging Cjrissy with the others. I sincerely appologize to you! Please forgive me!

My experience

inalandaraway wrote:

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How is it adultery? An orfi/urfi marriage is a legal marriage and he's entitled to as many as four wives. He doesn't have to inform his first wife and he certainly doesn't have to have her consent to take another wife.
If he married her with an orfu/urfi there was no adultery.

Actually yes they have to ask their first wife's permission apparantly. Any way its just their eay of asking man made releigion to commit adultery. When are ppl going to leave the old testament and start living in the new testament? It states that one man one wife only. The old testament was made to populate the world...hang in there Chrissy!!! You don't deserve this at all...I'm so angry that this happened to you!!

inalandaraway

Since: May 09

Alexandria, Egypt

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My experience wrote:

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Why do they take these men right away if they are married to foreign women?

Because so many of them used it as a way out of serving in the military. There was A LOT of men marrying foreign women, getting their exemption (and sometimes using the exemption letter to obtain a visa out of Egypt), then divorcing her. Not everyone, of course, but enough of it that the rules changed. I guess the Egyptian government figures that if he's married for the right reasons, the marriage will endure the length of time it takes for him to complete his military service and not however long it takes to get exempted and, maybe, a visa.

inalandaraway

Since: May 09

Alexandria, Egypt

My experience wrote:

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Actually yes they have to ask their first wife's permission apparantly. Any way its just their eay of asking man made releigion to commit adultery. When are ppl going to leave the old testament and start living in the new testament? It states that one man one wife only. The old testament was made to populate the world...hang in there Chrissy!!! You don't deserve this at all...I'm so angry that this happened to you!!

Multiple wives in Egypt has nothing to do with either the Old or New Testament but, rather, the Qu'ran. Egyptian family law is totally based on Sharia law, meaning its foundation is Islam.

And, no, he does not have to aske his first wife's permission to marry another. He doesn't even have to tell her that he's thinking about it or that he's done it.

Egypt did change Personal Status laws during Sadat's time to say the GOVERNMENT must inform wives of their husband's subsequent marriages. But just because there's a law on the books doesn't mean it's enforced.

My mail carrier sits in a sheesha cafe all day and calls the people on his route to tell them he has a piece of mail for them. They go to him, hand him some money, and he gives them their mail. Now, if my husband took another wife and the government sent me a notice, do you think the mail carrier is going to call ME and tell me to come and pick up MY mail? Of course not. He would call my husband because that's the only phone number he has. So if my husband tries to hide another wife from me, or me from another wife, how would either of us know? Short answer: we wouldn't.

Chrissythemoo

beejo wrote:

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Except that you gave us all a big headache trying to double check your 'find' to ensure he was not going to take advantage of youy!!!!
So what's good for the goose......
A case of double standards I say!!!!

We ALL have double standards Beejo, whether we admit it or not. And I gave you all a big headache in trying to check????

I had him checked by a British investigative journalist, I dont recall pleading with everyone to check my guy out...

and yes, what is wrong with trying to ensure that someone with no money is not going to try to take mine????

I am certainly not going to try to get his money as he doesnt have any!! And hell will freeze over before I marry an Egyptian to get a Visa to live in Egypt!

And it was not me saying that I was using and abusing, it was the strangely bitter and twisted woman that apparently has a strong solid happy marriage with an Egyptian. Maybe he had her circumcised or something nd she's trying to spoil everyone else's fun..who knows...

I did not say I was using and abusing, I said so what if I was. Very different!

Chrissythemoo

inalandaraway wrote:

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Multiple wives in Egypt has nothing to do with either the Old or New Testament but, rather, the Qu'ran. Egyptian family law is totally based on Sharia law, meaning its foundation is Islam.
And, no, he does not have to aske his first wife's permission to marry another. He doesn't even have to tell her that he's thinking about it or that he's done it.
Egypt did change Personal Status laws during Sadat's time to say the GOVERNMENT must inform wives of their husband's subsequent marriages. But just because there's a law on the books doesn't mean it's enforced.
My mail carrier sits in a sheesha cafe all day and calls the people on his route to tell them he has a piece of mail for them. They go to him, hand him some money, and he gives them their mail. Now, if my husband took another wife and the government sent me a notice, do you think the mail carrier is going to call ME and tell me to come and pick up MY mail? Of course not. He would call my husband because that's the only phone number he has. So if my husband tries to hide another wife from me, or me from another wife, how would either of us know? Short answer: we wouldn't.

Hiya, just one quick question.

What does this mean:

The two partners promise that they will offer this contract to the concealed to finish all paper to the contract (to make the contract as a document)

Chrissythemoo

mouow wrote:

Chrissy my dear, I'm a Western woman, one with ten years of marriage to an Egyptian man who a woman like you could never get let alone keep.
You may enjoy the sex for a while but you will never find the contentment of a long term lasting marriage with an attitude like yours.
You are a user and an abuser.

Going on your hostility, anger and bitterness, I would say your 10+ year marriage is not a happy one, why else would you be here??? If you were blissfully happy you would be enjoying your life instead of coming on here trying to sow the seeds of doubt in the minds of others and hurling abuse.

Get a life mouow, or rather, get a new life.

I bet you are muslim aren't you. Your medieval views give it away...

Chrissythemoo

My experience and Izzygirl,

Calm down ladies. Lol!

I very much appreciate your support, thankyou.

However, I need to let you both know that these people are not upsetting me. On the contrary, I am laughing at them because they are pathetic.

Laugh with me girls!

Chrissy
x

Chrissythemoo

inalandaraway wrote:

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Multiple wives in Egypt has nothing to do with either the Old or New Testament but, rather, the Qu'ran. Egyptian family law is totally based on Sharia law, meaning its foundation is Islam.
And, no, he does not have to aske his first wife's permission to marry another. He doesn't even have to tell her that he's thinking about it or that he's done it.
Egypt did change Personal Status laws during Sadat's time to say the GOVERNMENT must inform wives of their husband's subsequent marriages. But just because there's a law on the books doesn't mean it's enforced.
My mail carrier sits in a sheesha cafe all day and calls the people on his route to tell them he has a piece of mail for them. They go to him, hand him some money, and he gives them their mail. Now, if my husband took another wife and the government sent me a notice, do you think the mail carrier is going to call ME and tell me to come and pick up MY mail? Of course not. He would call my husband because that's the only phone number he has. So if my husband tries to hide another wife from me, or me from another wife, how would either of us know? Short answer: we wouldn't.

I am assuming that that law only works if the marriage is registered. How can the government possibly know otherwise.

inalandaraway

Since: May 09

Alexandria, Egypt

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Chrissythemoo wrote:

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I am assuming that that law only works if the marriage is registered. How can the government possibly know otherwise.

Exactly.

beejo

Judged:

Chrissythemoo wrote:

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We ALL have double standards Beejo, whether we admit it or not. And I gave you all a big headache in trying to check????
I had him checked by a British investigative journalist, I dont recall pleading with everyone to check my guy out...
and yes, what is wrong with trying to ensure that someone with no money is not going to try to take mine????
I am certainly not going to try to get his money as he doesnt have any!! And hell will freeze over before I marry an Egyptian to get a Visa to live in Egypt!
And it was not me saying that I was using and abusing, it was the strangely bitter and twisted woman that apparently has a strong solid happy marriage with an Egyptian. Maybe he had her circumcised or something nd she's trying to spoil everyone else's fun..who knows...
I did not say I was using and abusing, I said so what if I was. Very different!

You had this guy 'investigated'you say[and I do not believe you for a moment!]
You are aiding and abetting a man to commit adultery
You have one set of values for your interest and another for others
That is hypocritical
The woman who is happily married is trying to tell it like it is and you and those who cheer
you on are also hypocrites like inalandaraway who recently was also worried about her own husband

You need some counselling
You must be desperate to behave this way or ugly and unable to find a nice boy in your own country!

It seems to me that the moniker you have applied to yourself suits you perfectly

rambo

Chrissythemoo wrote:

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Going on your hostility, anger and bitterness, I would say your 10+ year marriage is not a happy one, why else would you be here??? If you were blissfully happy you would be enjoying your life instead of coming on here trying to sow the seeds of doubt in the minds of others and hurling abuse.
Get a life mouow, or rather, get a new life.
I bet you are muslim aren't you. Your medieval views give it away...

And YOU are offensive to someone's religion moo

Chrissythemoo

Judged:

Right people,

I am not coming back here again. I am an adult and cannot be bothered to engage in childish arguments with bitter and twisted people who seem to wish their unhappiness on others.

Thank you to all of you who posted nice, sensible, constructive posts. They were most welcome and read with interest.

To the ones who like to throw insults around - I hope you eventually find the happiness that is obviously lacking in your lives and can go on to become less bitter.

Adios!

Chrissy

Chrissythemoo

rambo wrote:

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And YOU are offensive to someone's religion moo

Sue me!

rambo

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Chrissythemoo wrote:

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Sue me!

Good riddance to rubbish

My experience

I'm leaving these sights as well. Chrissy good for you for having your guy investigated. That was a very smart thing to do. I'm glad to have met a few of you. Many are positive on here and others are too critical. I'm disappointed with what I read from ppl last night and was appauled. I'm a very positive person and I don't find this positive anymore. Thank-you to those who have given me great advice and support. I appreciate all the conversations. I wish everyone luck in their lives and safety at all times.

royko

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Chrissythemoo wrote:

Right people,
I am not coming back here again. I am an adult and cannot be bothered to engage in childish arguments with bitter and twisted people who seem to wish their unhappiness on others.
Thank you to all of you who posted nice, sensible, constructive posts. They were most welcome and read with interest.
To the ones who like to throw insults around - I hope you eventually find the happiness that is obviously lacking in your lives and can go on to become less bitter.
Adios!
Chrissy

Practise what you preach trailer park trash
Go back to your miserable row house moo
You are just another cheap English floozie

maria