It is always amazing to me how little some women know about the man's culture before getting involved or marrying him. FIRST, you were 42 and he was 24 ??!!?? Comeon, are you serious?<quoted text>
Be very careful, be very wary of things he says and does...continous lying seems to be a survival character for them....personally i am just about to come out from the heart breaking situation with a 24 year old egyptian guy from Zigazig i met thru the internet brought me. In short, I paid for him to come to Malaysia as the chatting has lead to a relationship leading to marriage. I am a divorcee and boy did I fell for this guy or what...call me stupid but this was decreed to be. Once he got to Malaysia, he demands just about everything under the sky...paid for his apartmnet and all the new furnishings and goods to make his life comfortable before we got married. Then had to give him money so he can renew his visit visa...was I in for a surprise...he went with another Malaysian lady who was 3 years younger then me whom, now i know, he has been dating on the pretext of business. Apparently, they have been sleeping together without my knowledge. After the overseas trip, he was adamant about needing money to run the business with his friend in USA and need to make money so he could prove to my family that he is capable to take care of me and will let him marry me. On this reasons and that I really cared about him, I gave him the money he needed...and I was in for a big surprise when his landlord informed me he just got married 1 day before i gave him the money for our future life and 1 day after he moved out from the apartment i rented for him with all the things i bought for us and my brand new laptop and broadband...that almost killed a 42 years old woman from major heartbreak. Now i do not know where he is but I am sure he has spent my hard earn cash well on the other woman, whom he has called fat and ugly to me to divert my attention.
No red flags ?? You could be his mother!
SECOND, never ever EVER give them money, not a dollar, not a pound, not a sterling NOTHING. Why should you have to pay his way? You should have asked him to work in Egypt and save his own money before joining you and paying his own way. The minute he started asking you for money you should have had immigration ship him back to his flea-ridden dusty village back in the middle of Nowhere, Egypt. He is probably low-class, little to no education and sucking off of women to get anything so he can go back home and look like a celebrity.
In their culture the man is so low to even take the smallest thing from a woman. In their culture if he marries a woman older it is usually for A REASON. It does happen but rarely and even if it does it usually isn't much older, maybe 5 years.
Please ladies, get to know the culture he is coming from before you jump off of the marital bridge. You have no idea how differnet it is and you're just asking for trouble if you do not.